The Awkward Silence

Welcome to The Awkward Silence! Here, you can find the general discussion for https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com. Feel free to ask your questions about the site, or participate when people are practicing their small talk skills! HNQ Feed: https://chat.stackexchange.com/rooms/94066/hnq-feed
11d ago – Tinkeringbell
Journeyman Geek: 144d ago, 8100 posts (2%)
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Jun 19, 2018 13:39
sometimes the users need to be reminded to answer your actual question, not to 'solve' your life
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May 22, 2019 19:45
Perfectly balanced, as all things should be
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Aug 5, 2017 04:27
This site has and will continue to attract a lot of very passionate, dedicated people who have very strong feelings about the subject matter... And who will disagree vehemently with each other, over things both large and small.
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May 2, 2019 17:00
Tinkeringtroll has a nice ring to it.
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Apr 29, 2019 13:55
@IPSCommentBot That's sad. I'm sorry your human overlords don't let you have any fun :(
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May 15, 2018 13:24
@Mithrandir ()() isn't a palindrome... ())( Is :P
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May 2, 2018 02:04
@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ Either Stack Overflow is the first group of humans in recorded history to have solved all the issues of race and gender, or... There's room for improvement.
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Apr 10, 2019 14:35
@doppelgreener we delete everything XD
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Oct 22, 2022 20:23
it's quiet in here
Apr 3, 2019 13:46
Not to sound overeager, but what's the status on our HNQ reinstatement? Or the decisions around it? What needs to happen to consider we have "community consensus?" And would this be better as a meta post?
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Apr 22, 2018 16:46
Look. There's a problem. We haven't fixed all the problems. But we're working on fixing them. Perhaps not as quickly as you'd like or in exactly the same way as you'd prefer. But please respect the fact that there are people trying, all in their own way, to fix it. But being unconstructive is not going to help your case.
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Apr 22, 2018 16:21
And many others have been very tactfully telling you that they are disappointed in how you are handling the situation.
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Apr 17, 2018 23:04
There are 100 comments on that question you're talking about. Please, tell me how many is "the odd"?
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Apr 17, 2018 15:43
It would also be nice if people would just not make so many irrelevant comments in the first place. . .
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Jun 4, 2021 12:00
IN SOVIET RUSSIA, ASS KICK YOU
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Apr 16, 2018 23:33
Please please don't ping mods instead of flagging.
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Mar 25, 2019 18:24
@Tinkeringbell I think Mythbusters proved that one wrong - you only think you're keeping warm :P
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Mar 20, 2018 20:45
It's really, really difficult to justify close reasons if y'all don't use custom close reasons. Using the "generic "This question does not appear to be about interpersonal skills, within the scope defined in the help center." close reason is not really helping us figure out why questions are closed. The "other" option is there because it tells the user more directly why their question is a bad fit.
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Mar 1, 2019 15:57
I love you. All of you. Thanks for being here.
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user15026
Mar 9, 2018 22:51
Knowing when not to answer is just as important as knowing when to answer.
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Feb 21, 2019 21:49
I store cookies locally, in a folder I call "stomach".
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Feb 18, 2019 19:52
Ah, Shakespeare. Known for his proper use of English :P
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Mar 6, 2020 06:48
TGIF :D
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Feb 20, 2018 16:04
@Tinkeringbell Then don't? If you don't/can't deal with it, step back and find something else to do. Answer questions... ask one. That's what Diamond Mods do... we step back, take a breath, and decide whether we can deal with it or not. Nothing on SE is so urgent that it requires immediate, constant action.
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Feb 8, 2019 15:16
The oldest and most revered of the shoes
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Feb 19, 2020 15:57
Summoning a line of godlike Star Trek beings: cue Q queue.
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Feb 6, 2018 20:37
As shitty as it is, we can not delete content just because we disagree with it.
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Apr 27, 2021 14:07
Its better to go lucid (and hopefully peacefully) than to lose your mind
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Feb 14, 2020 17:37
I'm always willing to drop almost three years of posts and meta discussions on people :P
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Jan 29, 2018 18:44
Hello folks! I've been running a little bot at @Mithrandir's request that tracks comments on IPS. Mith's asked me to start having the bot post comments that match certain criteria in here, so I'm just going to start the bot. Also, if the bot is being stoopoid, it turns on/off with !!/on or !!/off. Please ping me with any questions/comments/concerns/anger/sadness/screaming/etc.
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Jan 16, 2019 19:58
I haven't pinged everyone but I have to say, I deeply care about you all, you all are so inspiring people, you motivate me to become a better person every day, you helped me realize who I am and who I want to be as a person, talking with you makes my meltdowns less painful ... I could say a lot of things, but let's put it simple: thank you.
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Jan 23, 2018 20:45
@D.Hutchinson I think you're a little too snowblind trying to take his question in context of SE - and IPS specifically - and it hurts your answer. If you think the question is too broad, don't answer it. Ask for clarification. Starting an answer with "Your question is too broad so I'm going to interpret it the way I want to interpret it ... it's not helpful".
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Feb 7, 2020 13:43
im not a cis-sitter
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Jan 19, 2018 13:45
Mith just wants to send me to an early grave, buried under a mound of comment flags.
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Feb 4, 2020 13:29
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Jan 16, 2018 18:36
I don't understand why a woman being tired of being told to smile affects any of the other issues that are going on in the world... We all have shit we have to deal with... Let's work together to fight all of the problems rather than devaluing one person's problem because they're not also yours.
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Apr 14, 2021 19:50
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Jan 7, 2019 15:48
Ehh. It's more like a busy construction site. Some users here like to keep an eye on tags, others are great at editing, others make sure everyone wears a safety hat, and then there's the people that make sure your safety harness is on correctly.. and there's a few mods that help out wherever needed, sending people without hard hats or safety harnesses home.
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Jan 8, 2018 17:53
> And so it was, on 1/8/2018, Catija was demoted and kicked off Stack Exchange for posting crimes against beer.
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Jan 29, 2020 16:18
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Jan 2, 2019 21:28
If you gave stuff away this holiday season and you maybe kinda like SE swag, don't forget to tell Tim about it!! meta.stackexchange.com/q/321399/232439
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ThZ
Jan 2, 2019 15:35
at some point you must accept your condition, so you can embrace life
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A J
Dec 31, 2018 12:00
Wishing you all a happy new year full of happiness! Say goodbye to the old and embrace the new with full of hope, dream and ambition.
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Jan 23, 2020 11:40
That's kinda sad. Everyone should be used to kindness :(
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Jan 21, 2020 17:28
Changing subject: any equally socially inept people wanna chat?. I feel like this sentence should be on our room description :p
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Jan 15, 2020 21:29
And that's without counting what you'll have to read between the lines, right? :p
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Dec 13, 2018 15:54
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Jan 9, 2020 16:27
I think I've gotten mad at just about every language I've used for some reason or another
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