The Awkward Silence

Anilla

01:22

Let's go bot! We chattin' away :D

TheTinyMan

@Ash Waiting is always the worst. :-(

Anilla

@Ash It took my uncle over a year to get my aunt moved into the states :( it's rough

ElizB

02:41

@AJ I didnt get to say before but congratulations on your engagement :)

A J

@ElizB Thank you. :) And no worries :)

ElizB

@AJ welcome :)

dhein

06:26

Morning :)

Anilla

06:41

@dhein Evening :) Just finished posting an SO question. I always worry I might leave a bad programmatic comment message when posting my code there XD code can get pretty frustrating

Stackoverflow is so scary... I ask a question and almost instantly it's at the bottom of the page :O

Mithrandir

That's why people tend to watch tags, not the front page. The volume is kinda ridiculous.

dhein

yep x)

Anilla

07:01

Anyone know someone who is slightly addicted to GoLang? :P

dhein

Yeah, but can't involve coworkers here. >.<

Sorry pal :D

Anilla

Aww man hehe... tell 'em to join the network :P

Whoah, I've never seen an answer like that before

user15026

Spam like that happens all over the network unfortunately

Tinkeringbell

Well, this one is gone!

Morning :)

dhein

You didn't? I made most of my 500 corporal flags on SO with them. Just hunt the front page for -2/-3 rated posts and you find like 4~5 of them withing 1 hour ^^

@Tinkeringbell 0/ How r u doing? :)

Anilla

07:11

@Tinkeringbell Nice going! Good evening / night

I'm prolly gonna hit the hay here soon :P

dhein

@Anilla But then they would see how often I am in here rather than focused on work :x

Tinkeringbell

@dhein Okayish. It feels too early to be awake, but the sunrise is pretty to watch today

dhein

@Tinkeringbell Sounds like a fair deal :P

Tinkeringbell

It lacks a coffee

But yeah, it's okay ;)

Anilla

@dhein Oh shoot that's a good point XD

Tinkeringbell

07:12

How about you?

dhein

Thanks for asking. Personal life is still great. I embrace my recent change so much and I also start experiencing that my whole change in mentality makes me more attractive for the opposite gender. What was the main source at first hand. So I can say I found my way out of a rabbit hole. And I enjoy getting up and enjoying life every morning... So I feel great x)

About looking for a flat. its soo draining. Visited 2 flats again yesterday. Tried my best with being empathic and sympathic to get an advantage over other competitors. And I think at one flat I might have done with success... I will see ^^

Anilla

@dhein Oooo let us know how that goes :) Glad to hear you're getting things together :D I'm gonna head off now. Have a nice day all!

dhein

@Anilla Sleep tight :)

Ælis

Hello people :)

Jasper

Hello. =)

Ælis

07:23

@dhein I feel you here, that's the reason why I don't want to move again at the end of my probation

Tinkeringbell

@dhein Fingers crossed!

@dhein Good to hear :)

Jasper

I think this is the most friendly room on SE. =) I get a warm fuzzy feeling every time I enter.

Ælis

@Jasper Hehe <3

Also, I find that a lot of SE chat are just a gost town

dhein

The owners of the house (and the whole house + garden) looked like they are pretty much the "greenie" kind of person. The wife of the owner was showing my the flat. And her husband mentioned already at the phone, that it has high priority for them to actually like their neighbours they rent the flat to.
His wife wasn't really communicative at all. She wasn't even showing me the flat but expecting me to explore the flat my self and just ask questions if I feel like >.<

So knowing a bit about Interpersonal skills, I knew, if we don't have any conversations, I pretty much have no chance of be…

Sooooo I think I did quite well in the "liking the to-be neighbour" requirement :D Actually I don't really like the flat per se.... But I think liking it is a requirement I can't effort here xD

@Ælis Yeah, that mentioned flat, would require me in the long run to move at some point again. I am primary trying to find a flat where I could stay for the next decades and would even work, if at somepoint I have a SO I wanted to move together with. So I am looking for 3+ rooms and 70+m^2 This flat tho, has a large open room with like 65 m^2 which also has the kitchen openly in it. and then just a 2nd room with 15ish m^2 where only a bed would fit in. So a neat bachelor pad. But thats it.

Ok I am focusing on work now :)
ttyl 0/

Ælis