Hi @EmC thank you for your answer (https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/a/20181/23093)
I have a few comments, but they would not fit in a comment below your answer, so I am here.
> Unless there's more to the story
well, yes, there is a bit more, particularly the word they chose to explain the situation.
> it's quite disrespectful to argue about that.
I'm sorry if I am coming across as "arguing". I do not want to debate their answer. It is true that I made a guess on possible motivations on the wording they have chosen.