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12:33 AM
@apaul I love Stimtastic! That's where I got my spinner ring. I need to get me some chewy jewelry at some point.
 
@Catija mmm. What's the one in the lower left?
 
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Q: Best way to ask a new friend on a date

BeeBopLast summer I met this girl at a festival. I had this almost instant feeling she's perfect girlfriend material. Turns out though that just a few days earlier she'd fallen for another guy at the festival and they ended up going on a trip afterwards. We did however continue chatting and bonding dur...

 
@Catija mm, sounds yummy.
 
1:17 AM
@MonicaCellio it's good :) they all are.
So... I have a problem... I was going to take the cakes to work tomorrow to share... but they've cancelled our workday due to weather... do I just eat the cake myself???
 
@Catija yes
 
I still have 3/4 of each left...
I guess I could freeze some.
 
1:40 AM
@Catija they should freeze well, right? The almond and chocolate should at least, and presumably the other two too. So long as they're wrapped tight and sealed, they should be fine. I've frozen half-cakes before.
Of course, subtract the part you're going to eat tonight first. :-)
 
Apparently we're short on freezer space.
 
Oh dear. So just how cold is it outside there?
 
Well, it was in the 60s today... apparently we're getting a cold front and it's going down to 20 and won't be above freezing until Wednesday...
Two years ago they closed the entire school district and the city but nothing happened... it was amusing.
 
Ok, so too warm to store things outside in lieu of your freezer, then. Maybe the folks at Seasoned Advice have some thoughts on how to best preserve your partial cakes?
 
2:35 AM
Hmm...
 
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Q: Not sure if have to give up priority seat as not sure if lady is pregnant or just plus sized

SusmithaFirstly, please do correct me if it is not right/respectful to use the phrase ‘plus sized’ as I am unsure of how it would be taken as, in other countries/cultures. Sometimes I face the situation and have seen people face the situation where, I am sitting on a priority seat and a lady boards the ...

 
 
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4:58 AM
@ArtOfCode Are ya around?
 
5:53 AM
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Q: How to tactfully chase about an unsolved difficulty, managed by someone now ill?

Canada - Area 51 Proposal3 weeks ago, I emailed a Manager for help with a time-sensitive difficulty that her assistant didn't solve. 2 weeks ago, Assistant emailed me that she was ill and they'd appreciate my patience, but didn't recommend other Senior Executives to contact. I still haven't heard from her, but how do I t...

 
 
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7:43 AM
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Q: How to tell a colleague to not to drink water from my bottle?

PeacefulSo I have a water bottle in my office and to fill it every time is a tiring business. I need to walk to a different floor than I sit and then I need to wait till other people fill their bottles. Then after filling it, I need to come back to my office. Here is a colleague of mine who sits next d...

 
8:14 AM
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Q: This is a insider WARNING with assembler,c,c++,jquery html5 experience facing huge inside manipulation off code in browsers

marc van den broeckTo any developper targetting to web as UI , as all we know the https issue, did anyone actualy knows the real reason? As I do and it isn't a question but a massive call to coders with knowledge off low level tcp/ip and how Win10 abuses the user as this is a windows that has the winStore with UDP ...

 
@ExtrovertedMainMan wat
 
8:52 AM
One more vote and it's gone.
 
9:03 AM
Where or where have all the people gone? To roughly paraphrase a song from somewhere.
17 faces on the board, and only 4 close votes. :(
 
nuked
I was in a meeting, sorry
 
meeting shmeeting ;P
 
 
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11:22 AM
@GypsySpellweaver Not enough rep to cast close votes
I can't make sense of this rant, its a bunch of non sense statements pasted together...
 
@AJ Whatcha need?
 
11:38 AM
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Q: How to tell a colleague to not to drink water from my bottle?

PeacefulSo I have a water bottle in my office and to fill it every time is a tiring business. I need to walk to a different floor than I sit and then I need to wait till other people fill their bottles. Then after filling it, I need to come back to my office. Here is a colleague of mine who sits next d...

every... single... comment... is... an... answer...
hrngggg
 
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11:49 AM
@ArtOfCode I tried installing updates, but some of them were failed. What could be the reason?
 
12:10 PM
...I just VTCed my own questions
 
1:01 PM
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Q: What should I do if I have a nosebleed in the middle of a meeting?

Arwen UndómielI've got a problem with my nose. It randomly starts bleeding whenever, especially when I have a cold or the weather is changing. It's been known to suddenly start bleeding even when I'm just standing there. It can take anywhere between two minutes and an hour to stop the bleeding, and there's no ...

How about focusing on your goal "I don't want to miss anything in the meeting"?
like "How do I communicate that I don't want to miss parts of a meeting when I suddenly have a nosebleed?"
get rid of the "should" questions
add the other goal (not grossing others out) as an additional goal at the end
 
That would invalidate existing answers.
 
yes, this was also my concern
"How to politely deal with having a nosebleed in the middle of a meeting?"
 
Still essentially a "What do I do" question.
 
it's tough
Does this answer meet the site's standards: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/a/9182/2625 Two sentences, no explanation, no backing up, just a suggestion
 
Nope.
 
1:14 PM
I had flagged it before, but was disputed
 
So mod flag.
 
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Q: What do I do when I don't know how to say what I want to say in the language that the conversation is taking place in?

Arwen UndómielI'm mostly bilingual - I speak (hopefully) decent English and I speak Hebrew that's passable most of the time (although I have a pretty strong accent that I have to work on). But sometimes I run into a problem where I don't know how to say what I want to say. For instance, a couple of days ago I...

did you VTC again?
 
Yes
 
but this should be salvageable
the answers focus on communication
so turn it into something about communicating that you don't know how to express it
 
1:30 PM
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1:41 PM
Dang, looked like I missed some fun
 
Not particularly.
 
@HDE226868 that was tongue in cheek.
 
hmm, actually one of the first times I've been hit with something unintuitive with C# :(
 
C sharp, D flat, all the same thing.
 
2:17 PM
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Q: Are meta questions on the decrease and if so, why?

English StudentJust looking at the "newest" questions list on IPS meta I am surprised to find that only 12 questions have been asked in the first 15 days of this month. I sense that is a low rate of new meta questions compared to all previous fortnights. Is this typical of January or are meta questions on the...

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Q: Are we ready to announce the quarterly awards contest for October-December 2017?

English StudentWhen I asked a meta question about the 150th day awards contest in November there was a general consensus that we were going towards the quarterly award pattern with the first contest to be announced in January for answers submitted in the period October 1 to December 31. So December 31 is past ...

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Q: How is this question too broad?

English StudentHow to respond to a brother with the basic attitude: "You are right and I have my peace"? I do not understand how this closed question is too broad. It is restricted to a specific interpersonal issue with one person and seems to provide adequate details about the problem. I voted to reopen bec...

 
@JarkoDubbeldam What was it?
Also morning everyone! :-D
 
Good dusk.
 
good.... whatever?
 
@TheTinyMan about assigning a class object to a variable. I didn't expect it to just copy the reference, instead of making a deep copy
 
@JarkoDubbeldam Oh, yep. That's how it generally works. It'd be a pain if it was a deep copy all the time, haha.
Isn't that how most languages work?
 
2:25 PM
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A: How is this question too broad?

TinkeringbellFirst, there's this sentence in the question: "Arguing that you don’t care about the right to privacy because you have nothing to hide is no different than saying you don’t care about free speech because you have nothing to say" Then, immediately after OP posted their question, they also p...

 
Possibly
 
2:47 PM
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Q: Why was this question about public transportation etiquette closed as "opinion-based"?

Em CI'm referring to this question: Not sure if have to give up priority seat as not sure if lady is pregnant or just plus sized The basic question there is: When I can't tell if a lady is pregnant or not, should I offer my seat to her? If so, how? This was put on hold as primarily opinion-bas...

 
3:06 PM
Morning folks
 
mourning, folks
 
Mining folks?
Or moaning folks, but this isn't the chat room for that.
 
@TheTinyMan there are days when I think that the only reason I have to continue living is that it p1sses so many people off.
 
@TheSnarkKnight Oh yeah? Pissed anyone off?
 
@TheTinyMan three people so far today, but I haven't had breakfast yet, so the day is young
 
3:17 PM
@TheSnarkKnight Man, before I have breakfast, everything looks pissed off. Even the happy emoji on Facebook.
 
@TheTinyMan I also revamped my diet for my diabetes. THEN, I got this stomach bug where I couldn't keep anything in me except.... carbs. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I'm surly to bed and surly to rise
I really need to get to an open mike night and vent by doing some standup.
 
But you have a captive audience right here. We don't have anything better to do, at least not during business hours. :-P
 
struggles to get out of bonds
 
@Mithrandir Trying to exit the rat race?
 
Just didn't feel like being part of the captive audience.
 
3:27 PM
@TheSnarkKnight What do you think, ropes, chains, or handcuffs, for @Mithrandir?
 
that was an odd message to read out of context in the sidebar from another room
 
@ArtOfCode It's only a little bit better in context, I guess, isn't it? Hmm.
 
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@apaul evening
 
@TheTinyMan don't tempt me, my blue humor is not for the faint of heart
 
@TheTinyMan Umm... I can come back later... If...
 
3:42 PM
@apaul ah, stay, you're bound to enjoy the topic
 
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Q: Avoiding unnecessary touches from doctors

GlinesMomeI'm currently in my late twenties, I have an illness that requires me to go to see various doctors and paramedical practitioners. Over the last 12 months, I went to 7 differents doctors/practitioners, 3 of them were males and among the females, 3 of them have made an 'unecessary physical contact'...

 
@TheSnarkKnight That didn't sound creepy at all, much reassured.
 
@apaul That's okay! We have the latest question to take the creepiness spotlight off of us!
 
@apaul this may come as no surprise to you, but I once scared off three assailants by being creepy.
If you think I'm a nut now, I've matured considerably over the past few decades
 
Mhmm
awkwardness intensifies
 
3:51 PM
@TheSnarkKnight I once intimidated a carjacker into not stealing my car
 
@TheSnarkKnight ouch, I loved that
 
4:07 PM
Ah... That makes a little more sense after some coffee. I missed how things took a strange turn in here.
The brain doesn't fully function without the coffee.
 
@Catija I see your four bundts, and raise you phad thai
 
I tend to get a coffee as soon as my cup gets cold from the previous cup. I got to work at 7am this morning and it's 4pm now. My brain still isn't fully functioning.
 
@TimPost Oooo phad thai
 
@TheTinyMan a friend of mine confused a mugger who demanded 10 dollars by saying "No, you give me ten dollars!"
 
@TheSnarkKnight That's hilarious xD
 
4:14 PM
@TimPost One of my favorite things. I make a dirty bachelor version with peanut butter, caramelized onions, and bacon.
 
@TheTinyMan when you don't react to a predator in the way the predator THINKS you should, they tend to rethink their actions. A friend of mine, tiny little thing, about 100 lbs soaking wet, scared off some guys who were going to attack her by going psycho on them.
She put on a scolding "mommy" voice and asked them if their mothers knew what they were doing and what they would think, and what Jesus would think of what they were doing.
She actually frightened them off
 
@TheSnarkKnight Most predators are looking for easy, low risk targets. It isn't hard to look like you're more trouble than you're worth.
 
@TheSnarkKnight I'll bet they were looking for easy pickings, too. It's a bit more of a pain if you run into someone looking for a challenge, but thankfully, that hasn't happened in my adult life.
 
@apaul If you know what it is and have had it (authentic), it's kind of hard to make it incorrectly if your goal is to just make your own version of it (which is what I love about Thai food in general). I make mine with brewed soy sauce, good oyster sauce, fish sauce, fermented chili sauce and also a little peanut butter :)
 
@apaul yep. The time that the three guys came after me, I was spoiling for a fight myself, and literally didn't care if I lived or died. They must have picked up on that.
@TheTinyMan it's more than easy pickings. What it does is trigger something primal in the predator. If the prey doesn't consider you to be a threat, then this is not prey, it is a threat.
 
4:20 PM
@TheSnarkKnight Yep :-)
 
I also use peanut butter in vinaigrette with champagne vinegar and fresh pomelo juice & pulp for a Vietnamese style salad or dipping sauce for fresh spring rolls
 
@TimPost The fish/oyster sauces taste wonderful, but smell evil.
 
@apaul The smell cooks out pretty quickly, I actually like the smell of it hitting a searing hot cast iron wok
 
@TimPost Oh, I know the smell cooks off, but it's usually not a smell I look forward too. Mixes really well with chillies.
One of those weird things. All of my instincts yell that this isn't what edible food smells like, then it marries and adds an interesting depth to a dish.
Fermented foods always make me wonder... "Who was the first person to try this? They must have been really hungry to give this a shot...'
 
@apaul I think that about a whole lot of things that are integral to our life, really
 
4:29 PM
@apaul The trial and error that went into that gets hilarious in theory if you ponder it long enough.
Some kid discovered that licking the bottom of certain toads can get you 'high' and when I read that I'm like WHAT THE HELL ELSE DID THAT KID LICK?
 
Everything from fire to cooking to some unmentionables to language...
 
@TimPost At least it was a kid. Kids are known for putting things in their mouths/ licking stuff... would be weirder for an adult tbh....
 
I'd assume that some things were happy accidents. Like jarring or pickling gone wrong/right, but some fermented foods will kill you if you taste them too early/late.
@TimPost That one struck me as a kid that half skimmed a paper about poisonous frogs and spotted the word "hallucinate"
 
I don't understand the "people eating tide pods" thing. Does anyone actually look at those and have their "that's a food" sense go off like all the Facebook posts claim??
 
4:39 PM
No
 
@apaul nearly every society that eats fermented foods went through times of great famine
 
@TheSnarkKnight Are there many societies that never went through times of great famine?
 
mmmmmmmmmmm, pods.
 
@TheSnarkKnight That part makes sense. At a certain point in starvation you start to lose higher brain function.
I have similar thoughts about lobsters... "Hey see that giant sea-roach. I wonder what it tastes like."
 
@apaul Oh, I can see why we'd try eating any animal. Either, "hold my toad, watch this!" or "That thing is dangerous, I'll bet we can kill it, then we might as well eat it." (Or, you know, "let's try to protect the tribe from that thing by killing it, then we might as well eat it.")
Hey @HDE226868, you'd make a wise dragon.
 
4:46 PM
@TheTinyMan Redneck's famous last words "Hey y'all watch this!"
 
@apaul Yep
 
"Hold my toad" has a nice ring to it lol
 
@apaul ...man, I didn't even think of that :-p
 
@TheTinyMan Funny, we just had a couple dragon questions on Worldbuilding, one from the dragon's point of view.
 
@HDE226868 Yeah, I upvoted your answer on that one, that's where that came from :-)
 
4:47 PM
@TheTinyMan I'm pretty sure that's the only reason people eat gator.
 
@TheTinyMan Ahh, that makes sense.
I'd rapidly run out of food, with my strategies. Starving isn't so wise.
 
Gator meat is pretty awful, but they are all scary and bitey.
 
@TheTinyMan there are a few that did not, many island nations in the pacific didn't, for example, ditto that for anything near the equator that isn't desrt
@apaul I've had gator, not bad tastes like scallops, but with the texture of shrimp
 
@TheSnarkKnight You have to process it to get a decent taste/texture. People often soak it in buttermilk overnight.
 
@apaul there was a time when the prisons couldn't feed the prisoners lobster more than twice a week as it was considered cruel and unusual punishment.
 
4:54 PM
Or pound it out like a schnitzel.
@TheSnarkKnight Ya, I linked to a gizmodo article about that.
Mmmm schnitzel...
 
@apaul ah, sorry, our systems block anything that aren't white-listed
I like a good sauerbraten myself.
MY mother would soak the meat in brine for a week first. soooo tender
 
That looks delicious, had to Google
 
@HDE226868 Ehhh. You can probably hibernate until the next ecosystem develops. :-P
 
@apaul it's tangy, it's tender, it's wonderful with a ginger sauce. nom nom nom nom
 
We have a few really good German restaurants around here. I may have to treat myself tonight.
 
5:00 PM
@TheSnarkKnight is *.stackexchange.com whitelisted then?
 
@Magisch Yes, but I had to request it
 
I wonder how the process works. I know I use like 500 different domains on the reg for finding things
at work
 
I usually get the little crispy potato pancake things with sour cream and apple sauce. Goes great with a stout.
Kartoffelpuffer? Is that the right word?
 
Sauerbraten and dumplings is a pretty popular Baltimore dish; we've got a pretty heavy German influence. Losing the culture of cooking at home though (but, well, that's not really news anywhere in the US over the last 10 years).
 
@TimPost dumplings or Spaetzle?
 
5:08 PM
@TimPost The "foodie" scene has been picking up down here. Gentrification is a terrible thing, but the hipsters do bring some interesting food.
 
@apaul We grew up poor. All this foodie crap just seems pretentious to me. I don't need to know that my beef was raised in the shadows of a mountain range, fed only the purest grass and greens, and that my cheese comes from the south of France in a tiny villiage.... JUST GIVE ME A DANG CHEESBURGER!
 
@TheSnarkKnight Dumplings smothered in demi glace
 
@TheSnarkKnight I know the feeling. Like I appreciate good food, but generally you end up paying a premium for a side of smug.
 
(we're weird, we can't decide if we're German, French or a lost British colony)
 
@TimPost In Baltimore?
 
5:17 PM
@apaul yeah
 
@apaul yep, I grew up the son of a toolmaker, poor and eating baloney sandwiches. I do enjoy good food, but I'm not impressed by pretension. I'll take a good burger over an over-priced steak any day, especially if they prepare it right.
And, the last time I ate at a snooty chain, I got food poisoning to boot!
 
@TimPost Odd. Baltimore seems pretty generically north east from an outside perspective.
 
@TheSnarkKnight We grew up on cheap cuts (short rib, shoulder, shank, oxtail) which were made delicious because we knew how to cook them. The "foodies" tend to just drive the prices of the cheap (and most flavorful) cuts through the roof through their very vocal refusal to eat practically anything in a seemingly random manner. Oxtails are now as much or more than ribeye here.
 
@TheSnarkKnight My usual feeling whenever I get a steak at a restaurant is "I could have made this much better at home for half the price"
 
Can barely find brisket because Arby's buys it all
 
5:21 PM
@TimPost Gentrification.
 
@TimPost yep, ever since "oxtail soup" a staple of the under-privileged, now a trendy, overpriced hipster meal.
 
@apaul Yep. Hit most neighborhoods around the harbor here.
 
Now we even have "gourmet hotdogs" fir crying out loud!
 
@TimPost Florida has been developing "arts districts" for the last 15-20 years. They don't seem to realize that they're just displacing the ghetto by a few blocks, not helping.
 
@TheSnarkKnight I've noticed a steady increase in natural (hog) sausage skins; the hipsters invade everything. But I don't blame them, I blame marketers.
 
5:24 PM
Columbus-ing is pretty hilarious.
 
@apaul it's the "Nouveau riche" that are doing it all. People who suddenly find themselves well-off spending money on nonsense to demonstrate they have wealth. "Conspicuous consumption" as they used to call it.
 
@apaul That's what's happening here; poor folks end up getting pushed into a few tiny places where there's a check cashing joint and a liquor store on every other block, and then people wonder why riots occasionally break out
 
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@TimPost Is that your pet in your profile photo? ;-)
 
@TimPost the magic formula is: Laundromat, liquor store, and Chinese takeout on the same block. That's when you know you're in a poor neighborhood
 
@AJ That's my uncle.
 
5:26 PM
hmmmmm, after this, I think I may have disappointed anyone who thought I was right-wing
 
@TheSnarkKnight You forgot the "we buy gold! And sell guns! Pawn shop"
 
@apaul I'm in NJ, only the police and gangs have guns
the rest of us are caught in the crossfire
 
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@TimPost lol
 
Total hipster-ing, turn a random noun into a verb! We totally forgot how to we-buy-gold store while we drove the price of oxtails through the roof!
 
lol
@TimPost Guilty "Columbus-ing" is a pretty lame term, just don't know what else to call it.
 
5:32 PM
@TimPost anyone who would pay five dollars for a cup of coffee at starbucks deserves to get ripped off
Good lord, the hipsters use more buzzword BS than corporate America does
 
Stuff like kimchi, hot chicken, and even grilled cheese, used to be pretty staple items for poor people. Then the hipsters "discover" them and all the sudden there's an artisanal shop that takes business from the family that's been making that thing, in that neighborhood, for three generations.
 
@apaul yep. It seems like everything we grew up eating as poor people has suddenly become the hipster food of today
at least they haven't discovered spaetzle yet
 
@TheSnarkKnight It's not new... The same could be said for BBQ.
@TheSnarkKnight Oh they are... Just wait.
Haha I was just about to say that "fried bologna sandwiches are probably safe" but a quick Google search reveals that they've been discovered.
Is nothing sacred? lol
 
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5:50 PM
Not anymore, it seems
 
Kids these days, get off my lawn, assorted old man grumbling...
@Ash How goes?
 
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@apaul It goes. It's Tuesday, so it's the start of my workweek.
 
@apaul we ought to invent something completely disgusting, say it's the "new thing" and watch the hipsters devour it.
 
@TheSnarkKnight Sauerkraut?
 
Hell, if the hipsters thought it was cool to eat brillo pads, there wouldn't be a clean pot to be found.
 
5:56 PM
@TheTinyMan That's not disgusting
 
@TheSnarkKnight Tide pods? :-p
@Tinkeringbell Hahaha, I said that just to see if you were watching xD
 
@TheTinyMan too late.
 
I love sauerkraut, especially the one my mom makes, from the oven :)
 
@TheSnarkKnight we already did, fried bologna sandwiches.
 
@TheTinyMan the way Americans eat it is disgusting. They don't rinse it, they don't chop up an onion and cook it with the sauerkraut, and they don't add butter
 
5:57 PM
@apaul Dude, fried bologna is amaaaazing
 
@Ash My condolences.
 
@apaul we used to call that labercase
sp?
 
@TheSnarkKnight Hmm. I believe that I have had German-style sauerkraut and that's when I decided that I didn't dislike it but hated it but maybe I should try it again, paying attention to what's gone into it. :-p
 
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@apaul Oh well, it goes as it goes :)
 
@TheSnarkKnight You really shouldn't eat sauerkraut without raisins and pineapple
 
5:58 PM
leberkäse
 
@Tinkeringbell Sounds like hipster talk to me!
They've already gotten to sauerkraut too! :o
 
@Tinkeringbell you mean juniper berries and fennel
 
Puh, that receipe is as old as my grandpa..
 
@Tinkeringbell my mother used to make a sauerkraut cake
 
@TheSnarkKnight I'm prone to typo's, but no, I didn't type that wrong
 
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