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12:01 AM
Maybe all of science is flawed
 
@0celo7 No, it's the world that is flawed because it does not correspond to the ideal model in your head
 
@rob Can you explain what "there is no spoon" means and why it's significant enough to be quoted in Chow et al.'s chapter on Ricci flow Harnack inequalities?
 
@0celo7 See if you like this youtube.com/watch?v=BuQG6_evFc8
@ACuriousMind You too
 
@ACuriousMind The world cannot be flawed. Flawed wrt. what?
 
You're imposing a structure on the world - that of following mathematical laws, of bending to our feeble description of it - that you cannot ever show is actually there.
 
12:04 AM
Don't tell me Fantano likes this
 
@0celo7 He does
I like it too
 
@ACuriousMind So that's why I said science is flawed
I don't understand your objection
The world cannot be flawed...I don't really know what that means.
The world...just is. It's not something that could be improved
 
the man is insane
 
@0celo7 Oh, science is also flawed - because it's only ever an approximation. But it's a flaw that's both indelible and doesn't actually prevent us from making progress
@0celo7 Not with that attitude
 
12:10 AM
@ACuriousMind It's the humans that are flawed
 
Oh, we are also flawed, but in yet another and more different ways
Everything's flawed, basically.
 
@ACuriousMind World = universe in that context
 
What the fuck are you guys talking about?
 
But in interesting ways
 
@ACuriousMind I haven't thought about building a nuke and ending it all until this conversation
Thank you for the idea
 
12:11 AM
::raises secret FBI flag::
 
I meant nuka cola, clearly
and by ending it all I meant ending thinness
...
@ACuriousMind Should I tell my advisor that there's a TeX command for $\esssup$
Oh
Maybe there isn't :P
$\essup$
Huh
his $ess.sup$ is giving me cancer
 
Quick question. My parents want me to do medicine. I have no interest in it.
Should I do it?
 
Yes.
 
@0celo7 I don't think people survive in that field without a passion for it
 
Unless, are you completely self-sufficient?
 
12:23 AM
@SirCumference Absolutely no
 
What do you want to do
 
@bolbteppa Well, if astronomy wasn't hell to get a job in and it payed well, I'd pick it
 
@SirCumference unless you can make your own way, your parents are still your bosses
 
@SirCumference Why would you?
 
none of this "follow your dreams" crap
 
12:24 AM
@SirCumference Give me their phone number and I'll scream with them for you
I love fighting
 
@BernardoMeurer Jesus
They're certainly right that astronomy is hell to get through, what with the competition, low salary and amount of schooling needed
 
You could do an undergrad in astronomy and do med school pre-reqs then go to med school after if you need it
 
@bolbteppa I don't think I'd survive in medicine without an interest though
Nor am I a fan of blood
 
@SirCumference Give me a good fight, come on
 
@SirCumference I don't know what these hippies are trying to tell you, but you owe your parents for the 18 years they paid for you and wiped your butt etc.
 
12:27 AM
@0celo7 That's not what I'm asking
 
20 minutes and I get them to let you do anything you want
 
Unless you can pay them back the $200,000 it took to raise you or whatever, you must do what they want.
+ all of the money they're likely paying for your college
@SirCumference You're asking if you should follow their wishes or not. It's your duty to do that.
 
@0celo7 No I'm not. I'm asking if I should follow something I have no interest in, and might not survive in.
 
It's a very good idea to do an undergrad before med school regardless, as long as you do the med school pre-reqs like biology, chemistry, organic chemistry, you can justify it, buy time, try astronomy and other stuff, and leave the med school door open, doesn't have to deal with blood, could do medical physics, or research, do an md-phd, etc
 
@SirCumference My response wasn't meant flippantly. You asked us if you should do it, but I want to know why you think you (possibly) should first.
 
12:29 AM
@bolbteppa MD-PhDs are hell to get tho
 
@0celo7 Honestly? Sod that kind of "duty".
 
OBE
@ACuriousMind why does having fields with compact support in field theory imply that your hilbert (fock space) is separable?
 
You'll get into one if you are committed to getting into one
 
@ACuriousMind Your parents made an investment in you, it's ridiculous to ignore that
@SirCumference ...but your parents want you to do that, no?
Otherwise why are we having this conversation
 
@ACuriousMind Well, astronomy is interesting as hell, but it isn't very viable as a future (in some regards)
@0celo7 Because it's not that easy to just "become a medical doctor"
 
12:31 AM
Plenty of morons do it, I'm sure you can
 
@0celo7 My parents didn't make an "investment" in me; I am absolutely certain they would both be furious if you ever suggested that to them as anything but a joke.
 
You're not a moron
 
@0celo7 some questions:
Is it more important to raise a child to be
(1) respectful or independent?
(2) obedient or self-reliant?
(3) well-behaved or considerate?
(4) well-mannered or curious?
 
@0celo7 ...that's not the point, but thanks
 
@SirCumference That's a possible reason to not do astronomy, not a reason to do medicine
 
12:32 AM
@ACuriousMind Then you have good parents.
 
@ACuriousMind Medicine pays better, you get more opportunities with an MD
 
You could do a PhD in astronomy in an md-phd
 
@SirCumference Why is it astronomy vs. medicine?
 
@bolbteppa That's a lot of school
 
@bolbteppa You want him to get a PhD in astronomy and then go to med school, and then get another PhD?
So he's 35 when he finishes school?
 
12:33 AM
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@0celo7 Most astronomers start working at 35. I'd probably be 40 if I get an MD-PhD
 
What does an astronomer even do?
 
Study the Universe, figure out cool stuff like what's out there and how the universe will evolve
 
OBE
wait what are you guys talking about?
 
Clearly they just study Weinberg's cosmology
 
OBE
12:34 AM
@SirCumference you're quitting astro?
 
@OBE Well, I never really planned to do it as a professional
My favorite comment is here
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Q: Astronomy as a profession for moderately good software engineer

YouKnowWhoIAmI'm a software engineer (a moderately good one). I like programming, mathematics and I love everything about astronomy. What would be best way to go ahead?

> Get a PhD with a hot professor at a top school and write a killer Dissertation: Many publications, lots of High profile collaborators. Do a couple very productive post docs, and prove you can write fundable grant proposals, by doing so repeatedly. Beat all the other candidates in the academic interview process. Write, and get, big grants. Write highly cited papers in major peer reviewed journals.
> Play department politics at least until they grant you tenure, then repeat the grant, papers, politics thing til age 65. Or, you could stick to doing Astronomy as a dedicated amateur.
Goddamn
 
@SirCumference That's a (weak, in my eyes, but whatever) reason to do medicine instead of astronomy, not a reason to do medicine.
 
^
That's my question
 
@ACuriousMind Well, rephrased: Pays well, lots of opportunities
 
Why the medicine/asto dichotomy
 
12:37 AM
@SirCumference Lots of things pay well. Why medicine?
 
Why not astro/useful job dichotomy
Because that's what it really is.
 
@ACuriousMind That's what they're insisting
 
@SirCumference Let me fight them, please
 
@BernardoMeurer ...No thanks
 
@SirCumference so is it about your parents or not?
 
12:40 AM
@0celo7 ...
 
@SirCumference why not something in the middle?
 
@SirCumference That's not really a reason, either. Are you asking us "Should I do medicine?" or are you asking us "Should I do what my parents tell me?"
 
It's more than just "my parents tell me to do it $\therefore$ I must do it"
 
@ACuriousMind oh but when I ask that it's a stupid question
 
@0celo7 Like what?
 
12:41 AM
engineering
 
Is that much better than astronomy?
 
@0celo7 Didn't say that. Sometimes it helps rephrasing things. I see you're trying to make the same or at least a similar point as mine.
 
@SirCumference, I don't know anything about any of this, but here's what I'd say. Do what you love. It's better to not be rich but be happy than to be rich but miserable in your daily job. Whatever you do, you're going to be doing it for the majority of the rest of your life. Make sure it's something you want to do. =)
whether that's med school or astronomy.
 
@heather That's valuable advice, I appreciate it. But it's tough, since astronomy is so darn hard to do as a professional
 
@ACuriousMind I have very strong views on the duty of children. If SC doesn't care about that fine. But I don't really understand his problem unless it's a "should I do what my parents want me to do" thing
And I don't know how strongly his parents feel about this
If they disown him if he doesn't do medicine, that's different than if they would like him to do medicine
 
12:43 AM
@0celo7 Quite strongly
@0celo7 They think I'm making a huge mistake if I don't do it
 
So they won't pay for college unless you do medicine?
@SirCumference Yeah, you probably are. But who cares about that?
 
dude, 0celo!
astronomy isn't a "mistake"
 
@0celo7 ...uh, "who cares"?
 
heck, everyone always says that stuff that doesn't pay well as a mistake. for once and for all, it isn't. do what you'll like to do for the rest of your life so you can live a happy one!
 
@SirCumference I'm saying the only one who can tell us if it's a mistake is you in 20 years once you pick
So it's not really relevant
 
12:45 AM
@0celo7 welp...
 
No one is going to be able to tell you which is a mistake
 
Now I'm where I started
 
If you do what your parents want you to do and you don't really want to do it, you'll massively regret it someday
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@SirCumference Here's my honest experience. I'm the son of a dentist, and a lawyer, both of which were born in farms in Brazil, and none of which know or care for science. My mother as far as I can tell would've liked for me to do something in culture, and my father would like me to be a lawyer. They never quite pressured me to go their way, but I always felt like I was a disappointment to them by becoming a Computer Engineer, also, they both absolutely despise computers. [TBC]
 
@BernardoMeurer Michelle is still a disappointment to Bob
That and she's a girl
Her turning to banking only confirmed his bias that women have no place in STEM
 
12:47 AM
@SirCumference Mostly because of academic reasons my relationship with my parents has greatly deteriorated, to the point where I talk more to @0celo7's older sisters than to any of my parents, and even though I cannot say I regret one bit of it. I just don't think I'd be as useful for the world doing anything else apart from computer engineering.
See the talent you have, take pride in it and dive head in into the field you love, because otherwise I don't think there's much else to live for, apart from superficial stuff
 
Ok, I'll take what you guys are saying into account
Thanks
 
@SirCumference My honest advice is that you need to figure out if you want to do medicine because your QoL will be better if you do it or because your parents want you to do it.
You're arguing the former, but your intense focus on medicine doesn't make sense without the latter.
If it's the latter, you will be miserable.
 
vzn
@heather consider you might feel differently after being reqd to pay for a living
 
Also this^
 
@SirCumference I think it was Einstein who said "Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile", I try to think of that a lot, would I be doing better to society as a shitty lawyer or as a good engineer? I believe the latter.
 
12:50 AM
@heather Ah, that's bright advice but people change. I'm not saying there's not a ring of truth to it but "the rest of your life" is a very long time. You may well find in 10, or 20, or 30 years that you don't love what you once did. That doesn't mean that was a mistake, but you also need to be wary of doing thing because they once were your dream.
 
@SirCumference Don't take advice from a bunch of people who are living high on the horse from parents or scholarships or whatever.
 
vzn
@BernardoMeurer lol sorry dont think that was einstein...
 
@vzn i freely admit that i don't know what it's all like, but I do know that right now, i'd rather be happy and be poor than be unhappy and rich. that's a proverb in many cultures, it's not just me.
@vzn actually, remember that quote, i think it was.
 
@0celo7 I'm not living "high on the horse" :/
 
@heather Your job is more than how you support yourself tho, it's how you support your children and family
 
12:51 AM
@heather That's easier said than done
 
@heather You're only saying that because you're not poor
 
I do appreciate @heather's advice, tho it's tough to balance things like that
 
@heather Proverbs can be bullshit, don't guide yourself by "common knowledge"
 
@BernardoMeurer I know, but I also think your judgement is clouded by your relationship with your parents
 
@BernardoMeurer i understand that. again, "i freely admit that i don't know what it's all like"
 
12:52 AM
And I can't follow your argument :P
You seem to be arguing both sides :P
 
@0celo7 Everyone's judgement is clouded by something
 
^
 
vzn
@heather ahem ok googling that, it is defn attributed to him, but einstein is misquoted quite a bit & dont see the ref yet...
 
ah, well. the point is someone said that ;)
 
@heather Moving away from home I was in the shit a couple times and heck did I question my decisions :)
 
12:53 AM
All roads here lead back to Einstein
 
@BernardoMeurer Ah, such a simple truth rarely really acknowledged ;P
 
@0celo7 My argument?
 
Can we change topics
 
@ACuriousMind I'm a cynic by nature :P
 
@SirCumference Think you misspelt Rome there if we're doing proverbs ;)
 
12:53 AM
Yes let's change topics
let's talk about PROPRIETARY MALWARE
 
@ACuriousMind ?
 
@0celo7, also, for the record - I had to pay for a not insignificant amount of the books I own, etc. I worked for that by doing odd jobs, and not just around the house. So, while I'm not poor, and I'm not rich, and I don't claim to be knowledgeable about these things, I'd like to think I'm not some rich kid who doesn't know a thing about the world.
 
vzn
@heather ok, further digging, think youre right, apparently it was from a NYT interview. a bit surprised. einstein didnt exactly live his whole life for others it would seem... en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Albert_Einstein
 
@0celo7 I really think detailed descriptions of your bodily discharged don't belong here.
 
@heather I didn't say you were rich.
 
12:55 AM
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@heather You know nothing about the world. Neither do I, nor do most of us
 
But paying for your own books is different than struggling for rent
 
vzn
new topic?! another octopus lover in the news dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4332962/…
 
^
Wait until you're alone away from home and you get proper sick and you'll see the shit :P
 
@BernardoMeurer Think you might get a tiiiiiny bit obsessed about that? :P
 
12:55 AM
...which is why I said @SirCumference needs to talk to adults
 
@0celo7 We are adults
 
not really
no one in this chat right now is one
 
@ACuriousMind I refuse to run half the software I need to complete my stuff this semester :^)
 
@BernardoMeurer umm, how are you going to survive if you transfer?
everything has to be in Word, Excel, Matlab, or something else similar
 
I'll figure something out
LibreOffice
Matlab I'll use Octave
 
12:57 AM
@ACuriousMind I don't know why you are deleting my things
This is a chat for physicians, no?
 
@0celo7 There's no mystical threshhold where you become an adult and suddenly have life figured out. Everyone's struggles are different, what works for me need not work for you, and we're all making most of it up as we go along, anyway.
 
lol
I hope I get to transfer
 
@ACuriousMind I'm not taking life advice from an AI, sorry :P
 
@BernardoMeurer Where to?
 
@ACuriousMind I'm sorry but I really dislike Europe :P
@ACuriousMind Waterloo
 
12:58 AM
Europe has the wrong shaped plugs and length/temperature measurements. It's turrble.
 
@BernardoMeurer To meet with defeat as Napoleon did?
 
vzn
@heather btw there are a bunch of respectable astronomers/ astrophysicists whove visited this room. 0celo7 says hes not even interested in gravity waves, so dont be surprised
 
(sorry)
 
Lol, no, Waterloo Canada you goof
 
@vzn You mean gravitational waves there ;) Gravity waves are fluid dynamics
@BernardoMeurer </3
 
vzn
12:59 AM
@ACuriousMind right! sorry thx for the correction, gotta get those details right around here huh
 

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