Sorry, -1. One of the parameters of the question is that I did not and do not volunteer to be a source of support for this person, and most of what you've described here is ways of increasing communication between us. To clarify, I don't get the impression that she is in crisis; if she was, I would consider it a duty to help. But she already has professional support in place (which she has told me about in detail). —
Meelah 56 secs ago