Props on wanting to tell the guy. You're taking a stand on your principles, and that's good. If anything, you should have taken that stand a year ago. You've now involved yourself, over the course of a year, into a huge mess from which you will not emerge unscathed, or untarnished. Make no mistake, you shoulder some of the blame for not standing by your principles much earlier in the game. John should have been kicked out, or the affair exposed much earlier. It's shocking that her brother was not the one to make that move, but such is life. Better late than never. Learn from this! —
AndreiROM 1 min ago