@sphennings We're currently having a stormy law debate about singular writing in my country (like, people can't accept the idea of adding an "e" at the end of words to include women). I think the existence of such pronoun (i.e. an equivalent to "they") would be very useful. Unfortunately, our nouns and adjectives are gendered, so it's a bit more complicated than that.
@avazula That sounds complicated. The singular they has been around for a long time in English. Though attempts at language reform in the 1800s tried to remove it and standardize on he as the default singular pronoun.
@doppelgreener They've gone through the queue and they still have flags pending on them, which means that either the mods are going to have to deal with it or users VTDing.
It's very easy to get VLQ privileges on this site. One popular answer on an HNQ post is enough. Many people who have access to the queues don't any idea of the existing meta discussions about site policy.
@Mithrandir That means the flags aren't valid and they're not NAA and shouldn't be deleted, meaning coordinating for them to get deleted anyway would not be appropriate
Let the mods deal with those and/or allow them to age away
I agree with answer, and would like to give an alternative to the example. In India do you actually owe them an explanation (I.E. your phone troubles previously)? You said you do not wish to explain personal reasons. Why not explain that you do not like phones? How I explain this is to say "I view mobile phones as human leashes.", and I even leave my phone at home openly to prove my disdain if I am being social. btw I have a company phone, and it has been made clear that for this I am expected to -always- be available, so they are used to control people's time and lives in some cases. — NOP10 secs ago
@Mithrandir yeah, i think in trying to address those you're losing sight of the importance of community oversight & due process, in order to achieve the goal of reducing moderation workload. those NAA flags being not even disputed or declined or validated means nobody reviewing it feels it's a problem enough to remove, which means we probably shouldn't try to remove it anyway.
Like, I know you get this stuff -- you're a competent and experienced user and a moderator in your own right -- I'm saying this because I think you got distracted away from it by other pressing issues.
It sounds like your friend may be struggling with some mental health issues. Normally those issues can't be fixed by simply choosing to not be moody. Are you wanting to suggest to your friend that they seek help for what could be a mental health issue? — sphennings9 secs ago
There have been a lot of one or two line answers (very brief) on the main site. Most of them, almost all of them IMO, only suggest one or two things to do and never explain why they would work. Though, such answers might be correct, but since sometimes they get upvoted and stick around longer, it...
We are trying our very best to remove low quality answers from our site. But there are no clear guidelines on what we, as a community, consider to be a good answer.
So let's try and make a few guidelines on how to write answers on IPS questions and what every answer should contain or discuss.
W...
A couple months ago, we had a discussion about Should we be more strict about one-line answers?. The verdict was that yes, we should be enforcing stricter standards on the answers on this site. Great! That means that we can keep our quality high, and new answers have been deleted accordingly.
Bu...
I had an interesting chat with @Catija yesterday. She stated:
This is something I've argued with the Cooking mods for over a year. If an answer has even a whiff of an actual answer, they decline NAA flags. So, with my time spent there, I have to decide whether I think we should follow them o...
We have had a couple of questions that ask about ways to deal with interactions with others. These questions are perfectly on topic here because they are asking about interpersonal issues.
Sometimes, these questions may have solutions that are less about what is "polite" or "rude" or some other ...
Those three answers linked above look bad, but having them present & downvoted in their badness would be instructive and helpful in its own right. ("This answer is bad. Do not use this answer. Do not provide answers like this answer.") They also seem like they pass those guidelines (which I'm still getting across), they're just low quality.
interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/10884/… is essentially a one liner. It also doesn't address the question asked and isn't a frame challenge because it doesn't suggest an alternative way of looking at it.
interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/13210/… is a "try this" answer; it just says "you could do this" without explaining why their solution would work. It also contains no references or backup.
Anyway, we have meta consensus on deleting stuff. We've got strict policies. Unfortunately, lots of people have access to the review queues but are not familiar with the policies, so it gets very difficult to actually delete stuff without chat or custom moderator flags.
(now I'll be AFK for a bit. Have to get ready - it's Memorial Day for soldiers and terror victims and I volunteered to stand next to a flag for ten minutes)
Once in a while I get coffee from nearby shop.
Lot of times, the ladies at the counter are rude --- especially to me because I look like a soft target.
Really, I am not confrontational unless I am at the end of my rope (on a side note, my co-workers were surprised when I was assertive and nearl...
@avazula based on some of her other posts, I believe artie ladie is from India and living/working in the US, please correct me if I am wrong. — Link035233 secs ago
During elementary school one of my close friend groups was composed of three persons all living next to each other. Myself (m/22), another guy(m/22) with whom we are still best friends and hang out everyday and this girl(f/22) who moved away after elementary and we both soon lost touch with her a...
@Cashbee I couldn't agree more. But even if she used indian-culture tags or sth if they'd exist, it doesn't solve the problem which is that she didn't give that context in the question
@avazula with the solution proposed by oldPadawan, she would (ideally) have used the tags united-states and indian-culture, which would resolve the irritation.
Now that I say this, I agree with oldPadawan that having country tags and culture tags is best
the question body always has to include the whole question with all important information. The tags are only meta-information about the question to help categorizing them. The same with the question title: it only sums up your body. The actual question still has to be present in the body.
@avazula Haha :) Well, my company isn't big on the working remote either, depending on the team you're working with. I never struggled with that, I didn't mind having everyone in one place so I could ask them all questions like 'WHY WOULD YOU EVER DO THAT!'
@Tinkeringbell It reminds me of the versioning softwares, that allows you to blame when someone pushed some pretty bad code. I love it: "you've written broken code! I BLAME YOU!"
Things were a little harder until we implemented a versioning system on the buildserver as well... I can't count the times people meddled with the settings just to have their builds succeed...
@Tinkeringbell I do/did both OO for my work and non-OO for my studies, I don't have a preference, I think they serve very different purposes. On the other hand, I'd be completely confused by proprietary languages. I'm fond of open source and freewares ahah
If anyone finds a question with delete votes without a comment suggesting how to improve the question, Please add a comment yourself. Many of the complaints that new users have about this site stem from opaque community moderation.
@sphennings Roger that. When I cast for deleting there's already a comment most of the time. I'd add another only if I think that the previous comment does not cover all the problems raised by the answer.
If the user is relatively new, and you're casting the final delete vote, it might be a good idea to add a sentence explaining that if they edit the question it is possible to get the question undeleted.
@avazula I got into a slight argument with an IPS mod about the number of flags I raise, so I'm attempting to get comments deleted without requiring mod intervention and to lower their load.
@Mithrandir I should admit I'm a bit surprised (I obviously don't know everything about this SE functioning) but, is it like mods don't like to have so many comments flagged?
@avazula It's that there are essentially two mods and if I raise a hundred flags a day they'll get overwhelmed. Hopefully some new mods will be coming on board to help soon, but until that happens, HDE and Cat are crazy busy.
About seven (7) years ago a older friend of mine Craig was having living and financial problems , I think he was getting some type of public assistance after he had to move out of his old family house after it was sold . I'd known him since I was 19 and am in my early forties now . I was a up and...
I'm in my late teens, and my mom is close friends with my best friend's mom, so she knows my best friend - "Abigail" - quite well. My mother thinks that "Abigail" is "boy-crazy." For my part, I think "Abigail" is just extremely extroverted, and I see little-to-no difference between the way she ac...
About a year ago, I did an informational interview with a friend of a friend. We connected on LinkedIn shortly after, and I did a basic follow-up "thanks for meeting with me" email, but we haven't had any contact since then.
I'm now planning to apply to a position in the same department she wo...
Occasionally people ask questions like:
Is it polite if I do/say X?
Sometimes these questions are closed (the reasons for closure are often varied) and sometimes they are left open. In my mind, these two example questions are very similar; they both ask if a certain action is polite, and t...