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user116848
19:00
Yeah we do.
Yeah, it's that thing you scrub your back with to get all the crud off.
before the define?
Well, it helps when you are described as broody and aloof.
Scala looks nice
What a stupid question.
19:02
So, you're #2?
@Cerberus What a stupid test. I mean come on, on a test about "emotional intelligence" any idiot can find the answer that will maximize your score.
user116848
I am a mixture of all four of them
I carefully research all my options. Why can't I pick that choice??
@Cerberus Poor alternatives imo
That has no bearing on your ability to actually apply the answer in real life.
19:03
@terdon Yeah...I guess you have to be honest.
@JohanLarsson Very.
Again, it always depends. I've done all 4 at different times in my life.
@terdon The masters of emotional intelligence don't need to take such a test.
I run a double blind experiment and then ask 3 other respected teams to replicate my method
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fastidious < obsessive < OCD < disorganized schizophrenia < paranoid schizophrenia
is it correct?
No.
19:04
@terdon Of course. Usually a combination. But the element "carefully search your options" is strangely absent.
@Robusto Fair enough!
user116848
Well, I get paranoia attacks every once a while.
Emotional intelligence is what used to be called wisdom.
This one makes me go awww.
For the bottom two options.
user116848
#2
19:06
@Cerberus There should be a fifth entry: "What's the use? Friends will only stab you in the back."
user116848
@KitFox #4 haha
@Arrowfar It's true. I consistently fail to understand how people are supposed to interact.
@Robusto Nice.
user116848
@Robusto All your friends stab you in the back?
Come as you are, as you were,
As I want you to be
As a friend, as a friend,
As an old enemy.
user116848
19:08
@KitFox But you are a good listener and all.
Umm all of the above, as anyone would?
None of the above.
@Robusto he died
@Arrowfar Just assume that when you don't understand something I say it's because I'm making a joke that requires skill at English to understand.
@JohanLarsson Died is too passive a term for it.
@Arrowfar Listening and understanding don't seem to be valued traits.
user116848
19:09
@Robusto I am not that dumb. And not very bad at English either.
Ugh, no score. Apparently, it required some external Javascript to load that I had blocked.
Yay! All that for nothing.
shrugs
What does that reaction say about my EQ??
@Arrowfar There is some kind of conferring of social status that I don't get, that is based on irrational and abstract things that I can never hope to understand.
user116848
@KitFox They aren't? I guess they are.
19:10
@Arrowfar or just ask Rob to explain it he has the patience of an angel
Tsk.
user116848
@JohanLarsson haha
@Cerberus Not much, but it might say something about your IQ. :P
@Arrowfar Well, then I shouldn't have to explain everything to you. Problem solved.
Is 'the patience of an angel' a thing in English? En ängels tålamod
user116848
19:10
@Robusto Fine then.
@JohanLarsson It's understandable. Not sure it's an expression though.
Patience of a saint, more likely.
@JohanLarsson I have the patience of a fruit fly.
Sure thing.
Time flies like an arrow. Fruit flies like a banana.
@KitFox That is so wicked, considering the slang meaning of fruit fly.
19:12
If you doubt me, check out the first line in my profile.
user116848
@KitFox Yeah! social status is irrational.
@Robusto I have seen evidence of the contrary|other thing.
@tchrist hee hee.
looks angelic
@terdon Tsss.
19:14
@JohanLarsson Pfft, impatience is Wall's primary virtue, don't forget.
@Cerberus 5. Delighted, because it gives me the opportunity to tell the boss to take his job and shove it.
Ah, if only one were in that position!
Besides, why hasn't one done so earlier, then?
I've been in that position. Twice in the past year, in fact.
I picked angry
It takes a while to determine that a job isn't going to work out. Usually three or four months.
user116848
@KitFox You also seem like a friendly person. So what's all that 'social status' thingy?
19:20
Fair enough.
Sometimes they make it easy, for example by telling you the first day that it's their policy to have the opening braces of a function go on the next line after the signature.
@Arrowfar Friendly is all in the way you perceive me. It pleases me that you think so.
user116848
Yeah sure.
So when a mod cancels a star, can the starrer star it back?
Dunno. Shall we see?
19:21
you can cancel my star on rob's msg
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 Fine.
I was just going to say
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 What didn't work?
It didn't capture the notification
19:23
Ah.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 And this is important because . . . ?
You don't draw a rectangle when you upload a partial screenshot?
Attention to detail.
Now I wonder if you've lost one of your stars for the day.
Shall we see?
19:24
I have switched to MyImgur, which works well, fast and reliable.
@Cerberus I did draw a rectangle. But it didn't grab the right part of the screen.
Oh, how odd.
I had to do a full screenshot
Which programme?
Fireshot
@Robusto We wanted to see what happens if you re-star a cancelled star
19:25
Oh, it only works in Firefox?
MyImgur works everywhere...
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 So . . . you're just rattling my cage then.
Poor Rob and his star!
It was for science.
FOR SCIENCE!
@Robusto Nothing about this was directed to you. In fact I wasn't addressing you at all. It just so happened that I had a new star that was a good candidate for this test.
19:32
I am pretending to be ruffled. Take no notice.
Such pretension.
I'll pretend not to notice.
Which is all that I asked.
I could swear I just felt a summer breeze. Hmm.
> In his book Protecting the Gift, child-safety expert Gavin De Becker pointed out that compared to a stranger kidnapping, “a child is vastly more likely to have a heart attack, and child heart attacks are so rare that most parents (correctly) never even consider the risk.”
For overly worries parents.
19:37
@Cerberus Most of the child kidnappings are by spouses or other family members in custody battles.
Still, having been a parent of small children, I have to say that the risk, while small, is out of all proportion to the consequences in the parent's mind. You may never fully understand how the sum total of a parent's biological necessity is directed toward keeping the child safe.
Put it another way, a young woman (not a mother) once asked me this what-if question: "If your wife had to choose between saving you or saving your child, who would she choose?" And for me the answer was simple: "She would choose the child in that case. And so would I."
Yeah, no-brainer.
@Robusto Even so, some parents are more level-headed than others.
@Robusto I am not surprised.
@Cerberus I don't know if level-headed is the term.
19:44
Well...
Call it what you will.
Foolish? Reckless? Uncaring? Unfeeling? Unseemly?
Whole lotta uns.
Parents vary between "I let met 6yo wander the streets at midnight unsupervised" and WEEEEEEEEEEEEEE (sound of a helicopter at close range).
If you had a jar that contained thousands of jellybeans (in metric: jelly babies), and you knew one of them was poisoned, how would you feel about sampling the candy?
As usual, the middle ground is best.
@Robusto Depends on what it would cost me and the jelly bean if I forewent it. And I think the chance of your child's being kidnapped by a stranger, for normal parents, is very much lower than 1/1000.
@Cerberus The point is, the risk is very slight, but the consequences of a bad outcome are so severe you wouldn't take the risk.
19:47
Depends on the cost of not taking the risk.
@Cerberus Call it 100,000 then. Doesn't matter.
If I got €1000, I would eat a jelly bean.
@Cerberus So you would risk your life for €1000?
We all do so every day.
I might too. But I would not risk my child's life.
19:49
If you stay inside, less chance of being hit by a meteor.
@Cerberus actually.....
With a meteor it doesn't matter.
@Cerberus I don't think that's true.
If you never take your child places by car, you actually protect it from a far greater chance of dying.
@Robusto It matters if it's a small one.
A meteor will never hit you. Anything that hits you must, by definition, be a meteorite.
19:49
@Cerberus Sophistry.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 What if you leave your house to go into space?
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 I thought the name of the stone was meteorite, the moving object a meteor?
@Robusto Why?
You know why.
@Cerberus I'll admit the possibility of error while angrily claiming that you're ruining the joke.
Of course I would protect my child from a chance of 1 in 100,000 of being kidnapped if the cost were, say, 5 minutes of my time.
19:51
@Cerberus How about six minutes?
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 I take that as a "I looked it up on Wikipaedia and you were right, but I don't want to say so in public".
@Robusto Sure, six.
How about ten?
But not ten hours a week.
How about an hour?
An hour in a lifetime? Sure.
An hour a week, I don't know.
19:52
Well, in the unlikely event that you ever become a parent, let me know if your attitude changes.
Not that again.
I have two lesbian friends who are looking right now.
If I offered, there's a 50/50 chance they would accept.
Looking at what?
They have already asked the other girl's brother.
@Cerberus Being a sperm donor is not the same thing as being a parent.
Looking to conceive a child.
19:53
He's in Netherlands, his altitude will never change
@Robusto Co-parent.
@Cerberus Caregiver?
@Cerberus They would let you co-parent?
@MattЭллен Not true! If I jump, I can be as high as 1m!
@Cerberus If you smoke hashish you can be even higher than that!
19:55
@KitFox We'd have to talk about it. But I don't want to, so we haven't.
@Cerberus that's pretty high, for a low lander
@Robusto Do I look like a tourist, hmm?
@MattЭллен Thanks!!
@Cerberus Oh, then not co-parent. Just sperm donor.
I am ignoring your ridiculous remark.
If I give my hair, I could be a perm donor
19:56
I didn't know you had a perm...
@MattЭллен If you give some Italian cheese, you could be a parm donor.
@Cerberus I don't, but if I was paid...
Hah.
You do anything?
not anything... but I could get a perm
I'd even shave off my beard for £100,000
@MattЭллен I'd shave off your beard for considerably less.
19:59
@Robusto until I woke up. then it would be considerably more >:|
I'd be long gone.
@Cerberus I didn't look it up.
:D
I'll have to install CCTV for my beard
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 Yeah, yeah.
A meteorite is a solid piece of debris, from such sources as asteroids or comets, that originates in outer space and survives its impact with the Earth's surface. It is called a meteoroid before its impact. A meteorite's size can range from small to extremely large. When a meteoroid enters the atmosphere, friction, pressure, and chemical interactions with the atmospheric gases cause it to heat up and radiate that energy, thus forming a fireball, also known as a meteor or shooting/falling star. A bolide is either an extraterrestrial body that collides with the Earth, or an exceptionally...
@MattЭллен The beardopticon
> Meteorite: a meteor that survives its passage through the earth's atmosphere such that part of it strikes the ground. More than 90 percent of meteorites are of rock, while the remainder consist wholly or partly of iron and nickel.
20:02
> It is called a meteoroid before its impact.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 yes! and I'll broadcast it's slow growth to the masses. it'll be the most popular show on Earth!
Excellent plan.
We usually call a meteoroid a meteor in daily speech.
So ... there's a new account form on our website, and if you don't want to fill it out online, you can fill out a form to have the form faxed to you.
Heavens to mergatroid.
@KitFox Please tell me it's implemented by some guy in a room, eating cheetos all day, until he gets one of these requests, at which point he dials the phone by hand, then screeches into the mouthpiece in perfect imitation of a fax modem.
20:05
It may well be.
I think it is actually emailed to the customer service people.
It's the only thing he's good at.
Who probably print it out to assign to someone.
Except that it never gets used.
our expenses system won't accept digital receipts, so you have to print them out and send them by post. they are then scanned into the system. They will accept hand written receipts.
Back in the 90s, he used to impress the young businesswomen at parties, but now he's just a fat old man with orange fingers and a youtube channel.
20:08
makes the modem handshake sound
That was how I found sexual partners when I was in my twenties.
It's like playing Marco Polo.
It's so frustrating when you hear an answering whistle but it's a different baud rate.
Yeah, really.
But what's worse is when you accidentally trigger software-flow-control and the other person just freezes up.
The sky is pink
20:13
giggles
I never did get the hang of echo cancellation.
@KitFox @MattЭллен have a question for you.
There were some close votes on a question that are now gone. How does that happen?
They expire after awhile. Or it could close and be re-opened.
can you explain awhile
It means after a certain duration of time has passed.
is 12 hours a while?
20:16
I don't know. I would tend to doubt it.
is a day a while?
Which question are you asking about?
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Q: Why do close votes expire?

ripper234I nominated this question to be closed as a dup. I see that two other people upvoted my comment, so they might have voted to close it as well. Now, we didn't gather enough votes, and all close votes expired ... and I can't re-vote to close. What is the motivation behind expiring close votes .....

in there it says
> If the question has more than 100 views, close votes expire at a rate of one every 4 days.
then why did the close votes on Yoichi Oishi's question about a typo disappear?
Do you have a link to the question?
20:17
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Q: Why is the word “so” in the line, “To a ill-informed person I would have so answer yes,” shown in Italic to stress the word?

Yoichi OishiI am interested in the word, “so” in the following sentence in Jeffery Archer’s novel, “The Prodigal Daughter.” Florentina Kane who is the chairman of an international hotel empire she succeeded from her father, and stood as a candidate for the Congresswoman for Illinoi State in late 1960s is a...

It was closed and then re-opened.
How does one get that information?
I checked the closed review queue and there were no closed votes recorded
Mods can review the history.
including mine, but I didn't vote through the queue
how can a non-mod get that history?
cuz I never saw it closed, nor reopened
You can't.
20:21
and frankly, it wasn't around long enough to allow for all that to happen without even a single vote recorded to reopen
if you click the edited 22 hours ago link and scroll down, it should say who reopened it
I think that information's there for non-mods
Ah yes, the edit history would have that information.
Thank you, Matt
Well, can regular users see it?
20:22
Now, question: what does it take to reopen a question?
1 mod vote or 5 regular user votes
how many votes? I thought it was 5v
ah, ok. So, as a Moderator, Y.O. could override the community nd reopen his own closed question?
user116848
@medica Hello!
@Arrowfar hi!
@MattЭллен Does that not have the appearance of impropriety?
20:25
Are we on to the Socratic method?
It could do. I don't want to comment on another mod's actions. it would be better to hear his reasoning (admittedly he's not hear right now) before I say anything
@KitFox answering a question with a question is only evasive
Until it was determined to be a typo, I thought it was an affected voice of an emphatic young person saying, "I would have so answer(ed) yes.", which is a viable possibility to me who is not familiar with the background of the character speaking the line. I think the downvote is patently unfair in this case. — Kristina Lopez yesterday
This is clearly the best answer.
@medica Disguising an opinion with a leading question is disingenuous.
there were 5 close votes, I don't care how many down votes there were @Cerberus
20:26
What?
OK, let me not disguise it: It seems mighty odd that a mod can unclose a bad question
@Cerberus I agreed with Kristina
read everything before you quote to me
I was challenged to close vote by Andrew, so I did.
and glory be, there was a miracle
the mod unclosed his own question
@medica Putting aside instances of closure and reopening, the actual time-based expiration is 4 days starting from the later time point twixt "The last time someone cast a vote to close/reopen" and "The question hit 100 views".
@medica Was not quoting to you.
Just in general.
we are not talking of time, here, we have about 24 hours alone
20:29
But now I think I agree with Andrew: I would have so answered clashes with the register of the rest of the text.
I'm just giving an answer for the general case since it came up and I figured we'd want to at least know the specifics there just for general knowledge.
Matt posted a handy link to the Meta post.
it's funny how you just happened to be in the neighborhood...@GraceNote
@KitFox ? a handy link to what in what way?
@medica Basically before I said the stuff I did, well before it in fact, Matt had already explained what I did and provided a meta link.
14 mins ago, by Matt Эллен
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Q: Why do close votes expire?

ripper234I nominated this question to be closed as a dup. I see that two other people upvoted my comment, so they might have voted to close it as well. Now, we didn't gather enough votes, and all close votes expired ... and I can't re-vote to close. What is the motivation behind expiring close votes .....

20:31
My question remains: a question was closed. It was reopened by a mod with only one reopen vote; the mod whose question it was which got closed.
We're not talking about that, @KitFox
Yeah, I'm looking into the situation now.
@medica Well, I was and you asked.
we're talking about how or why Yoichi reopened his own closed question.
well, I'm not.
I think it's a fairly interesting question. I would have voted to reopen it.
I'm talking about Yoishi
20:32
@medica Don't poke at her for it, it's my fault for mixing up my transcript and confusing Matt Ellen's link for being the same onebox as you posted and so I glossed over him mentioning something and so I endeavored to clarify things before getting into the specifics of the particular case we're discussing here on Yoichi's question.
It's a tyop!!!
So what?
It is an interesting typo.
oh, please
Because there are two options.
we always reopen interesting typo questions, don't we?
20:33
Are you an enthusiast, or what?
@GraceNote - since Kit's comments weren't directed at you, I thought she was addressing her chat comments to me, sorry
@Cerberus meaning what?
shrugs
shrugs as well
There's no meta discussion about this question, aye? All contents and dispute regarding its validity is just what I find on the comments (plus the current chat exchange), correct?
I presume so, I certainly didn't post a question on meta, and haven't looked at meta today.
Going straight to meta has never been my thing.
@GraceNote - again, this is my only question: A mod asked a question which was based on a typo. Andrew Leach invited me to close vote the question, which I thought was a good suggestion, so I did.
@GraceNote I saw that 4 other people agreed with me.
20:38
@medica I still don't see a question there.
@GraceNote and I never actually saw it closed.
@KitFox If you're talking to grace, please direct your comments to her. If not, then to me, because I don't want to be interrupted while I'm talking to Grace
It was closed for a period spanning to almost 6 hours, though it's likely enough that you weren't present at the time it was closed.
@GraceNote So, on checking, I found it was reopened, which is a very unusual thing to happen to a closed question when it was based on a typo.
Looking into it today, I see the community was bypassed and Yoichi Oishi reopened his own closed question - a typo.
I think that's bypassing the community and an abuse of moderator privilige
So, my question:
Is this a normal privilige accorded moderators, that they can reopen their own closed questions?
Yes.
Mods can reopen any question, including their own.
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!!wiki dopamine
20:42
Dopamine (contracted from 3,4-dihydroxyphenethylamine) is a hormone and neurotransmitter of the catecholamine and phenethylamine families that plays a number of important roles in the human brain and body. Its name derives from its chemical structure: it is an amine that is formed by removing a carboxyl group from a molecule of L-DOPA. In the brain, dopamine functions as a neurotransmitter—a chemical released by nerve cells to send signals to other nerve cells. The brain includes several distinct dopamine systems, one of which plays a major role in reward-motivated behavior. Most typ...
How often has this been done before?@KitFox @GraceNote
All moderators possess the ability to close and reopen a question with a single "vote", which is less of a "vote" and more of a "decision", meant to be provided in accordance with their understanding of community consensus and pattern and not on personal intent.
This is not restricted in any fashion with regards to who authors posts, but it is usually good practice not to touch one's own posts unless it seems straightforward enough or in following public discourse of the matter.
Yes, it has been done before. But the important thing is to identify the usage of the power with respect to the motive behind its utility, in order to ascertain whether or not it is an abuse of the power.
@GraceNote So, a decision to reopen their own question, even if it is a bad one which on this site usually remains closed - *a typo! - can be reopened by a mod who asked that bad question... and this is standard procedure? It happens all the time?
Well, he's here.
That's a bit of a... way to put it at once so let me break that down.
Pretty sure no one said anything about frequency.
20:45
@YoichiOishi - why did you feel tht a question based on a typo was a good question to reopen without community support?
"Moderators can make a decision to reopen their own question. This is a thing that happens, generally when appropriate. I would assume that there would be a strong backing behind any decision if it appears against community norms."
@YoichiOishi - why didn't you let the community reopen it for you instead of using your moderator priviliges to reopen it?
@GraceNote "Moderators can make a decision to reopen their own question. This is a thing that happens, generally when appropriate. I would assume that there would be a strong backing behind any decision if it appears against community norms." reopening a typo is not a norm here on ELU.
Hence against community norms.
That is the very thing I'm challenging: it's appropriateness.
@YoichiOishi - you were the mod who did this. Any comment?
@YoichiOishi - I would appreciate hearing your perspective.
Right, and I am fine with challenging the appropriateness, but conflating the appropriateness of this specific incident with the general ability of moderators to take unilateral action is a bit... overstepping in the label.
20:49
@YoichiOishi - have you ever voted to reopen a question closed on the basis of being a typo before?
I'm giving @YoichiOishi a chance to catch up.
@GraceNote I don't want to ignore you, but I have asked @YoichiOishi a question and want to give him time to answer.
I'm aware. I'd like to hear Yoichi's side as well, since that is what is under inquiry here.
@YoichiOishi - are you here?
@YoichiOishi - your avatar is here. Dropped in a few minutes ago. Will you please acknowledge that you are actually here?
Hmm... @GraceNote?
Yes'm?
@medica more pings are probably not going to help.
Yoichi Oishi has once before said that he is not a terribly fast typist. Give him time.
20:55
fair enough.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 I thought he might have dropped in and was looking elsewhere on the site.
hence the pings.
seems like a lot of pings, that's all
KIt Fox. Yoichi Oishi is my real name. Yoichi is my first name. But we Japanese put the family name first then given name next. So I spell 大石 陽一 in Kanji. 陽一. 陽 is a part of 太陽、the great Sun. 一 means 'one' given to the eldest son. The Popular Japanese first names -Ichiro, jirou, saburou、shirou (一郎、次郎、三郎、四郎、五郎) mean the first, second, third, forth, fifth son. Before the WWII, Japanese family was prolific.
So our grandfathers and fathers might have saved the labor of conceiving names of their (grand) children.

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