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1:18 AM
@GrayCygnus His answers are not poor quality per se, he just tends to swim against the tide a lot more.
 
 
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6:04 AM
Hey Guys o/
 
Good morning to you. Or evening, or whatever it is over there. It's pre-dawn, wet and windy in these parts.
Pretty much how every answer on WP should be answered, I think....
 
6:29 AM
PSA: Regarding the new top bar, I reported an issue where we no longer see if there's anything in the review queues (there used to be a number (which usually bared no relation to the actual numbers in the queues), but now there's nothing. Shog tells me that it's driven by a threshold number. This is why we don't see this notification. I'm seeking to lower this threshold.
 
good morning everyone
 
Good morning @SpringLearner
 
how are you today?
 
Good yourself?
 
same here,thanks
 
7:32 AM
Morning all.
 
Morning
 
Good morning to you. I just looked around and it's light outside.
 
Yes it’s morning eh?😜
 
And Friday.
 
Oh yea TGIF. Bad morning, have to sit down with this peer whom I have to walkthrough of what to do if “I am not in on Monday”
 
7:36 AM
Oh, that doesn't sound good. Is there a chance you might be let go?
 
He gives a sign or the famous “fake it until u make it” and manager believes him
My thought @Snow coz last time it occurred next thing I was laid off
My Mrs told me not to share ur yrs of work with him
Or don’t bother talking to me 😕
Coz they don’t share what I ask and when asked “what if u guys r not in on Monday, then what?” And they didn’t responded
 
Sounds rough. I really hope it sounds worse than it really is.
 
Good or worse? 😂
I think @TheSnarkKnight was right. It takes toll on ur personal life
 
No. I mean I hope that things are better than they sound.
 
8:09 AM
yea, thanks. Hope all goes well with my major release
working with layman puts u in doubt too and I was about to do a blunder yesterday on live site
thank God I releaized
side effect of working with non-sense people..
 
Hi again
I got an offer letter last month and the company has asked me to join on novemmber 15th( from the date of release of offer letter they have calculated 60 days as my notice period is 60days)
I took a day of time to read the offer letter and put my resgination on the current company on sep 17 and hence I can be relived from my current organization on november 18
 
Are you happy with this offer?
 
and I wanted to take a break of 1 week so that I can start as a fresh in the new company. For this I called on phone to the Hr and said all these reasons. She said me to drop an email and I did. The email I sent on 2 weeks back and she has not yet confirmed about the new joining date. So i called her on mobile number this monday, she didnt answer and asked me to send her text(I know she did not save my number)
I have also sent her text but no response again
So I called her again today but she did not pick my call
is it correct to send email again,saying
Tried to reach on your phone but call went unaswered.could you please update me on the confirmation of the joining date?
@Snow yes
 
8:27 AM
@Nofel is Monday the new deployment you've been working on?
 
@SpringLearner Yes, send an email and copy in your hiring manager (if you know his email address).
 
@Snow no , they have not shared the hiring managers email address
 
And a happy Diwali. Someone in my team brought in some home made vegetable samosas. They are excellent.
 
we celebrated diwali yesterday
so belated happy diwali
 
@SpringLearner Are you able to reduce your notice period using any unused holiday entitlement? Or is that already factored in?
 
8:34 AM
may be not. My current manager is the worst person I have ever met. She wont do anything where I will get benefitted
even though I dont have any work she wont relieve me earlier
She is in trouble as I am earning more revenue for my team as compared to others. She is trying her best to stay me back but I am not interested
 
It might be an idea to speak with HR and ask what your earliest leaving date can be.
 
sent email to the hr of the new company
 
@SpringLearner Happy festival of light. I miss being nextdoor to Hindu neighbours, used to get great food and nice firework displays during Diwali
 
@Snow have you ever had a chance to have biryani
@Draken happy diwali to you too
 
@SpringLearner Yes, Indian food is popular here in the UK. Obviously, it won't be as good as the real home-made version.
 
8:40 AM
@Snow Depends on which city you're in. There are a lot of places in the UK with top notch curry places due to the large Indian population surge during the 60s. Won't ever be as good home made, but you can get extremely close
 
@Snow yes might be because there are some spices not available in other countries. My ex colleague used to stay in argentina. He was saying there are certain spices not availble. So he quit his job(he was working as a software developer). Then he and his wife started doing businness. They now import spices from india and sell in argentina. He is very happy in his new job and earning a pretty amount too
if you happen to come india then visit hyderabad and dont miss to have biryani.
I was staying last in hyderabad and miss biryani much
 
@Draken best curry I ever had was at a little curry house in the Lozells in Birmingham, it was totally worth risking getting beaten up for.
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Something that utterly sucks about living "oop Norf" now is the absolute dearth of decent curry
 
@motosubatsu yea, sup
 
@Nofel I was just thinking that being asked to teach a coworker how to do the deployment in case you weren't in is difficult to see as an omen of a lay off in those circumstances so while I still think you work for an asshole and should get the hell out of there I don't think worrying about this particular scenario is necessary
sorry to see that it's causing you strife at home by the way :( It's not good when a crappy work situation spills over to affect your personal life :(
 
@Snow you say that, however, I work with a lot of Indian folks, and they are adamant that some curries are better in India and some here. Probably because of what @Draken said. My local Nepalese restaurant is awesome, by the way!
 
8:54 AM
@motosubatsu It depends also on the peer who has no exp, with X. While I asked my TL the person b4 me had done something, I need to download it again as its premium and they had no idea how and what it is, this puts all pessure on me, what if things go bananas on launch
given my peer support he would back out and my TL wuld say well u said "X min for deployment" now wth is gone wrong.
 
@Nofel I think you and me are on the same boat in the same river
 
@Nofel all changes should have a proper rollback plan in place and everyone should be prepared that it's a possibility. From the sounds of it (and what you have previously said about this boss) that's not the case where you are. Which sucks, and of course contributes to the "get the hell out" conclusion
 
It comes as a shock that when I don't know X things, I am pushed to know it in adavance and will my peer don't know X thing, the TL is chilled af and say so now what.
 
@Snow I hadn't realised, until a quiz question the other day, that Dilbert no longer wears a tie, and hasn't for 4 years!
 
@Nofel because your TL is an asshole?
 
8:57 AM
hahah
I heard that one
I wonder of human physcology when someone need work they r sweet as honey, when things go down they r all thrones
@motosubatsu in uk this is my third deployment (going live) and never saw panic at this massive level
 
This kind of panic indicates to me a lack of confidence in the test phase, or possibly that the test servers bear little similarity to prod servers.
 
9:12 AM
@Snow all distinct possibilities - also there is the possibility of pressure from on high, from the fact that the company had layoffs earlier in the year there could be a lot riding on the deployment going well. Who knows, the TL could be worried about HIS job were this to go sideways on him
 
Adequate testing means the deployment should go well. Most things should be known by this stage (you'd hope).
 
9:34 AM
U can feel the bound between TL and peer coz both joined same year and they r here for atleast quater of decade
which is ok but I think it should be fair play. They said we wuld teach "X" teach to new comer, I came but all they could teach me what they wanted me to learn and which is my case was equal to calling a class by a instance
If it wasnt for my learning on sidelines I would have been out of game.
It's funny coz I am not JS expert or how browser work but they were discussing my work and what they asked and for and they didnt like it which I told them before doing it as a UX and UI POV but still the other peer poured his input, and I had to stop him to tell him what is a browser and object
TL took my analogy to explain the QA team. (which he wouldn't if he never understand or liked it)
 
@Nofel I appreciate that your current coworkers aren't the nicest bunch to work with by a big margin but do you have a problem with sharing skills and knowledge with coworkers in general or these specific ones? I ask because it seems to be coming off a bit like you think shouldn't have to teach coworkers unless they have a comparable amount to teach you?
 
@motosubatsu I have no problem, actually I encourage knowledge sharing (guess it is in blood as my parent one of biggest pvt insitute for last 25 yrs). My problem is that it should be a 2 way.
I have taught and shared my skills a lot but in reciprocal received less to none. I lack diplomacy I think
Bitter exp. When i was 20 ( I was on a job 3rd day and person who was gonna leave, was a amazing Adobe AE guru), I asked him how u do a Y thing. he said I spend 9000 and 3 yrs and cant share unless ur willing to pay that money to me.
I have met assholes a lot in my life.
just very rare good people
 
9:53 AM
but if they don't know anything you need to learn how can they reciprocate?
obviously if they do know things that are useful to you but refuse to teach then that's being an asshole but if they simply don't know anything that would be of use to you what are they supposed to do>
?
 
they know coz they did all the backend talking to front end
and I asked how do u load these colours in real time to draw X
he said we take itfrom end
paint it over
 
sorry.. not sure I follow you there
 
it is just a example, so they did a feature and I asked how to do it coz I have do edit things in that feature, Reply was "why, why u need to learn that. It took a lot of time to do that. Don't touch that. fwd me the changes needed to done and it is not important"
 
@Nofel see, that leans towards them being an arse over it..
 
Question is why cannot be a arse too
Why I am kind
 
10:10 AM
@Nofel what would you rather be.. a good person or an asshole?
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do any of you use hackerrank?
 
I did
@SpringLearner to give a test
 
@Nofel I am just doing a challneging task. out of 10 test cases, 9 are passed. I am not getting idea on how to view the testcase#10
I mean what is the input for the testcase#10
is there any way to know the testcases?
 
I would only know about MCQ's part of it. Sorry
@motosubatsu I m neither but dumb
 
@Nofel you're not dumb.. and from what I've seen of you here in chat you come across as a good guy who is in a shitty situation. If I didn't think that I wouldn't put effort into trying to help you improve things
 
10:26 AM
I'm still trying to work out whether I'd rather be a good guy or an asshole....
 
@Snow it's a lifelong dilemma.. I settle mostly for being a good guy to those I give a shit about and an asshole to everyone else. It's a compromise solution.
 
Take a middle way @Snow say ur dumb like me
@motosubatsu thanks, I do lack social and diplomacy skills
 
@Nofel possibly..but a big, huge point in your favor is that you have realised this and are working on improving them. Nobody is perfect, and striving to improve oneself is (IMO) a big part of what makes someone a good person
 
Sounds like that line from Team America.
 
@Snow I know the one.. I daren't repeat it in chat since I'd probably get flagged to high heaven!
 
10:31 AM
Still one of my favourite films. And still relevant in many ways.
 
@Snow that's the puppy
 
Matt Damon!
 
could the star-board be classed as a kind of... montage?
 
11:23 AM
@Snow that quote is amazing
:D
oh the pain of baby feed
I have to tell him about each and everysite.
document it as well, FML
 
@Nofel You're smart, smarter than your group GET OUT!
 
I got me first interview on tuesday
got it on first go with first recruiter
Oh this is sweet * on! This is a Manchester based contract for 3 months, paying between £350-430 per day, dependent on experience.*
but 3 months is short
 
11:38 AM
@Nofel it is but often contracts will be extended.. I'm on my third consecutive 3 month contract with the same firm
and 3 months at £350 a day should easily give you enough in the business account to tide you over for a month or so after it finishes and you can use that time to find another one. Hiring for contract jobs is generally a much, much faster turnaround time than it is for permanent roles
 
somone told me, with Brexit people r going for perm coz of future insecurity and told me I should aim for perm too and not contract
 
Meh. I've contracted for ~8 years. And most of the perm jobs I held had no more security than the contracts.
 
I swapped to perm because I like the company I'm working for and the commute isn't so bad.
 
3 months is an average contract length. I've had 3 month contracts extended to 2 years.
One piece of advice - get yourself a membership with IPSE - "The Association of Independent Professionals and the Self-Employed". They have a bunch of documents about contracting and once a member you get some legal and tax advice.
 
11:58 AM
@Nofel I've not heard anything to make me believe that's true.. if anything the instability surrounding brexit would make companies more likely to take on contractors rather than perm since it keeps them flexible
 
Did the "forgot my coworkers name" question get linked on an external page? Because there is no way that deserves to be my second highest voted answer.
 
Manchester is probably big enough to support a contracting market indefinitely (London definitely is - that's where I live).
@DavidK it was on the newsletter.
 
@DavidK It probably hit HNQ.
 
@motosubatsu good point
 
@Oded That'd do it.
 
12:00 PM
I heard while ur in contract they suck the blood out of u
coz they r paying shit loads
no trial and error
and everything must be on point
 
@Nofel honestly.. I haven't had this light a workload at any other point in my career
 
I've found it difficult to fall on my face doing contracting. Just need to make sure you have something lined up - start looking between 2-4 weeks before end of current contract.
Workload depends on company and contract. Just make sure your contract protects you (get a lawyer to review it - it is worth the pay). That's why I suggest IPSE membership, @Nofel - they have your back.
 
@Oded yep.. I didn't mean to imply that all contracts would be lightly loaded. Just that contractor == worked to death isn't always true
 
@motosubatsu Sorry to change subject on you here, but did you happen to see the documentary this weeks with Chris Packham talking about his Aspergers?
 
@Snow I didn't.. what channel was it on? I'm wondering if it might be on a catchup service somewhere
 
12:08 PM
It was on BBC2, we saw it last night on iPlayer. Incredibly interesting. I had no idea he had the condition - and neither did he until he was 40.
 
@Snow cool... cheers for the heads up, I'll definitely get that watched!
 
Yep. It talks about his own experience and he goes off to the USA to see how they deal with it. I won't spoil anything by saying what happens, but it's truly fascinating.
And very moving.
 
@Snow sounds great :)
 
Remember we spoke about my thought-crime question on Worldbuilding yesterday? Did you have any feelings about a solution/approach there?
And did you notice the common thread running through all of the answers?
 
@Snow i did.. but I had a couple of clarification questions - 1. Does Joe's power still work when he is unconscious and 2. Does it have a range limitation?
 
12:19 PM
Yes and No, in that order.
And you're already heading down the same route as all the other answers here.... :D
 
actually my "answer" is (I think) different from the typical ones you saw - I'd suggest putting Joe in a situation where a) he is isolated from day-to-day interactions with the general public and b) keeping him alive is the goal (but accidental death is a high probability)
My plan would be to send Joe on a solo manned mission to the moon - one way of course
 
@Snow what was program name.
@motosubatsu what you mean by light a workload
 
he's not going to interact with people up there so no random "I want to kill that guy who is taking forever in the starbucks queue" moments, and he will have teams of people dedicated to keeping him alive and for the most part the general public will want him to survive as well
 
 
and my additional clarification question would be whether the knowledge that something would likely result in Joe's death trigger the power or does it require specific intent to cause his death?
 
12:24 PM
@motosubatsu The interesting commonality I saw in the answers given is that no one made the effort to speak with Joe about what was going on. Everyone treated him as a problem to be solved. He never had a view or a choice in how any of those answers would have worked.
 
@Snow interestingly I thought of that but dismissed it because the question implied there was no way he could control the effect. I did think that sending him on a moon mission would at least be more fun than sticking him in a prison
 
cheers @Snow
 
Granted, yes. But he might have had thoughts about how he wanted to be treated, and he might well have appreciated being given a choice.
My idea would have been to place him into the care of a religious order. Anyone of the order wishing him dead would implicitly be sinning.
 
@Snow and that would also satisfy keeping away from being wished dead by randomers if it were sufficently isolated
that raises another thought - does it trigger if someone wishes a group of people dead and that group includes joe (i.e. someone wants to kill all members of the religious order but has no idea about Joe)
 
probably not. this is about Joe, not about a group that may or may not include Joe.
 
12:34 PM
@motosubatsu funny side is that while I told them everything and documented, they havent told what happens if one f them is not coming in that day
this recall a memory when other peer changed/removed something and I was on holidays andin scrum meeting it was old that he thought that X isn't comptiable with Y
no documentation or nothing.
 
@Oded I can confirm that for contract vs perm being just about as secure.
 
@TheSnarkKnight I got my first telephonic interview soon
 
@Nofel I read that too quickly and though you had a telepathic interview soon.
 
@Nofel good for you.
@Snow I knew you were going to post that
 
lol
 
12:40 PM
They wanted today bt I was like can't do on short notice
what are things to keep in mind for a telephonic interview to check how is the person and company
I had one telephonic interview, I failed the assignment bt man it was a good telephonic interview
he made me realized my own lackness of skills in some language
that was one time I found success in failing
 
@Nofel Just a tip, FYI, speak English as often as possible and avoid your native tongue whenever you can. You won't lose your first language. None of my family ever did, but immersing yourself in English works. also, read as much as possible, you'd be amazed at how much skill you pick up.
 
@TheSnarkKnight I think Nofel might have been referring to programming languages rather than the spoken kind...
 
@Snow FACEPALM
 
@TheSnarkKnight I knew you were going to do that.
 
@TheSnarkKnight I love the book u recommended me
 
12:55 PM
@TheSnarkKnight Regardless, the same advice applies for programming languages also.
 
I put my banana next to my laptop for the morning. I've just noticed that my banana is now cooked.
 
@Snow I boil my milk that way. It spares my electric kettle the trouble. :P
 
1:16 PM
Morning all
Some real interesting questions today so far
 
Cookie
 
@MisterPositive You sod, you beat me by 13 seconds.
 
HA HA HA HA HA
I have been sucking the rep hind teet as of late.
 
And. Herro.
 
I shall stop whinging
since i had cookies today....
And you still get 20 rep
{Shakes head}
 
1:22 PM
We both do. I don't actually need the rep today...
 
of course you don't, lol
I finished yesterday shitty too ha ha ha ha ha
 
Oh, I capped yesterday too. Only just.
 
Funy fact:I assigned some task to my peer as a workload and he said, this is hard task
lol
 
I know...
 
Now that I'm in the 50K plus territory, the bonuses shall flow like milk.
 
1:23 PM
back from meeting
 
@TheSnarkKnight hello sir
I am still on the slow crawl to 25K
 
I'm on the slow crawl to 20K.
@MisterPositive is on a fast crawl, he joined WP a year after I did...
 
@Snow SHHHHHHHH
 
u guys are obessed with reps.
 
1:29 PM
@MisterPositive I peeked at your "to do" list, it Just said "Take OCD medication. Take OCD medication. Take OCD medication. Take OCD medication. Take OCD medication. Take OCD medication. " Please heed it's advice
 
@nofel We have little else in our lives apart from our joy in competing with each other...
 
@TheSnarkKnight You forgot the cookies and kettle boiled milk.
@Snow Good one!
 
@MisterPositive FedEx me cookie for having good rep
I will boil milk in kettle to have it with cookies
 
@nofel Have you ever tried making kettle chips?
 
@Snow and now your up one vote on me...
typical day this week.
live to battle another day...
@CraigOtis @ChrisE Hello sirs.
 
1:34 PM
I will start trading bounties for cookies
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@TheSnarkKnight I just need an address for the cookies to be delivered to
 
@TheSnarkKnight If you could trade a bounty for an innuendo, I'll be glad to give you one!
 
@Snow Damn you now have two more votes than I do on that question.....curse you Jon Snow.
 
@MisterPositive Damn you for having a father!
 
1:38 PM
@Snow Ouch...
 
@Snow my bottom still hurts from the last time a guy said that. Or, at least that's what it sounded like with his heavy accent.
 
cookies are a theme in SE chat right now
(see my pic above)
 
Do we have any Star Wars geeks in the house?
 
have you looked at my avatar sir.
 
1:41 PM
@MisterPositive isnt that harry potter from trek wars?
 
Really? I thought that was you....
 
@Snow my SW geekiness quotient is - moderate
 
hey guys
 
I'm looking for a clear paint scheme for Luke's x-wing. I'm making a model soon and the illustration isn't that clear.
 
I was going though this question
 
1:42 PM
@Snow cool idea, must try
 
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Q: How do I write technical handover documentation before leaving a company?

AkashI am serving notice period in my organization, and a project manager has asked me to write down a document on what I have done. I have briefly mentioned the points on which I have worked, but I have not done any "in-code" analysis. He is not satisfied with the document, he says The person wh...

 
@RhysW Yes
 
what harm can a manager do to akash, if he does not do what his manager asks?
 
@SpringLearner He can withhold the final month's payment, or at least hold it up until the document is completed.
I don't know whether that's legal, but it's something they'll try.
 
@Snow depends on locale.. in the US each state has specific laws surrounding how long they have to pay the last wage
not sure in the UK ironically
 
1:45 PM
@Snow I asked because I am also serving my notice period now
 
they can certainly refuse to act as a reference
 
and they are assiging me lots of tasks which is hard to complete
 
I suspect they could find an excuse to delay payment to the point that it gets really annoying.
 
@Snow very true
 
when I was regular employee(before resgining) they had this similar mentality but to save my job, I used to work on weekends and during weekdays also stay for longer duration to complete the tasks given
 
1:47 PM
They could do this with the reason "we're still awaiting delivery of the final agreed tasks"
 
but after resgining also they are doing the same thing, so I am not staying extra hours neither working in weekend
 
@SpringLearner Mr. Snow is right.
 
@Snow they can't actually.. employees are paid for their time not the completion of tasks
 
@motosubatsu are you sure about that sir?
I think we should re open this one
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Q: I want to be a programmer (finishing school)

Neil D'souzaHi guys! It's always been my hobby to write code and fiddle with computers. I'm having second thoughts though, I'd be very appreciative if someone could advise me. I'm currently finishing my higher school certificate in my country (final school exams in here in Aus). I have to select a universi...

 
It's a tactic, nothing more than that. I expect they might make it fairly hard for you to get that last payment out of them.
 
1:49 PM
(joke)
 
@MisterPositive as much as I can be factoring in that IANL
@MisterPositive thank god you added that bit!
 
consider about akash(the link I have shared above). Actually he is working while serving NP as he wrote
I have briefly mentioned the points on which I have worked, but I have not done any "in-code" analysis. He is not satisfied with the document
 
@Snow My answer was accepted.....LOL
 
manager will give any bullshit reasons even if his resource works properly
 
@SpringLearner A bad manager can really F up your life.
 
1:52 PM
lol. No accounting for taste... Congrats on a fight well fought short.
 
@MisterPositive my manager is worst, so in which way can he do harm/
 
@Snow Same. You are still the winner. With your luck, this will end up as another gold badge for you.
 
@Nofel re: Book, which one "How to win friends" or the other one
 
2:15 PM
I am outta here, later folks!
 
Dude!
 
@TheSnarkKnight How to win friends which was other
he went for cookie
 
How I love sitting between directly two people in the office who are having a teleconference call with each other.
Well that's slightly disturbing.
I'm now feeling slightly violated.
 
lol
@MaskedMan nah my response was empathizing with Snow.
 
It's starting to hurt now. Please make it stop.
 
2:26 PM
@enderland I know, I was just curious if chat allowed level 3 nesting.
I know that feel too, bro.
 
Stop it. I'm going to throw up down your back now.
It's the lack of clothing and the furrowed brow that gets to me. And the grammar. Oh, the grammar....
 
@Snow That awkward moment when you realize that your original problem is actually not as bad as the responses you get on Workplace Chat.
 
@Snow don't encourage him
 
I don't think I noticed that before, now I see why it's creepy as heck
 
He won't even give you the courtesy of a... <whoops, sorry, wrong movie>
 
2:30 PM
@enderland The meme is called "I know that feel" for a reason. :P
 
... that just got way darker and more awkward than I ever realized
silly me and being optimistically naive about memes being clean
 
Someone say something, make it scroll up, please.
 
@Snow FWIW, I hadn't paid attention to that until you pointed it out. Now it looks super-creepy to me as well.
 
There's something about that guy's expression. It conveys altogether too much information for comfort.
Not that I mind that kind of thing, but it would be nice to at least shake hands first.
 
@enderland It is ok by me if you delete my first response with that picture as well. :)
 
2:41 PM
:)
 
2:52 PM
I feel clean again.
 
lol. I never knew they existed!
 
Kaz
@motosubatsu That sounds awesome!
 
3:09 PM
LOL, I can't see any of the images until I get home.
WARNING: POTENTIAL HNQ BAIT!!!!
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Q: Inappropriate soundtrack for #1 in Men's Room?

A.OSo when I walk into the Men's room at work I sometimes run into this guy. Whenever he steps up to the urinal, he without fail vocalizes the process. The repertoire typically includes: different varieties of grunting noises whistling (not that great) humming loud inhaling-exhaling conversati...

@Nofel Try "Rhinoceros success" next.
 
@motosubatsu those r not good, I had em and they are soggy
@Snow I have headphone on to hear the documentry.
the crying child reminds me of me, when I little. I had pain clipping off my nails and no one would understand and instead my bro would lock my hand in his arm to trim my nails
so how that pain is still with me and I cannot trim my nails until hey r big
which disgust people.
but no in my control
 
@Nofel I have long nails too.
similar reasons
 
poeple thing its joke
I wish they could feel that I cannot hold anything after I trim my nail and closed my hands until 1-2 days
I am retraining my mind to settle it and accept it
it is hard, it is like trying to make a scared kid understand
not just that, we r suppose to pray and I cannot do that due to laziness
and I got phobia which i cannot name coz I dont know
It is like the shower will be turned on automatically and will automatically turn face towards me
i have been disabled by this fear
I want help with it.
I cannot do so many things
 
@Nofel find a professional who is skilled with phobias. It's very easy to treat
 
I donno what they r called in uk
 
3:24 PM
@Nofel psychiatrist, psychologist or counselor. Specializing in phobias.
 
If you have a regular GP, bring this up and ask for a referral.
We have more HNQ material waiting to be closed down....
 
3:57 PM
@Dukeling Good job trying to send the pee down the IPS drain. ;)
If you want to know how to respond, this might be an appropriate question for Interpersonal Skills, but in its current state it's just asking for opinions on the behaviour with no goal - whether it's "normal" or not won't change whether he does it. If the behaviour "feels off", my first assumption would be that he's doing it as a way to make himself less uncomfortable with the situation, or my "feels off"-dar is off - nothing to concern myself with either way. — Dukeling 40 mins ago
 
Hi!
 
Hello @Monoandale
 
I have a question. I don't want to end up with 10 closed questions, so maybe the chat will help. How do I learn about having a career? I ask questions here, but it feels like I am curing the symptoms. How do I learn about how to get promoted, how to avoid senior managers getting credit for my work? How do I stop asking all these questions? I am a bit lost.
 
@motosubatsu guys got problem with same thing which they didn't shared with me. lol, if they would have told me what and how it woks I could have helped but they r banging their heads
 
4:25 PM
@Monoandale There is no one size fits all answer for those questions. Some more details about your specific situation will help get a better answer.
 
5:12 PM
Have a good weekend everyone
 
 
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8:53 PM
Oh, good lord, what next? "Is it unprofessional to push someone down the stairs?"
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A: Is it unprofessional to call code "garbage"?

The Snark KnightIt is the Nadir of unprofessionalism in Information Technology to be derisive of another's code in such a fashion and it goes beyond the derision to the way you made the point. It was done publicly, which is why you were pulled aside (virtually) It disrupts a team. It breads resentment. Coders,...

 
9:07 PM
Stragely, seems like someone is going through my past answers and UV or DV them
Already got 4 votes on a past Answer on a Code Review question
How is your Friday going guys? Its Holliday here in my country hehe so no work for me today
I love long weekends
Hmm now it is more like Serial DV... already got 3 of them in a row...
Lets hope it does not continue or ill have to modflag
 
Sick for me
 

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