and I might have flagged the message as well.
But if it was a user in this room, I know _I_ would have talked to them first before flagging their message (or confirming such a flag). With flags, you only look at the end result and you have no idea what the person's motives are. I realize that taking the motives into consideration would probably make moderation a nightmare (caring for people, oh my!). If I also knew the motives, then I would not have the need to consult the person. This is just how I would decide to handle the issue. I suppose, thank goodness I'm not a moderator.