@Mahnax - C'mon, dude. There
isn't a 'nice' way to describe the OP's subject, because their situation isn't a nice one. No amount of pussyfooting PC-speak is going to improve the condition of someone who finds themselves in those circumstances; when we try to dress them up to make them sound more decorous, it's ultimately only for
our benefit. —
Erik Kowal 2 mins ago