@TobiasFünke So, I take it you have read the
SE question you upvoted. :P A lot of literature (Annett Superconductivity section 6.5, or section 4.5 in the draft, De Gennes, Tinkham as in the question) writes that $$\langle V \rangle = \sum_{\bf{k},\bf{k}'}V_{\bf{k},\bf{k}'} u_k v_k^{
}u_{k'}^{}v_{k'}$$ few acknowledge the problem arising with the $k=k'$ term in the sum (as discussed in the question there too), so that the actual result would be