I’m part of a software development team and the people engagement team in our company. This week has been extremely exhausting with both of my development work and people engagement work being really demanding. I managed to work through those but I believe that I am already burned out. Due to thi...
> A woman is going to have children, so their interest is WHO they are going to have them with. Men are not guaranteed to have children so they put on a display to try and earn that privilege with a woman.
So it's been 4 months since we started dating . I'm aware that she is insecure and jealous but it has been going worse since we started dating.At first she started complaining about me hanging out with my female friend so i gave up on that for the sake of our relationship.
then she started gettin...
@Noon to add onto what Avazula's saying, especially for "what should I do?" questions, the key is they have no goal, which "how do I talk to her?" still kinda lacks. For next time ;)
@Tinkeringbell I am but since it's my question, I don't really want to answer (because I'm biased and because, if I say something negative, it probably won't go well :/ )
@Tinkeringbell I'm kind of frustrating by the fact that there are so little details. Also, I feel like it misses a why, why should I do what they say? Plus, the "somewhat entitled" and " I adapted the answer to provide a better answer to this ever-evolving question of 26 edits." sting a little ><
To conclude, I would say that, without the why, I would probably won't do want they say because we are talking about my relationship with my mother and I don't want to makes things worse
@Tinkeringbell PS: if you agree with me, feel free to use what I write because I won't do it (because I don't want (more) conflict with this person)
@Noon I'd really love to see the community answer this, instead of a moderator :P We're kinda supposed to only step in once y'all don't. Like I did by flagging those six answers yesterday ;)
@Tinkeringbell I must admit, since it is the moderators that are flagged (unless I'm wrong?), I thought that it was up to the moderator to answer the question (and take the decision)
@Noon I flagged them, but people did vote/recommend to delete it.
Ideally the flagging would already have happened by the community
But now that we deleted it on community recommendation, it would be nice to hear from the community whether they think the edit invalidates their votes :D
@avazula ohh looks like meta just went down for maintenance so you can't see that...but they re-did the SE backend finally after like 10 years. This'll be the roll out
@avazula you're telling me. My new company only uses C#, I'm dying
But @Noon I would not worry. The guy is frustrated their answer got deleted whereas it was popular. 26 edits isn't surprising when it comes to controversial topics like veganism because people get sooo picky about everything you say.
Once you hit HNQ its lilely that 75+% of answers don't actually answer your issue
@avazula ooh super spiffy! I've always just used Vim since C++ IDE's always felt too clunky, but I'll have to check that one out for my next pet project
I'm not sure if anyone else has been having this problem today, but I noticed that every vote I'm receiving for an answer is being reported in my notifications as +5 rep instead of +10. Is this a new thing, bug, or something else?
I'm not sure if anyone else has been having this problem today, but I noticed that every vote I'm receiving for an answer is being reported in my notifications as +5 rep instead of +10. Is this a new thing, bug, or something else?
