I generally don't write more than 2 answers per day, so it is harder to hit the repcap without HNQ. I think I have done that only about 4 times out of my 80-odd repcaps. I prefer putting my efforts into editing questions, after I have written 1 or 2 answers in a day.
seriously though.. if I weren't involved myself the two of you would have been the ones getting my pick, and given I wouldn't be disappointed at any of the current candidates I think that's saying something
@Snow if you had a horn wouldn't that make you a unicorn? in which case you'd be fine... everyone knows unicorns can do freaking everything well
Hehe. But I appreciate the support. You'd be pretty darned good yourself. You're very level-headed and you use plain, easy to follow English. It makes you very relatable.
I see too many people using complicated words. It might be good to prove your intelligence, but I feel it alienates people. No one likes to have to resort to Google to work out what someone is trying to say. If I have to read something three times to understand it, I've read it two times too many.
@Snow which is exactly what I would have said.. unless I knew the audience well enough to expect the term to be properly understood and even then I'm not sure it would be my first instinct to use it
@Snow I'd been eyeing them for a while but could never quite justify the outlay until I had a laptop SNAFU on day three of my current contract and needed a machine in a hurry - figured it was the perfect excuse to try going Surface
@Snow yeah I've had that a couple of times when it seems to get confused about whether the type cover is there or not and for some reason the illumination on the type cover doesn't work properly but both fall under niggles rather than real problems
@Snow historically I've used MS Natural keyboards (flirted with some carpal tunnel during my uni days and the doc recommended them) but so far so comfy on the type cover, I'm thinking it must have something to do with it being just the right spacing for me or something like that
@Snow the biggest problem I always have with them is that they slow me down - before I swapped to them I used to kick out ~ 115 wpm on a traditional keyboard, a natural knocked me down to just over half that
@Snow same with the recaros in the S6, the only seats I've found comfier were the ones in a Volvo S60 I looked at a few years back, those crazy Scandinavians somehow made a lay-z-boy feel like sitting on a cold stone bench by comparison
argh.. git.. was there ever a more appropriately named bit of software?
I've read the same thing about the newer models too. I sometimes wish I had bought an XC90. But when I put the Porsche in sport mode, I change my mind again.
@Snow indeed.. an old boss had one as his company car and I saw the service bill for it once - standard medium service + front discs and pads was £3.5k at a dealer
oh god.. I just had a quick scan on autotrader, early Conti GTs are going for ~15k
that's mental
I will have to force myself to write "You already have multiple expensive to run divas on the drive" 500 times
@Snow hell yeah.. the most recent round of spending involved putting a set of the original 17" wheels on it rather than the cheap crap 19" things it had on before and it's like a magic carpet now
you're right about the indestructibility of Dell laptops though - they just limp along getting steadily more annoying but refusing to die so you can get them replaced. I had the exact same experience with an old Inspiron years back - it clung on for years until just after I got my new work laptop and I was allowed to retain it as a personal machine, then it promptly died
@Snow I think most people don't use complicated words to feel superior or to show off or to alienate people. That is probably how they communicate naturally and don't realize that it is hard to understand for someone less skilled in the language. There are people who will sit with a thesaurus looking for the most obscure alternative to every word, but I doubt any of the regulars here are like that.
There was a time when I didn't know what thesaurus and obscure meant, for example, or even alienate and show off.
I refer to a thesaurus from time to time, but that's mainly when I feel the word I am about to use doesn't "feel" right. I do however use the most common alternative, not go hunting for the most obscure word I can find.
I work with another "dinosaur" at work, aka C++. @Snow's remark reminded me of some review comments I received when I started this job. People said that my use of the STL library and algorithms made it "too hard" to understand, and they probably thought I was trying to impress people at a new job by writing "tricky" code. But I have been writing such "tricky" code as a habit, I wasn't actively trying to impress anyone.
I ended up doing a few training sessions for some of the folks and now they don't find this so "tricky" any more. Another common complaint I hear is when Americans and British visit India. Most "blue collar" workers here have a passing familiarity with English, so they complain that "those arrogant foreigners" deliberately use "difficult English" to make us feel "inferior".
. In reality, they are actually nice people speaking English the only way they know, not trying to make anyone feel "inferior".
@MisterPositive that's some good going though.. I have another 86 to go for legendary! :D
@Snow thanks :) I actually think The Event That Shall Not Be Mentioned has helped me there.. I've had a few upvotes on some really old answers come ticking in this week
ION I just had BK for lunch and now I have the meat sweats.. totally worth it!
@Mithrandir Oh since you aren't a regular here, I think I should tell you that I am a bit of a comic relief character here. :D Although my nomination is pretty serious.
To me this person is a troll.
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Yes, as a matter of fact, I am only 2 short of 40 on the moderation score. I actually didn't think I was that high until I ran the SEDE query. I thought I would be around 35.
I have the lowest score on the mod questionnaire though.
If I don't win this election, as is likely to happen, I will probably go on one of my retirements in restricted mode again. In fact, I have already booked tickets for a vacation in the 1st week of June. :)
Though if I do win the election, I will gladly "telecommute" on my mod duties from my vacation.
Yet another long day in the office today. I am heading off home now, will catch you again in a hour and half. Don't do anything fun until I am back. :)
@MisterPositive oops! open mouth-insert foot :D to be fair the good thing about going to Naples is that it's close by to Pompeii and Vesuvius, both of which are well worth a visit
@dwizum to be fair I haven't actually been on a vacation for about 4 years
@MisterPositive my previous gap to that was 12 years which was kind of insane thinking about it.. I keep meaning to get away again but stuff keeps getting in the way like buying a house and work and other such inconveniences
@MisterPositive yeah.. I was going to take a decent trip this year but I've taken such a financial kicking over the last six months that I think it'll probably have to wait (again)
Buying a house is a lot of work! My vacation this year is 2 weeks after I close on a new house. I'm going to need the break from all this dealing with lawyers and banks and packing...
The good news for me is I'm selling my current house after buying it cheap and being there for 16 years so I'm walking away with enough cash to afford the trip
hey all. Does anyone have an idea of what UK organisation might release previous employment data? We're looking to build an app that does this in an automated way so couldn't be like gov website with the forms to fill in
more API based, but any info at all would be good as I cannot find anything whatsoever
so we can caputre their current address and name from a drivers license scan. we're struggling to find how we could get their 3 years previous employment. I feel I might have to email HMRC and ask them, ut fear they'll just say no
we'll look at consent later. urm, that sounds dodgy, it's a proof of concept at the moment
just trying to find if it's even possible
we doubt it will be possible, given the laws to protect such data, but not giving up just yet
You got questioned specifically about your edits? You were doing basic grammar improvements. It made the question more readable. I don't see how that's questionable.
@MisterPositive If they thought it was salvageable why didn't THEY edit or suggest an edit? This is supposed to be a community effort, no? I don't expect mods to be the only ones to fix things and I don't expect them to always "do the right thing" since some of the burden of defining "the right thing" should be on the larger community, no?
@DarkCygnus I had a parent pass 22 years ago, I'm still processing it. Like anything else there are good moments and bad, and you learn through the process over time.
Well done with the comment, Snow. Hopefully he takes it to heart. This is where "community" really adds value, because it's not a personal battle between him and a moderator, it's a handful of people trying to edit/guide/correct him.
@dwizum It is normal for mod candidates to be questioned on things that demonstrate community leadership. That said though I think @MisterPositive did the right thing. Vote to close the question, then edit and vote to reopen. Leaving the question open for too long raises the risk of getting irrelevant and invalid answers which just increases community efforts. People should see "on hold" as more of "this question is down for maintenance".
I think that question is OK because this site is about navigating the workplace and how to find a job is a valid concern. I seem to recall it is mentioned somewhere on the help center.
@motosubatsu The shotgun reference Tina was talking about
@MaskedMan Is there a difference between an answer (which may or may not be good) that happens to have abusive language, versus an answer that is inherently abusive?
@dwizum My personal take on that is if it violates the Be Nice policy, we send it to the bin. We can't be giving the impression that abusing people is OK as long as you wrap it in a somewhat useful answer.
So, let's say, hypothetically, there's a good answer that has bad language in it. We're willing to throw away the good answer in order to punish the bad language? Or would you repost the good answer after removing the bad one?
Yeah, I know we're all playing on the same team - just trying to navigate the "norms" and think it through out loud
Depends on the "bad language"; if someone just used something like "your situation is shit", then feel free to edit. If someone said "you are shit" ... meh, I'd prefer to comment on the language, rather than "silently" edit it out
I have a thing with editing all typos away, even though they are answers. But editing answers is more tricky, so you don't conflict with the author's intent
@Tina_Sea Hi Tina, and welcome to the site. This is the chat room, as you can see it's very informal. If you have a question you would like an answer to you can ask it on the main site, and you should get some help there.
@Tina_Sea Sorry Tina, we're often in the middle of two or three discussions at once in here, it can be confusing. It may be worth posting a question on the actual site vs here in chat.
But yes, I agree with Mister Positive, I would put it under "Education" or wherever you'd put any other diploma or degree. In the US it is functionally equivalend to a High School diploma.
@dwizum My reason for that rule is by making the OP put in the effort to remove their foul language, we are introducing a "friction" in their flow, and that should help them think twice before they post the next answer.
@Tina_Sea If anything, having a GED might be a positive to some people. It shows you're willing to take initiative and make things happen for yourself, even if you've had some detours in life
as for how to list it on the resume I'd list the same way as any other educational certification - list the date obtained, grade if you think it's worth showing off
@Tina_Sea Some of my favorite employees over the years have been people who had GEDs or incomplete degrees that they went back later to finish. These people usually understand that they have to get up and work for things, versus just expecting everything to go in their favor.
Also, when talking about "bad language" we must remember that a lot of people aren't native English speakers, and may have different perceptions of language. A real example: up until a few weeks ago I genuinely thought that "twat" was a kind of friendly typical British way of calling someone an asshole. Turns out, it's actually considered really offensive! Oops!
A Spanish friend of mine was saying something similar a while ago too, when she moved to the UK she said "shit" a lot and never realized it was something considered offensive
@MisterPositive no. This form leans very european/liberal. Not everyone in the world thinks like they do. I'm not trolling. I would hope that diversity is respected here. — James1 min ago
You can usually tell from the context if a person is honestly just misusing a certain word or deliberately creating trouble. The choice of words is a factor to consider but it is not the end of the game. Don't get too hung up on whether a user used feces or excrement, look at the overall tone of the answer and how they respond to the comments.
@MisterPositive The above discussion about what is "controversial".
For example, "nigger" is highly offensive in the US because of its history and such. Here in India, we routinely refer to people of African origin as Negros. Since we don't have any such "history" with Africans, it is about as acceptable as Whites. So someone from India might use the word Negro in an answer without being aware of the connotations in the US, don't hunt him down to the end of hell.
If the overall tone of the answer is constructive, assume good faith and don't chase him to ends of hell for using a single offensive words that he probably doesn't even realise.
Oh and speaking of which, US folks routinely call people of East Asian descent as "Asians". This is seen as mildly offensive in India, because hey, we are Asians too.
I established this rule about 8 years ago. Anything that precedes 'but' is rubbish (as you call it, I use a much more interesting term), everything after it is the actual feedback. Example: "You did well this year, but your leadership can be improved." Just for the record, this was worked 100% for me so far. — Masked Man1 min ago
Please use this rule when you take in the feedback from your manager. :)