I originally started only questioning by entertaining non-binary identities because I could only identify that I didn't entirely want to be male but I also didn't feel comfortable considering anything as *big* as jumping all the way to the other end, and from that perspective they were obviously appealing even if I never felt comfortable really adopting one. When I first started actually having an open mind to being transfem like 10 days ago, I still felt like I could totally entertain non-binary identities as compatible with what I'd identified about vague preferences for presentation and …