So if you don't want to heat the chip directly, because you think (possibly rightly) that your Chinesy hot air thing will overshoot too much, you probably really want solder paste, as then you can (not the best way, but CAN) only heat the PCB and wait for the chip to seat neatly and then wait another 20 seconds before turning the heat off
What do you think a reflow oven does?
Cuddle the chip while it heats the PCB only to 295 degrees?
or 275 or 285 or whatever the profile it's set to
For the solder to adhere properly both metal surfaces need to be a bit above the melting temperature
The best way to make that happen is heating both objects, if you heat only the PCB with too little power, you may even make the chip last VERY long at 190+ degrees, which is much more likely to kill something containing only semiconductor and wire-bonds than a short peak a bit too much above 300 degrees.
The whole idea of the sharp reflow peak is quickly make everything on the outside fckn hot, while the energy doesn't penetrate to the chip before everything is cooled down again
If you dunk your hand very shortly in 95°C water and immediately in cold water 10 minutes, it'll likely heal on its own. If you hold your hand under 70°C for an hour, it's very unlikely your hand will ever function the same way again.