Being lost isn't uncommon, but in trying to understand what was read and getting to this line:
*But please, please don’t Show the default instance.*
That's what really made me stop and be like... how bad at this am i? I feel like I use the default instance at all times. That's the window that pops up when i add a UserForm to VBA, yes? I typically add controls to that default isntance, rename it with F4, and then program each control.