And I'd probably be a better melee cleric if I bought items that let me spend a costy charge to get one more attack, or that ring that lets me auto-pass saves by spending costy charges. Everything I'd need to be on par with others might be a costy consumable.
I think my next step towards enjoying the game will be getting come more non-epic items as soon as this war ends and I can leave the front without some weak NPCs dying because of my absence :p