@SPArchaeologist I saw XD
I'll explain anyway. There's a thing called the ladder experiment, or the monkeys & ladder experiment. It works like this: put five monkeys in a room, with a ladder in the middle with fruit on the top. One of the monkeys will inevitably climb the ladder to get the fruit. When they do, the room's sprinklers go off, which the monkeys hate. New fruit then gets added a little while later.
After not very long the monkeys figure out that it's climbing the ladder that does it. So the next time a monkey tries to climb that ladder, the other four monkeys leap into action, howl, and drag that monkey right back off it. They exhibit this behaviour consistently, and reach a point where nobody climbs the ladder.
Then the experiment progresses to the next phase: a monkey is taken out of the room, and a brand new monkey is added. That monkey will almost immediately go to climb the ladder. Everyone will howl and drag him off. Then, once that's settled in, a second monkey is rotated out, and a new monkey added. He'll climb the ladder as well. Everyone, including the new monkey will howl and drag him right back off, even though the new monkey has no idea what'll happen.
Repeat this process until all five original monkeys have left the room. Now you have a room full of five monkeys, all of whom will howl at any monkey who climbs the ladder, and drag them right back down, even though they have no idea what will happen if anyone climbs the ladder. None of them have seen it at this point.
I say this, so that I can then say: We are not those monkeys. We individually form conclusions or agreement over what the SE system does well, and what it does not, because we observe it working well or not working well on a regular basis. Most of us experience basically every single one of the problems our system can face first-hand at some point.
We have rules to eliminate certain types of content which causes problems, and those rules came after we recognised the problem and how to remove it. They were based on actual evidence and experimentation, only after real issues emerged in the system. See the banning of shopping questions, for example.
It's a bit like taking a while to figure out that knives are really, really shit for smashing rocks, and while they're really great at cutting meat, we probably shouldn't use them to smash rocks, because they're awkward and go blunt or slip or we stab ourselves. We should probably just use knives for cutting meat, and find something else to smash rocks with.
Well, we've gone and seen all the stabbings happen by idiots using the knife to smash rocks.
(This is still a metaphor, but I'm sure Youtube has something like this.)
There are many new users who follow older users' advice on how the system should work, but that's more like the elder saying: "Don't eat those berries. They are poison. You will die." Most people think that's pretty good advice and never eat a berry. And then a few people go "what does he know," eat a berry, and they die.
... which sucks for them, but hey, that's what elders are for: to impart advice and help you avoid dying horribly to poison berries.