catija, I guess i've started to change this to a ... what do they say it in english? Confabulate maybe! lol! but i really need some help with this..
what I suggested was keeping in touch until he finishes studying and then we could go back together. I'd definitely do that but he says it's hard for him to tolerate that 5 years and it's not just me, it's mom and dad too.
what I'd suggest US is what I said above. considering his personality, I'd tell him to go and just let go of every thing he has in here and try to make a new life. then if in the middle he found an opportunity to rejoin me or…