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Q: How to apologize for the transgression of an acquaintance?

baloogaI recently went shopping with a girl who I met about two weeks ago. I will call her my friend to communicate the issue easily. We were exploring one of the stores, and we came across what appeared to be a decorative water spout. My friend asked the store employee what it was while simultaneousl...

 
@HDE226868 What to do with this? interpersonal.stackexchange.com/a/1181/16
 
Telling someone to "get the f#ck off the phone" completely fails the OP's requirement of a polite response. — HDE 226868 5 mins ago
Maybe flag as NAA? I'm not sure.
 
I DVed it, but didn't know if I should do anything else
 
1:00 AM
@Hamlet Yep. The same one as in the volunteer question. It's fun, but sometimes mentally draining.
@Catija That would be really nice.
 
 
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2:17 AM
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Q: Invited to a wedding, but didn't get an invitation, what should I do?

VylixA while back ago, my friend married. I was sent an invitation when no one was at home, so it got recalled and sent back to the sender (my friend, at a nearby town). A little background on this friend: we are classmates back in junior high school, in a small 20 person class (other class got 40s),...

 
@HDE226868 So how much longer do you have camp?
 
 
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5:11 AM
@YvetteColomb I voted for you.
 
5:51 AM
@SQB thank you :)
 
6:02 AM
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Q: When in queue at the supermarket, how do I get my personal space?

LaynaA quick cultural and personal background: this refers to Germany, and I am terrible at handling ANY kind of even mild conflict with people, especially people I don't know. When in queue in a supermarket, how do I tell someone that I feel crowded by them? I am fine with a CART right behind me, bu...

 
 
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7:56 AM
I'm sorry but the name of this room has made it my obligation to post these sponge bob memes every time there is a a awkward silence :D
 
 
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9:10 AM
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Q: Can we use the abbreviation in profession communication?

Code LღverIs it good to use the abbreviation words in my professional communication? I generally uses the Mail or Skype to communicate with other. In that case, many times I used such words like ASAP, CTN, FYI etc. So when should I used these words or I should not used them?

 
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Q: Is "what should I do" question on topic here?

VylixIn Workplace, they have an off-topic close reason for "what to do" question, because it attracts opinion-based answer. Is this kind of question on topic here?

 
 
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11:14 AM
@YvetteColomb Are you still here?
 
11:28 AM
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Q: How do I tell customers they're not my number one priority?

Notts90Background I work for a very small company that's been around a long time, we do a mix of processing customer products and consultancy work. We have a reasonable mix of customers, working for multiple departments of some of the larger ones. The problem It's a feast or famine industry. Sometime...

 
12:06 PM
@AJ I am now :)
 
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12:22 PM
@YvetteColomb Well, I wanted to report some spams in Charcoal HQ.
But no worries. It is already handled
:)
 
12:36 PM
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Q: How to start a conversation with a 'stranger' from school?

TitaniumAfter the summer holidays, I'll be a senior in high school. My year consists of about 100 people, and I approximate that I've never had a word with 30-50 of them. It's not that there were no occasions - while I generally don't share classes with these people, I have happened to sit next to them o...

 
12:51 PM
@AJ ah cool
 
 
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5:54 PM
@Catija I literally was about to propose that.
Of course, the best way to build up support for a custom close reason is to start closing questions.
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Q: How do I indicate interest in going somewhere without inviting myself along?

Joe SSometimes acquaintances or people that I would like to get to know better are setting up some sort of social gathering (bar, party, bowling, etc) and I am not explicitly invited. I know that if I mention it they will invite me, but I feel that mentioning that I would like to go with them is "Invi...

You could use the "unclear what your asking" close reason to start out, and then add a custom close reason once it's clear that (1) those questions should be closed, (2) there's a consensus in favor of closing those questions, and (3) how many questions actually need to be closed.
 
@Hamlet Yeah. I have a bunch of Meta questions I need to write but I don't think we have a ton of meta users... I feel like the stuff that's been posted recently isn't getting a lot of votes or responses in general outside the same 5-6 "usual suspects".
@Hamlet There are problems either way. Using the default doesn't necessarily mean that all Unclear closes are for that exact reason... and getting people to use the custom close reasons in a useful way is hard.
I hope we get mods this week, though! That would be awesome.
 
@Catija that's why consensus on meta don't mean much.
You have to get consensus on the main site.
That means finding five people who will vote to close questions that, say, don't specify the cultural context.
 
6:18 PM
@Hamlet I would say close off-topic with a custom reason - that way, we can use some of the stats from the mod tools to at least show reason behind doing it as well
 
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Q: How to sensitively let a neighbour know that they can be heard?

r mHow can someone let their neighbour know that the adjoining properties are not as "soundproof" as they might suppose? This in context is about terraced housing (UK usage) or row housing (US usage). The issue is of some delicacy as it can be assumed that sound carries in both directions through th...

 
@Zizouz212 sounds good. Now go do it!
 
Would this work?
Questions that don't include all aspects of the situation, notably culture, language, faith traditions and other aspects that are relevant, are too broad because they make all answers equally valid. Make sure to create a specific question that outlines anything that is relevant, to assist anyone to develop a fully-informed answer. For more information, please see Interpersonal issues with solutions that are culturally or regionally different?
 
@Zizouz212 good enough
 
That cell phone usage question could use some help... the answers are all over the place.
@Zizouz212 It's supposed to be instructions to fix the question, so I'd change the second sentence to read something more like "Edit your question to include these details, outlining anything that's relevant so that others can ... "
I like to use the ELL close reason as an example:
> This question should include more details than have been provided here. Please edit to add the research you have done in your efforts to answer the question, or provide more context. See: Details, Please.
We can certainly be more specific than that if we have specific things to recommend but it's also ok to simply link to a meta post that tells you what to include.
 
6:33 PM
@Catija That was just a draft I made when writing that post. No one said anything, and I just copied it here :P
 
Also useful as reference is the M&TV close reason for ID questions:
> Identification questions must contain sufficient detail to meet the site's quality standards. They should be about identifying an actor, movie, TV show, or a specific episode of a TV show and should not consist only of an image. For help writing a good identification question, see: Identify-This-X Questions.
 
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7:22 PM
@YvetteColomb what's the status of your nomination now that you didn't make SO mod?
 
 
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9:04 PM
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Q: Moratorium on Hot Network Questions until we have greater control on site policies

Zizouz212I'm going to ask for a moratorium on questions from Interpersonal Skills Stack Exchange from appearing on the sidebar in the Hot Network Questions list, until a later date. We've had a number of questions go onto this list which have all received incredible amounts of activity. However, with thi...

 
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Q: Moratorium on Hot Network Questions until we have greater control on site policies

Zizouz212I'm going to ask for a moratorium on questions from Interpersonal Skills Stack Exchange from appearing on the sidebar in the Hot Network Questions list, until a later date. We've had a number of questions go onto this list which have all received incredible amounts of activity. However, with thi...

 
@IntrovertedMetaMan. Oh, you're much quicker today
 
@Zizouz212 I'm not sure that's configurable, unfortunately.
 
It's not? Oh well :/
 
You'd have to ask a CM... But I'm guessing not. If they can't remove a single question, I don't think they can likely remove a site... but we'll see if they respond.
 
9:13 PM
Yep :)
 
SQB
I think some sites have opted out of the HNQ.
 
You'd think Puzzling would if that were the case.
 
SQB
Or we just need mods, stat.
Just make @HDE226868 and @Catija mods, then sort the third mod out later (we have four nominations scoring about the same in third through sixth place).
Anyway, I'm off to bed. G'night.
 
@SQB Night!
 
@SQB Good night!
@Catija After this week, I have two more. Then a one-week break, then college.
 
9:24 PM
@HDE226868 Whee!!!
You already have classes picked out?
 
Yep. As of last April.
 
@HDE226868 Oooohhh...
 
Wow... That's early.
 
Modern Algebra, Mechanics, Introductory Astrophysics, and The Rise of the Novel.
@Catija We do course selection at the end of the previous semester.
So there's time for meeting with your advisor, for instance.
 
That early? We did ours in June
 
9:28 PM
"Modern algebra"? Fancy. Astrophysics... are you sure you have time to be a mod of this site?
 
@Zizouz212 Yeah, but you're entering freshman year.
Freshman do theirs orientation week.
 
All students for us do it in June; first-years do it a few weeks before everyone else actually
 
Oh, huh.
 
Perhaps this is a schedule issue? I think we actually did ours in April, too... but finals week was always about the first or second week in May... if your classes go into June, that's different... though. Also, we could change your courses any time during the summer and if you don't pay up by X date, you lost your classes.
 
Last day of finals for everyone but seniors was May 12, IIRC.
 
9:33 PM
Yeah. I think our graduation is usually sometime around then.
 
For us it would be late April (the end of the Winter semester)
 
9:48 PM
Never mind. We're getting more questions than I thought.
 
nothing happened
 
10:23 PM
Why do I keep answering questions when I'm rep capped... ugh.
 
Perfect time to up vote your answers! :P
 
@Catija 'Cause you care more about helping people than rep?
And know you'll get residual upvotes from the posts over time?
I think I have yet to rep cap on IPS.
 
@Zizouz212 HAR HAR HAR
@HDE226868 I've been sitting on that noise next door question all day. It's complicated.
 
I'm still 1k below you two in rep :P
 
@HDE226868 I was really sad yesterday. I rep capped by noon local time and got 20+ votes that didn't get counted. I was excited, though, when one of the answers from yesterday continued to get votes today and so I hit it again.
 
10:31 PM
@Catija It is. Having never been in that situation, I . . . Oh, wait, I have. Last year, one of the kids in the room next door was loud as heck.
 
Whenever I write an answer, somebody comes along and writes a better answer cough HDE cough
 
I was actually really surprised by the votes on the "how not to work for free" question.
 
I was kind of confused by that question
 
How so?
 
@Zizouz212 I spent ~45 minutes on that answer. I might have started writing it before you wrote yours!
 
10:33 PM
Not sure. Read it a few times, but things didn't match up in my mind
 
10:46 PM
Ugh, at least two more days until I can get enough rep for the mod tools... assuming no changes on mod status for anyone.
 
11:20 PM
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Q: Answering when the person only started the sentence

NahiriSome people can be a bit predictable and longwinded and it's very easy to guess what they will say, it's like playing chess and guessing a few moves ahead. It happens often that a person only started to ask his question and I am already giving him an answer/solution interrupting him in the begi...

 

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