2:58 PM
and you potentially let the user continue to further to damage this site, unnecessarily. What I notice Teresa, is everything you post on meta is overly sweetened, and distinct from what you share here and in CURED. I attribute it to you tendency toward people pleasing, or political, to "keep your options open. You do this on virtually all meta posts. And I'm not the only one wondering about your flip flopping. And I'm not impressed by your comment. The deletions and suspensions likely
happened to ugro, despite your often naive first approach.
You be you. That's fine. But don't pretend you're effective. You've complicated a lot of progress on this site.
You are effective in your chatroom, but you are overconfident about your capacity to coax hard core abusers of this site. They may play into it, like Yorch did, remember? But they fooled you. And put off actions that should have been taken. Anyway, you do what you want in CURED; and if you want to play good cop bad cop, do so. Cured will have more work on its hands, and face increasing posts in CURED. Because I'm an strike while I wind down my unappreciated, wasted time on math.se.
That's what Xander wants to happen, no doubt, only for his own sake, because he doesn't practice what he preaches, and he's come to resent me and target me and ignore me, because I give honest feedback. So have fun; I'll understand if you want to leave after over ten years active on this site.