Formally, there's a difference between the
symmetric algebra and
symmetric tensors (see
Wiki), although they are isomorphic. The metric is a
symmetric tensor, but when we use notation like $g_{\mu\nu}\mathrm{d}x^\mu\mathrm{d}x^\nu$ (and so also stuff like $\mathrm{d}t\mathrm{d}\chi$, without tensor signs), we're talking in terms of the
symmetric algebra. The symmetric algebra is commutative