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Extroverted Main Man
Extroverted Main Man
01:57
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Q: How not to ruin my chances of a potential long-distance relationship?

jFreneticSo, I recently re-connected with this girl, with whom I'd already been in a long-distance relationship almost 10(!) years ago. At the time, we lived in different cities, but in the same country. Our relationship was mostly platonic, but it lasted a couple years, and when we did see each other i...

relationships online-relationships long-distance
 
5 hours later…
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
06:48
Morning! :)
CaldeiraG
CaldeiraG
07:08
Morning!
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
07:23
How was your weekend?
Mithical
Mithical
@ExtrovertedMainMan Every. Single. Question. Is about dating. >.<
CaldeiraG
CaldeiraG
08:17
@Tinkeringbell pretty good, went on a mini vacation from thursday to yesterday :P
was pretty nice
@Mithical everyone is afraid of messing up on a date :P
so they ask strangers on the internet how to not be a stranger
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
08:30
@CaldeiraG Sound nice indeed!
Ael
Ael
09:02
Hello, it's Monday 11AM and the only thing I can think of is how much I want to sleep :'( I am so bad at setting boundaries when I'm with my family. How am I suppose to function at work if I don't rest enough during the weekend???
I was wondering "why is it so hard to just say 'no'", but I know why. My family just don't like taking "no" for an answer
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
@Ael Yeah, that's hard :(
What did they make you do this weekend?
Ael
Ael
Going shopping for food and harvest cherries. It could have been okay but the timing was terrible and I was unable to take proper naps
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
09:18
:(
Ael
Ael
Plus, the cherries weren't even good ><
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
Do they take 'not now, rather at <time after nap>' better than 'no'?
@Ael Oof. I'm sorry to hear that! The only fun part about picking fruit is eating it, if you ask me. And then it sucks if the eating part isn't good!
Ael
Ael
@Tinkeringbell Not really. But it's understandable since my naps are at least two hours long. They are fine with "in 15 minutes?" but two hours is a bit too long for them :/
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
Hmm, yeah. That's also kinda understandable.
CaldeiraG
CaldeiraG
@Tinkeringbell :)
 
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Magisch
Magisch
10:55
@Mithical that surprises you?
Mithical
Mithical
11:12
@Magisch I wouldn't say it surprises me, it's just annoying.
 
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Rainbacon
Rainbacon
13:34
ugh, self review time at work. At least I don't have to review my team anymore.
CaldeiraG
CaldeiraG
@Rainbacon makes me remember of "i've won but at what cost" XD
but that's something good :)
Rainbacon
Rainbacon
13:51
Yeah, although there's not much cost. I had to do self reviews before so I've at least made a step in the right direction
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
14:11
"I'm content, are you?"
Usually that's answered with a 'no' though, and I end up having to think about things like 5 years from now and additional training.
 
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Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
15:50
Oooh, I see a long-lost @ElizB :) Hiiii! You still safe?
A J
A J
16:32
We're at #4 now. Yay! 😢
Tinkeringbell
Tinkeringbell
16:43
:(
Rainbacon
Rainbacon
17:11
oh, nevermind, I do have to do feedback for the whole team
@AJ #4 for what?

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