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Q: Tell me the answer wasn't deleted for the reason I think

Johns-305https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/posts/23095/revisions Another deleted answer but this time it's for terrible reasons. It don't want to say it, but... Blair White is a transgender female. She is a role-model and advocate for trans persons and trans issues. Flagging her commentary is d...

@IntrovertedMetaMan I'm going to go sob quietly in the corner
@bruglesco :(
I'm glad I can't actually read the answer
it was posted while I was at work so I didn't watch the video in it myself, but I am not optimistic based on what I've heard. guess I might need to now though :/
not exactly how I was hoping to spend my evening lol
Well I am familiar with Blair White enough to know that I will not be watching the video
00:20
here's something lighter I just ran across (or not, I guess, if you are afraid of snakes): "San Jose thieves steal duffel bag, apparently unaware it's full of snakes"
> It was a cold-blooded crime.
hahahaha
 
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03:22
ahoy @Pikalek
03:33
@bruglesco [responds as an island? or a cookie with imitation chocolate chips?]
@Pikalek Ohh I thought I was the island
Maybe just emotionally
The island says ahoy? Then I've been doing that part all wrong.
I think it just demonstrates that I am confused about my identity
Allow me to try again
Hello!
@bruglesco oh, then we must collectively be the stack exchange :P
I'll reboot too.
Hi!
How are you this evening?
Cooked anything interesting lately??
03:37
Ugh, well, the good news after things got worse, they got better.
@bruglesco I tried making corned (not totes from scratch) again. Actually had allspice this time, so I think it turned out better.
Was too unpleasant outside to sear it on the grill though.
corned?
sorry - corned beef.
What did you do with it after you made it?
Just as is?
Sliced it thin across the grain & plated it with veggies & bread. Wife & I had balck rye, kido had wheat.
We ate it as was though - nobody sandwiched it.
Sounds good
Any cabbage? I love corned beef with cabbage
I might make that for dinner tommorrow
although I'm buying the corned beef. Doing a brisket right is a lot of work.
03:43
Yes, the veg was angel hair shred cabbage. I laddled some of the juices from the pot into a wide pan, reduced it & used that to cook the cabbage.
ohh that sounds amazing
I started with pre-corned beef myself.
It was pretty good. I used too much broth, so the veg was a bit too juicy.
Sometimes I like it like that
And next time I'll be choosier about the cut & marbling on the beef.
with potatoes stewed in there almost like a soup
03:46
I was going to do that, but I fell asleep in the afternoon & didn't have time to dig potatoes :(
I have never once in my life dug my own potato
And now I am starting to think I have never lived
It's easy if you container grow them. Raised bed isn't too bad either. I don't like digging them from the straight up yard soil though because we have so much clay.
Ohh yeah the ground around here has a lot of clay too.
I've never grown a tuber, besides garlic, so it never occured to me.
I grew a some blue variety this year. They're super fun to look at.
Are those similar to purple?
Because I love purple potatoes ><
The truth is I stopped gardening years ago because I kill everything.
03:50
Oh, they might have been actually. I have a color vision impairment. So who knows.
Well the color is borderline.
So wan't sure if we were talking about the same thing
Like the way some people call it a red onion or a purple onion
or red/purple cabbage
Hard to say. I didn't log the specific variety as I got them from the food / grocery co-op instead of during my trip to the plant nursery.
Then yes the purple potatoes are very visually fun. The colors pop best when roasted
Thanks I'll have to remember that!
It is also fun to make a mash out of them, but the cream does take a lot of the color out
and boiling drains the color too
03:53
Yes :( But the still taste good :)
Yup
Not a lot of ways I don't like a potato
hmm I wonder how they would look in confit
I bet they would keep their color
Rotted potato is pretty bad. When they pour out of the bad, I'm pretty sure I'll never eat again.
Haven't tried to confit them. If I happen to get to it first, I'll let you know what happens.
Please do
How about you? Make anything you want to dish about?
I haven't done anything fun lately. I've been in a rut. That's probably part of the reason I brought the subject up. I like hearing about the other fun things people are doing and trying to get inspiration from it.
The last thing I did that was fun was braised spare ribs in the InstantPot
04:01
I used the InstantPot on my corned beef :)
Nice
I Love mine
I use it for rice. 4 minutes.
It's incredible
I like ours. Sometimes wish it was a tish bigger. And I probably under use it. When my wife got it, I was skeptical it would earn its keep. But it did.
Have you tried "baking" in it?
I have not
How does that work?
I made some sort of upside down berry something or other & they was great.
ahh so like make the filling
and then layer crust or crumble on top at end?
04:04
Yeah.
Have you done yoghurt?
I wanna do that next
Not in the IP, but we've made our own in the oven.
IP cheesecake is supposed to be pretty great too.
Well, I love cheesecake, so no reason not to try it.
Ahoy Hello @AJ
A J
A J
Hello!
New avatar?
Indeed
A J
A J
04:08
It's kinda cool.
Thanks. I wish I was the artist
FWIW, my cooking rut tends to get resolved when I try to turn an unlikely collection of left overs into meal. I made my first soup of autumn that way; on a cold day, even if it doesn't end inspired, it's still nice to have hot soup.
Yeah it is getting into soup weather here. Which is a great time for me because the wife doesn't tolerate soups well during the summer
We're kinda the same way about them as well.
I can eat soup every day
all year round
04:16
Speaking of which, mine just got back home, so I'm off to spouse about the house. Cheers all & good night.
G'night @Pikalek
 
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07:09
Morning!
Indeed it is.
@SurajRao o/
07:53
Morning o/
Afternoon!
that meta apology was featured. . .
08:18
@ankii Probably since the beginning of it XD
If you wanna help on here, I would appreciate it lol, understand nothing of macOS
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Q: Airdrop won't detect other devices

furckAppleMy Macbook Pro's Airdrop won't detect other devices in the area. I've gone through the standard system restarts, switching on an off Bluetooth & WiFi, as well as ensuring that devices are on the same WiFi network. Upon booting up in secure boot (El Capitan), and accessing Airdrop from the Find...

08:32
@CaldeiraG I had upvoted your comment there though.. max one can do on such problems
where did all the comments go ?
I flagged for migration to AD though,
09:02
@ankii You dont need to migrate if it's on-topic on SU
Apple.SE would get more answers though
@CaldeiraG still isn't a reason good enough for migration ;)
"You don't need to migrate if it's on-topic on SU" :p
I didn't flag to migrate lol
I know :p
just for OP's good.
the fact that airdrop needs at least two apple devices, not very hopeful of someone like that more active on SU than AD.
well ofc mod declined it.
Mokubai i imagine
he is doing some reviews now
09:15
can't figure out their accent declined - it is not off topic here.
This guy can definitely help there
https://superuser.com/users/347380/tetsujin
look at the apple-related tags on SU and watch :p
I know him, on AD and seen on SU too
actually we had an argument over suggested edits.
Well
That is quite normal
he knows about file systems, external displays, other things I don't remember
I was <2k at that time and at some rejections in a queue, approved by other two, or a mod
that is not the point.
Why doesnt SU simply give up hosting Apple questions ?
people need answers, on one site or another.
" Telling people, especially newjoiners, to post on SO usually results in duplicated posts on both sites. If a migration is required, vote to close accordingly."
how about I now go and tell that user to post on AD? which I actually indirectly did by digging up questions from there instead of SU
I would imagine SU has more traffic than Apple.SE
09:22
yes, but focus ?
Just like SU hosts Linux and ubuntu questions and there are Unix.SE and Ask ubuntu
there's different hardware in question
So if you gonna take it all from there, it should be renamed to Microsoft-specific
or hardware yea
that's my impression of SU too
Macs are anyway not very good with mixing and matching
It's unlikely to change tbf
People just see Superuser more on google and that counts
+ the work to migrate all existing question to the sister websites
But the deal is Superuser focus on software/hardware so a operative system is a software by itself
So people could ask on SU about software running on MacOS
09:28
I am not invalidating its on-topic-ness
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A: Is it okay to inform users to stop promoting Apple.SE when a question is fine to stay here?

nhinkleI've noticed this too, and it's an annoying trend, so let me make the official policy clear: If a question about an Apple product is on topic for Super User as defined in the the FAQ, then it should stay on Super User If a user comments saying that questions about OS X should be moved to Ask D...

but when scope overlaps, OP can decide which way to go.
@Maxim actually the most straightforward way around this issue that doesn't involve asking the person what is their preferred pronoun and without inventing very weird (and often unpronounceable) words like "elx" would be avoiding pronouns altogether and just maneuvering concordance around whatever you want to use as a placeholder. I usually choose "person" when I'm avoiding gender markers. Everything will be conjugated in female because "person" is a female word in portuguese. — Juliana Karasawa Souza 10 secs ago
#6484 Juliana Karasawa Souza (448 rep) | A: What pronoun to use when talking about a transgender person's past? (score: 65) | posted 698 days ago by apaul (51057 rep) | Toxicity 0.21849962 | Comment on inactive post | tps/fps: 0/0
I found the policies for that if you want to read it all
so to avoid cross posting, migration is best. Deleting it on SU later because it was posted on AD would be trickier than now
@CaldeiraG I've read it and the original meta in the past too when workplace and ips had it.
I can wait for 4-5 days and see if it gets answers. then 1/3 conditions will be met.
could you add airdrop tag? I am <500
09:34
@ankii Sure, let's see if it's not deleted xD
@ankii Do that, ask them in chat if needed and link this meta post
The only way to be sure is to ask
well I won't want to be hammered again by this answer solely, best if I get some more arguments.
At least OP needs to be active.
@ankii Well, being active is kinda of a nightmare for new users lol
How many people post a question and ran away without ever coming back to the site
Probably lots of them xd
not an SEDE expert but yeah!
That's what I am saw a while ago in open source too
If you're curious
https://meta.stackexchange.com/questions/8692/force-accepted-answers-on-questions-by-inactive-users
they ask for help, someone posts a comment full of jargons and poof
they never return
09:40
That's on Meta.SE but you can copy the query
some experienced developers post replies only when some user nags them twice
10:09
Lunch! Yay :D
10:20
@Tinkeringbell Have a good lunch :)
@CaldeiraG almost finished, so far it's great :P
great :) mine is in 30 minutes as I'm on British time :)
That's nice too?
I don't mind having lunch :P
JAD
JAD
@Tinkeringbell \o/
10:49
And actually, I can sneak home a little early today too. Things keep getting better :D
11:47
Yay \o
 
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13:21
Things seems very quiet here. How are you people?
Also, we don't have any question on HNQ for now, that would explain the quietness on main overthere ^^
I'm doing well
I could try to write an easier research question tonight? If I still have the energy, I'm pretty drained after yesterday's corporate event.
I NEED SLEEPIES!
How about you?
@Tinkeringbell Oh, I didn't know that such kind of pies existed :p
Also, I'm a little surprised this question isn't on HNQ
13:24
But yeah, I hope you will be able to rest soon
@Ælis Pies would probably be good too, at least for a short while ;)
But I guess it's less hot because it's older
@Rainbacon I'm glad that's not on HNQ with that title.
@Rainbacon Yeah, I think mine was "too hot" at the time and now that mine is out, this one is too old for that
@Tinkeringbell True that x)
I'm also probably a bit late to that question, but there's stuff about complimenting and talking about improving all mixed together... it could've used a good combing through, I think :P
13:26
@Tinkeringbell But I want the rep so I can make the all time front page :(
@Ælis I think the maximum age at which a question can go on HNQ is 30 days? (heard rumours). So it should be possible, but then it should've been a lot hotter than it's currently ;)
@Rainbacon Ah, well... just write a really great answer to my research question and perhaps I can help out with the rep thing :P
Probably it didn't go to HNQ because the question just reopened yesterday and not a lot of traffic happened after it
@Tinkeringbell Yeah, I didn't know the exact age but it's just that, the older the question is, the harder it is for it to be hot enough
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Q: What techniques are proven ways to fix an unbalance between levels of benevolence-based trust and integrity-based trust?

TinkeringbellIn my latest answer, I explained the concepts of benevolence-based trust and integrity-based trust: Intentions are more important than honesty for building benevolence-based trust. So, a pro-social deception, even if found out, can still make Alice trust that your friend has good intenti...

Tink, you might consider dropping out academic research if you want to get answers :)
@Tinkeringbell Talking about that, I kind of "paused" the idea of answering your question but I still have a lot of interesting links. I'll probably hand them over to you/anyone in a week or so if I completly drop the idea of answering it
13:31
@CaldeiraG Nope. I want research based answers :)
Aww xD i really can't find much around the web or not behind paywalls
@CaldeiraG Yeah, that's the hard part. I may eventually self-answer it if I'm getting really bored :P
@Rainbacon I didn't answer you sooner but I'm fine :) I don't have as much energy as I would like to (and thus, I'm unable to post as many questions/answers on SE that I wish I could) but I still have more energy than when I was working full time, so that's very nice
@Tinkeringbell There you go ^^
Much better :D
@Tinkeringbell Well, I'll be traveling for work next week, so maybe I'll have time to do some research
13:37
If you want to go for really boring titles though, I usually make sure they include the question + goal from the question body ;)
@Rainbacon Oh nice, where are you going to?
Different country? Different state? Different city?
@Tinkeringbell Well, I didn't feel much inspired by this one. But maybe "How to help spouse improve her cooking?"
(I don't like when titles are too long)
@Ælis "How to help spouse improve her cooking, without making her feel overly criticized?"
Extorverted main bot is kinda late lol :D
How's that?
Question, goal, a bit of a restriction...
@Tinkeringbell I usually go with something shorter (leave the restriction outside the question) but it does work too
13:40
@Tinkeringbell Different city and state. I'll be in San Francisco for 3 days
@Rainbacon Very cool, enjoy! :)
@CaldeiraG It's a 6 hour flight, I probably won't :p
Still, San Francisco doesn't sound too bad?
@Rainbacon Oo That's sounds very long for a flight inside the same country!
@CaldeiraG that's what I thought too
13:42
@ankii The new question is laying around for 5 minutes XD
laying? idk
and is it a phrasing request?
@CaldeiraG @Ælis knows about usages of lying etc..
"laying" as sitting around
i'm not sure if the word is right
@CaldeiraG It feels right to me
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Q: How do I get my boyfriend to remove pictures of his ex girlfriend hanging in his apartment?

PudoraBackground Information: We have been together for 2,5 years. We do not live together, but visit each others apartments around 5 times a week. He is in his early 30s and I am in my mid 20s. We live in Germany Story: A few month ago I found a picture of my boyfriend kissing (what I assumed was) ...

@Ælis Good :)
13:45
.dat files are so versatile. .
1 message moved to Trash
@Ælis Yep, from the east coast to the west coast. 3 time zones. The US, much like it's citizens, is a bit on the chubby side
Lol I'd count Arizona as its own weird timezone. It's always impossible to tell what time it actually is there since they're immune to daylight savings
@scohe001 I miss being immune to daylight savings
14:05
Ooh you're an ex-Arizonian?
Nope
Ex-Hoosier
Indiana used to not observe daylight savings. We started doing it when I was in 6th or 7th grade I think
Oh wth. That's even weirder...
14:18
The U.S. state of Indiana is divided between Eastern and Central time zones. The official dividing line has generally moved progressively west from its original location on the Indiana–Ohio border, to a position dividing Indiana down the middle, and finally to its current location along much of the Indiana–Illinois border. In April 2006, several southwestern and northwestern counties reverted to Central time, although by late 2007 all but two had returned to Eastern time. As Indiana is on the western frontier of the Eastern time zone, there was opposition from many in the state to observing daylight...
No, what's even weirder is that after starting to observe daylight savings, the state is now on 2 different time zones
...What on earth
I come from a strange place
It's times like these that I thank my lucky stars that somebody else has already built Time and Regex libraries.
Fun fact, I went to college in the central time zone part (the little red blip on the bottom). I had a friend there who lived in just outside the line. It took him 5 minutes to drive to the school, but 2 hours to drive home
LOL I like that
14:27
@scohe001 I believe this should encapsulate how you feel right now
@Rainbacon hahaha hey, I may be Texan, but I'm not that Texan (yet)
Now my pig on the other hand...
Oh! He's grown quite a bit, hasn't he?
Yea! We just weighed him the other day, he's up to 8lbs now (he was 5 when we got him)
No worries, he's just as cute ;)
Haha well he's got a ways to go on the growth too. He shouldn't stop growing until he's 3yrs old
So stay tuned ;P
14:49
Yes, Finley is definitely very Texan
@scohe001 added to the list of faces with an inherent smile
hope he's not afraid of gecko, crocs and goats
What's special about geckos, crocs and goats?? O_o
"inherent smile"
Ahh gotcha lol I didn't realize geckos always smile
15:04
they must make very janitorial pets
15:36
Aww, this just got posted in one of our slack channels at work: giphy.com/gifs/feel-progress-matter-skFSxkyizJmQ8
awww
That's amazing
Feels like me writing a unit test here and there as I complete tasks while the rest of the amount of testable code that doesn't have tests gets bigger.
My work has a slack channel called "best-of-giphy" where we post the coolest gifs we get. That one was discovered by searching for "progress"
@scohe001 Fun story about testing. I had an interview last week where I was talking about how I'm looking for a position where I have more power to push for good practices such as unit tests, and the interviewer told me they've never written a unit test in their professional life
...
"How to ensure your applicant doesn't take the offer 101"
15:52
The thing is, I still might. That's the job where they only have one engineer, and she's leaving at the end of the year. Which means, if I were to get an offer there and take it, I would get to say, no, we're writing tests now
@Rainbacon hehe, it's like an evil plan
Ooh that is kind of exciting. My one qualm is that you'd probably have to rewrite a good chunk of the codebase to abstract any dependencies so that you can properly test. And if there's one thing I've seen, it's that convincing management that I need to go into a hole where I won't be producing any new features or fixing bugs for X weeks to "make the code base cleaner and more reliable" is Very Hard.
^ true. I had to do basically that at my last job
they were convinced by "this will mean we can produce the next 'yes this application works' report in hours, instead of a week"
Yeah, I have an interview scheduled on Friday where I'll be meeting with a lot of the non-engineering staff, so hopefully I'll get a good idea of how workable that would be before I accept any offer
oh, who did you interview with before? was that the engineer that's leaving?
16:39
Yeah
16:51
There's an inconsistency in her reaction re not wanting to be appreciated for her looks while being alright with the aunts' "wow you look great". However, the key part of her reply is "I don't want reactions like this". Bottom line, she doesn't want her uncle to make suggestive remarks like asking her if she's in a magazine which is oriented at seductiveness (and who can blame her??). Women get accused of over-reacting anytime we react to men's suggestive comments with any displeasure. The 3 uncles and the nephew flouncing off over the slightest conflict are the ones over-reacting. — Meelah 56 secs ago
@IPSCommentBot True, but still tp
@Ælis Humans, amirite?
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Yes indeed :p
@IPSCommentBot You are definitely correct
Thank you very much for your answer. I do like the “be firm” part, but I am a little afraid about the “I am not coming over anymore” thing. He does not like conflict and I have no idea how he would respond. Maybe I can ask him if we can remove them together? What do you think? — Pudora 1 min ago
17:14
@IPSCommentBot Well, this is interesting..
@MisterPositive That's what I've been saying for $(AGE_OF_BOT)!
@IPSCommentBot Why do I always imagine you swearing when you say that? :p
Dang, you guys have got him talkative this morning
@scohe001 Well it's good to see that the bot is socializing
Inserts IPS pun in Rain's message
17:31
As long as the little punk isn't causing any trouble or anarchy again...
@scohe001 Again? Oo
Ahh you're probably a little too young to remember. Count yourself lucky, it was a bloody time.
@scohe001 Wait, I'm definitely not too young to remember, but I don't remember all the same
18:02
You think the bots were always this domesticated and nice? No. Things weren't always this peaceful. Let me take you back to a time when things were a little more...wild.

TheSecretMaster, TSM, was out wandering the wild plains of IPS. Out here anything could happen. Questions would rise from the plains, reaching great heights. But the higher and hotter they grew, the more they'd be noticed by...The Network. (*gasp*)

The Network was brutal. It'd swarm questions, plaguing them with off-topic comments and seemingly-random upvotes, ruining perceived post quality and meaningful conversation. TS
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And this, ladies and gentlemen, is what you get when a scohe has finished all his sprint tasks the day before sprint planning.
@scohe001 Oh dear, what have I done? xD (I will read that now)
18:27
@Ælis XD it's so big it even has a scrollbar inside it lol
@IPSCommentBot Definitely lol
18:42
@scohe001 I'm a tad jealous
Granted, we just had our sprint planning 10 minutes ago
Eh I mean it's not like I have nothing to do. I got roped into leading a presentation on "Clean Code" in a few hours (since that's what our book club is reading about), so I've gotta work on that. But it leaves some pretty big gaps :p
19:23
Ooh, @Ælis my IPS rep is now at 6599
@Rainbacon Nice! Mine is currently at 9644, I like it too (even if I would like it even more with +22 rep)
@Ælis Yours would be radially symmetrical if you had 25 more
@Rainbacon is that a fancy way of saying palindromic?
@Rainbacon Oh yeah, that would be nice too and it would be even more easily done!
No, and I actually just realized that would be wrong
For it to be radially symmetrical, it would need to be 52 more
19:28
Oh I see what you're saying. Yea, that makes sense
It wouldn't be as beautiful to watch, though
On the other hand, if we subtracted 1638 from @Ælis rep it would be both radially symmetrical and palindromic
@Rainbacon Don't substracte my rep, would you ><
:p
@Rainbacon 8006? Ahh you probably meant 1636. Freudian slip replacing the 6 with an 8 :p
@scohe001 Yeah, that's what I meant
@Ælis But it would be such a pretty number
19:35
@Rainbacon I said No! Grrr
:p
Ælis has 130 posts on IPS. To subtract 1636 we'd need (1636/2)/130 = 6ppl to downvote everything they've ever posted. Just need to find 4 more willing participants :p
am I gonna need to investigate some targeted voting?? :P
@scohe001 That's gonna take a while if we want to not trip Em C's spidey senses the serial voting script
Granted, I know that I've upvoted several of their posts, so if I just undid those votes, that would take them down faster than downvoting them would
Well it's not targeted voting if you just downvote literally everything you see and happen to visit pages Ælis has posted on ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ (idk how well that argument will hold up in Em's spidey senses court tho)
19:41
hahah
what does that make me, spidermod? :P
Spidermod: the most polite superhero you'll ever meet
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~Spidermod, Spidermod. Does whatever a spider can.
Spins a web, any size. Catches trolls, as well as flies.
Look out...here comes Spidermod~
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@scohe001 haha! you can keep the flies though.. gross
You are killing me xD
20:01
@Ælis Oh, we should stop. I would be sad if you died
@Rainbacon At least that would make a funny death. Maybe I could even win a Darwin Award! \o/
:p
You want to win a Darwin award?
This^^^
Probably not, but winning an award would still be nice :')
IPS used to give out awards for great answers
Maybe we should bring that back
20:06
Well, it would be better than me winning a Darwin award x)
@Ælis This is something that was done right before I joined IPS
Yeah, I heard about it. But I'm not sure I completly understand the idea. I mean, if you liked an answer very much, why not just bounty it? What is the point of an election? Sounds a bit too much like a popularity contest (in the bad way) to my taste. I don't know, right now, the idea of such an election make me stress. I don't want people to feel like there as been some unfairness at play. So yeah, I would rather just stick to the bounties (and encourage you all to award some from time to time)
20:30
We just need to get The Wraith to come visit us, as they are the top bounty awarder on IPS. Sadly, they've deleted their IPS account
@Rainbacon Or you just have to award bounties and I will do the same, so everyone will have a chance to actually win one (which isn't the case if only one of us award bounties) ^^
We do have a void to fill. The top 3 bounty givers all time are either deleted or inactive
Well, it was easier for them to gain rep (and thus award it) at the time. Having only one HNQ now is far more restrective
That's true
20:45
Also, having very low quality control probably helped a lot of people gain some undue reputation "back in the days"
@Ælis poof
Thanks ^^
22:21
You know what sucks? I have an IPS question I've been holding onto for like a month or two because I didn't want to out myself. Now, because of the great storm I don't want to ask it because I don't want to participate in any more trans discussions. ughh /vent

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