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02:16
wow, this chatroom is lively compared to the GIS chatroom... nobody talked the last 3 days :P again that's the weekend but still...
03:04
So lively...
yup :P
alright have a good night. :)
Good night.
 
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Q: How to get a friend out of his depression of now getting any brides in an indian arranged marriage scenario?

meta_staticPosting on behalf of a friend... My friend is a 27 year old (average looking mallu) successful software engineer in India working for a multinational company paying over 20 lpa salary. He graduated from a top notch IIT few years back. Currently his parents are looking for brides. Its been almost...

 
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07:44
Morning :)
08:22
@ExtrovertedMainMan Hmmmm... is this question about @JourneymanGeek ...?
Morning :D
How you all doing? :)
exhausted
Sounds like you need to talk x)
08:31
Still coughing a lot, but my fever is gone :D
Huh? you had a fever? poor you :x
@dhein No, I actually need to stay quiet :P
That way I don't cough as much
@Mithrandir Uh, and wbu? :o
@dhein was doing race training yesterday and not quite recovered yet
@Mithrandir racing? :) bike? Or what kind of racing?
@Tinkeringbell you know what I mean ;P
08:34
@dhein bicycle racing, yeah
@Mithrandir cool cool. Hobbish? Or you gonna be pro?^^
I'm training with the pros, but I don't think I'll be entering competitions any time soon
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@Tinkeringbell Good Afternoon! How are you now?
9 mins ago, by Tinkeringbell
Still coughing a lot, but my fever is gone :D
I'm back at work too :)
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@Mithrandir There is gonna be a bicycle marathon here. Wanna participate? ;)
@Tinkeringbell Oh. Try taking only warm water for a few days. Coughing will get cured too. :)
@Tinkeringbell Good.
08:42
@AJ Mom got me cough syrup. I'm not sure how it's supposed to work though...
You swallow stuff, it ends up in stomach, not your lungs
Despite what the tv advertisements say
(And I get nauseous from plain warm water. Would tea be okay?)
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@Tinkeringbell That sounds bad. Still you can take warm water besides cough syrup.
@Tinkeringbell I can't say about tea though. But you can try boiling water first, let it cool and then take it.
@AJ I guess it won't work then. Just warm water makes me nauseous. I either drink cold water or hot tea ;)
Hello everyone!
@AJ i'll pass thanks
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@Tinkeringbell It's dry or other one?
08:49
@AJ dry coughs? No, the slimy ones :P
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@Tinkeringbell OK. I didn't know the term. :P Anyway, if it is slimy one then ginger or lemon tea would be good.
@Mithrandir Cool cool, tho :)
@Tinkeringbell maybe you have to breath in the syrup? I mean its cough syrup. I am sure you will cough that way x'D
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lol
@avazula bonjour!
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@Tinkeringbell you're supposed to inhale it
09:06
@JAD The syrup? you sure? I mean I was trying to be sarcastic >.<
@dhein I'm pretty sure JAD wasn't serious ;)
@JAD At least that way I'll be sure to cough!
@Mithrandir I'm older and frustrated not depressed ;p
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@Tinkeringbell yep, you also have the stuff that you take in bigger quantities.
Choke syrup
@Tinkeringbell it gets in your bloodstream.
@JAD Thats what I said xP
@JAD Choke syrup? 0o You mean glue?
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09:23
@dhein sure :P
In our canteen menu no3 is today "The superbowl hangover big beef burger" :D I love our lunch menus <3
09:47
@JourneymanGeek What gets into my bloodstream? Some herbs and a load of sugar? :P
Over the counter stuff here doesn't really include any medicine.
I had a really effective herbal tea once.
.... Any y'all can buy weed in specialist coffee shops...
What an odd country ;p
I don't think smoking would help right now :P
I wouldn't call cannabis a herb either :P
Are cannibals herbs?
09:49
@Mithrandir seasoned cannibals, perhaps?
Hmm, won't the old ones be all tough to chew and stuff?
Hmm. That sounds more like roots than herbs, indeed
@Tinkeringbell I think his point is more what a weird country you are living in rather than cannabis being a herb. :P
@dhein Oh, yeah. It's a weird country ;)
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looks like Mith is back in the game. :P
10:02
Only took you 40 minutes to notice... ;P
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lol
What are we all kind today. love it :D
@Tinkeringbell and that you can buy something illegal and not the good flu meds
@JourneymanGeek well you can't buy something illegal there. :D
@JourneymanGeek As far as I know, there aren't really any good 'flu meds'. Unless you're very seriously ill, then you may get some anti-viral meds.
10:05
Reminds me on a PnP story I once heard of, where the DM had a city set up with a blackmarket, which was tolerated by the local government and was respecting the taxes and sales regulations of that local area. Rather than following the story line, the group was busy to indoctrinate the citizens that this is by definition not a black market then.... at some point the DM was so annoyed by that, that he left the group being arrested x'D
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@Noon Congratulations for earning all rep-level privileges on Interpersonal Skills! :D
@Tinkeringbell oh. The paracetamol coctail in hot water stuff helps me a lot
Isn't paracetamol nothing but a painkiller?
@dhein doesn't it also reduce fever?
10:31
@AJ Thanks AJ! \o/
Congrats!
I'm such a great fan of this show
Drag is my new restrained interest
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which one is it?
RuPaul's drag race
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okay
11:01
welp, time to call the police on the neighbor again
@Mithrandir ?? D:
There's this one neighbor we've had an... issue with for a while. He's threatened to throw rocks at me, he's shot a BB gun at our window, and now he's drilled a hole through our attic wall.
@Mithrandir Oo Taht must be a difficult situation, lot's of courage to you! <3
He's an old Russian man, who's... pretty much legally insane.
@avazula Huh, might be now you say it. I am not an expert ^^
@Mithrandir Than he should be in a place where legally is taken care of insane people >.<
11:13
Lots of courage@Mith
 
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@Mithrandir o0
 
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14:14
@Mithrandir oregano right?
Hmm, so this question is an hour old, and has an answer posted yesterday
I call black magic
a merge will do that
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14:31
@Mithrandir ah, that also explains why the answers are identical
@avazula You might like Deafies in Drag, theyre two deaf guys that do drag and they do videos about situations that deaf people find themselves in and they're so funny
Good morning people :)
'fternoon
it's strangely warm today... the high is 50F which makes me confused cause i'm so used to doing heavy duty winter clothes everyday
67F here right now...
@ElizB Sounds interesting! I'm gonna check this
14:35
@avazula Yay! they've gotten inspiration for their drag from RuPaul's Drag Race, so you'll like it! and learn about deaf culture some more :)
@Mithrandir wow, nice
I'm used to having it be something like 20 to 30 F
@JAD Sounds like a timezone bug
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@Rainbacon according to the timestamps there's more than 24 hours between the posts. So that doesn't seem plausible
I don't know, I've seen people do some pretty messed up things with timezones
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@Haptometer I think that what WendyG is getting at isn't that you need to clean excessively (like mopping the floor each time you walk on it), but that cleaning needs to happen more often than never. Whenever any of this communal cleaning happened (so, not just your own spill but the routine cleaning that needs to be done periodically to keep a house clean), it sounds like it wasn't you that did it and one of your roommates did it instead. It's a different case if you did such cleaning and it wasn't noticed vs. you not doing the communal cleaning at all. — Upper_Case 24 secs ago
#20787 Upper_Case (12212 rep) | Q: How to get recognition for the cleaning I do? (score: 4) | posted 6 days ago by Haptometer (196 rep) | edited 5 days ago by Haptometer (196 rep) | Toxicity 0.14991298 | tps/fps: 0/0
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15:57
Today's a big day, people! I just created an Area51 site proposal for Neurodiversity. All people with curiosity and/or experience of neurodiversity (autism, OCD, ADH-D, dys- spectrum ...) are welcome to visit and propose questions!
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@avazula Ooh. I am neurodiverse (ADD), and am married to a neurodiverse guy... @El'endiaStarman so yeah i'll check it out.
@ElizB Please do follow the proposal, so as we get enough people and feedback to launch it one day :D
@avazula Will do! :) i'm interested in the context of this, because it's somewhat scientific and somewhat interpersonal-ish
how will this be different from interpersonal skills?
@ElizB ♥ Thanks girl
@avazula You're welcome :) Yay new stuff :D
16:01
It'll be different because it will be focused on neurodiversity (both theoretical and practical questions), and sadly, autistic-related questions aren't always welcome by the community (many people do not understand the bluntness with which some neurodiverse people express themselves)
I just followed the proposal!
@avazula huh, cool. Bluntness? Deaf culture is all about that, so i wonder if that's why I understand blunt stuff coming from neurodiverse people... hmm.
It's the first one I've ever done
@avazula I was looking up some common misconceptions of autism, do we wanna include basic google-able questions like that or have more specific situation-based questions?
oh, another idea- do we wanna create a chatroom for that site to get people to chat about questions and what is on topic?
If you have examples of questions, feel free to propose them! I'm most familiar with autism and dyslexia but my knowledge of the other "troubles" remains limited :)
@ElizB I'd like to keep it broad (which is why we'd need to be careful when defining the scope). But I'd surely like to deconstruct the misconceptions that can be found on Google and alike :D
@ElizB Of course!
16:06
@avazula Since you proposed it, you go ahead and create it :P
@ElizB I'm not sure one could create a chat room yet :p
@avazula okay... wow, i'm brimming with questions because I don't know a whole lot about it but I know enough from interacting with my hubby and some others
@avazula oh, okay
@ElizB I like your question proposal!
@avazula Cool! Posted another about stimming because that seems to be another common misconception
@ElizB that's right
Oh, why can't I see it :(
16:15
I know @El'endiaStarman does it, and I got him a fidget cube but he can do that with just about anything.... kinda funny to see my reaction sometimes, if he is shaking the object or moving something noisy, often enough, I'll just glance over and he'll look sheepishly at me and say sorry haha
@avazula "new users can only post every three minutes" ... :P
Oh yeah, I've been playing with a fingernail clipper lately.
just posted
@El'endiaStarman yep... hehe
@ElizB ugh. Bummer. :p
and I can only post 3 more questions
so I need to think twice about just bombing the site with more questions because that's a great topic... hehe
Yeah, I have a limited number too :p
I think we should be careful about not being too broad though, and I'm afraid that that stimming question may be a bit too broad. Maybe asking about "why it may be dangerous to prevent autistic people from stimming?" may be better? I don't know
I guess we need to find out all together :p
16:18
@avazula Yeah, that's what I thought too. hmm, i think i might edit it if i can
@avazula I actually really liked the stimming question
I could see narrowing it slightly (the current question is kind of asking two different things)
@Rainbacon I did too. I'm just afraid that it'd may be more of a wiki question, if you know what I mean?
@Rainbacon I'm editing it to be more specific like avazula said- why would it be harmful to prevent or punish someone for stimming
there, I feel better about that- what do you think @Rainbacon and @avazula ?
@ElizB I think it's better too, although that was a great question :)
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Q: How to talk with my boss about the lack of hygiene on our workspace?

PeacekeeperI'm currently working on a small office with around 14 coworkers. We have a tiny scullery just to make coffe / wash dishes and a bathroom. Most of my coworkers are men and they're developers. I'm starting to feel bothered with the hygiene of these common spaces as I spend a lot of time in there, ...

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@avazula I think we can worry about wiki-type questions when the site gets there but for now it's better to be more specific
@El'endiaStarman what do you think about it? If you like, maybe you can share it with whoever you think might be interested?
@ElizB I agree :)
@avazula yay :)
this makes my brain buzz happily with ideas and such. hard to filter out stuff like that when it's all new and exciting
@ElizB Arf. Sorry about that :)
@avazula no worries haha it happens way too often
it's just funny to watch my brain go all crazy and then my "mom side of the brain" i call it, goes "hey chill out we got other stuff to do" haha
@ElizB I get you. I never was diagnosed but I think it's likely I have ADD as well (I'm a butterfly!)
16:26
@avazula yep, if you get me started on something good luck stopping me :P
@ElizB haha
@El'endiaStarman knows how that works... way too much... oop. :P
Mmhmm...
To be fair, your mom is similar.
yeeeah and when me and mom start.... yeah, might as well take shoes off and sit down
what i'm struggling with is prioritization... I have six things going at the same time, and it's hard to try and do them all at once because I wanna finish them all by the time the semester ends... heh
or earlier, that's better :P
I just posted 4 new questions :D
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:D
16:56
Hmm, lunchtime for me :)
Enjoy!
I understand we're 6 hours apart :p
@avazula So I just took a look. I'm a little unsure exactly what the scope of this site is; at the moment, it seems like a cross between Psychology & Neuroscience and Interpersonal Skills. Would you mind elaborating a bit more on what niche this fills?
(Oh, BTW, a Psychology & Neuroscience site exists. You may not have known that :p)
@Mithrandir I knew about it. Anne Daunted indicated that this may partly be a cross between IPS, TWP, Parenting & Psychology/Neuroscience. The goal of this new stack is to be specific to neurodiverse spectrums and "disorders" to assert both theoretical and practical questions regarding those latters.
@avazula Cucumber salad with dill and a simple dressing of honey, sushi vinegar, and olive oil, potatoes with oyster and lions mane mushrooms (wild picked mushrooms) and lemon garlic chicken :D
And you're thinking that this would allow for, let's say, a higher rate of experts on that topic answering questions there than looking for questions on the topic on other sites?
@ElizB Wild picked mushrooms? That seems a little risky...
17:05
@Mithrandir no, people picked them and sold them at the farmers market- the company is called Mariaville Mushroom Men
As long as they're trained professionals, sounds good :P
they also inoculate straw and logs with mushroom mycelium and grow it, i said wild picked because they usually grow in the wild, not in a typical farm
i wouldnt go out and pick them i just go to the booth at the farmers market and buy it from them
yep, sounds good then, enjoy!
All mushrooms are edible. Some only once, but still.
@Mithrandir thanks :) I've been begging my mom and other siblings to try them they're so much more flavorful than the white mushrooms or baby bellas you get at the store.
@El'endiaStarman Now, now. no suggesting anyone go out there and eat the first mushroom they pick.
17:10
@El'endiaStarman oy
(I laughed)
Anyway, @avazula, I've just followed the proposal and added an example question. You're now past the minimum activity requirements for the next month or so ;)
Followers active in is fun to see there ;) 100% Interpersonal Skills :P
Hey people, when you read the name Ælis, do you think it's a male, female or neutral name?
I think it's neutral
@Noon Is that a person's name? I thought it was some kind of conlang.
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@Noon Guess that that depends on culture quite a bit
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@Tinkeringbell I have no idea what a "conlang" is but it's an invented name. I'm searching a neutral name so that people won't assume the gender of the person talking
@Noon conlang = constructed language. A language someone created, like Tolkien's Elvish
I have a friend named connor, she's a girl, but the name made me think she was a guy
There's a whole SE site about that, IIRC.
@Noon Why not pick a gender neutral name?
@JAD Yeah, name often does. But let's say that it's for the SE network. What would you think?
17:29
@Noon I think it may be neutral enough.
But don't trust me ;)
@Tinkeringbell Well, you wasn't far then since the name is, indeed, created ^^
@Tinkeringbell Seriously? Oo
You might find some nice names there :P
My own name ("El'endia") is itself constructed, although the -a suffix has in the past lead people to assume I'm female.
@Rainbacon Because I don't know any that I like
@Tinkeringbell That sounds great, thanks!
@El'endiaStarman The 'starman' fixes that for me :P
17:35
@El'endiaStarman I was one of those people ^^' And I thought @ElizB was a man because of the profil picture x)
Just swap 'em for a bit.
@Noon huh, interesting. I'm not that creative with my username, it's not that different from my real name, heh. El'endia's is wayyyy different than his real name.
"Tom"
@Noon "Bailey"
"Alex". "Sam". "Avery". "Taylor". "Harley". "Riley". "Finch". "Perry".
@Mithrandir Tom is also a woman name? Oo
@Noon No, I was saying that was @El'endiaStarman's real name
17:43
@Mithrandir I have been mentioned.
@Alex Hi Perry
I don't see that listed.
How's it going, Finch?
@Mithrandir Oh right, you got me confuse for a bit x) (not that there is anything wrong with a woman named Tom)
@Noon Bonus points if they're a tomboy.
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Tom might be short for tomasina, one of my friends has that name
@Mithrandir Also, thanks for the name ideas :)
I like "Aiden".
@ElizB Is it an american name? I have never heard of it
I haven't heard of "Tomasina" either. Probably not English.
In fact, I'll bet it's Japanese.
@Mithrandir If a name start with "A" I will probably like it. Bonus point if there is an "m" or "l" in it :D
17:49
Ami.
@Noon Yeah, i don't know the origin of the name
@Alex Is it a name? Because it means "friend" in French ^^
@Noon It's a Hebrew name.
Probably short for Amiel.
It also is a regular Hebrew word meaning "my nation".
Amech... Ami...
I don't know anyone named Amech though.
17:55
@Alex I like this name. It checks all the things that I like in a name :D
Amech, Amiel, and Ami all roll off the tongue quite nicely :) Especially Amiel and Ami
now, does the pronouncation count? in Ami- i could say ayymee or Ahhmee
@Alex I don't know anyone named "your nation" either
@Noon It's also gender-neutral, apparently:
Amiel Muki Daemion (born 13 August 1979 in New York City, United States), also known as just Amiel, is an American-Australian pop singer, songwriter and actress. She moved to Australia with her family at the age of two and starred in films in the 1990s, including The Silver Brumby, which also starred Russell Crowe and Caroline Goodall. Her music career shot to fame in 1999 when she teamed up with producer Josh G. Abrahams (as Puretone) for the song "Addicted to Bass" which became a top twenty hit in Australia, this led to Daemion releasing studio albums such as Audio Out in 2003 and These Ties...
@ElizB second
Very well put on the first sentence about asking about the cleaning service. The second sentence might need a little refining for, it sounds a tad bit passive aggressive. Maybe that same sentiment, but using different words like "the cleaning service does not come here frequent enough for them to be able to handle what we leave behind for them, maybe we should help them out by reducing their workload" or something. Keep the blame away from the coworkers at all cost. Very good answer besides. — Crazy Cucumber 47 secs ago
#20871 Crazy Cucumber (4027 rep) | A: How to talk with my boss about the lack of hygiene on our workspace? (score: 1) | posted 14 minutes ago by ElizB (1886 rep) | Toxicity 0.12124962 | tps/fps: 0/0
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@Mithrandir That's what I liked the best :)
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@Mithrandir Yes, it can sometimes get weird when you try to explain what your Hebrew name means...
Pronouncing my name trips people up, apparently.
@Alex Nice! I might turn it into Amæl, but I definitively like it
Mith-rand-ir is hard to pronounce? Huh.
Now, Mit'hraw'nrudo, I can understand...
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@Mithrandir What's so hard about Mith|ran|dir?
It's got three syllables. Israelis tend to emphasize the first. Americans tend to totally mangle the name if they read it without hearing it, and then tend to emphasize the middle. The proper way is emphasizing the last one.
@Mithrandir Most Hebrew words have the emphasis on the last syllable, though.
i wish i brought my own headphones :( I have some here to drown out the chatter around me, while I work, but they're like these:
totally made for hearing ears. Not cochlear implants.
@Alex Thanks for the link. I will need more research then I guess (I hope Amælis isn't a gendered name)
@ElizB How is that?
@Noon just the shape and the way they're supposed to sit on the ear. I have cochlear implants that sit on my ear so I need headphones to go over the CIs not the actual ear canal because y'know the ear canal is just ... broken :P
18:13
@ElizB Oh, right, make sense x)
Can't you request headphone taht work for you?
ugh, look at it sideways lol so see my implants and how the headphones sit on top?
thats how i hear
@Noon Nope, these are the only ones available... it's an unpaid internship
@ElizB Ouch, this doesn't seem really comfortable :x
@Noon nooope lol but it makes people shush up
@ElizB Oh yeah, I guess that, sine it's unpaid, they won't buy you anything :/
@Noon yup that's the case unfortunately. :/
I will remember on Friday though.
The sound isn't even that great too
I am definitely remembering on friday
18:24
@ElizB Good luck for the rest of your day. And yeah, I hope you won't forget to take it on Friday :)
<-- smug owner of a ComPilot that means I don't need to worry about headphones.
@Noon thanks and the memory of how awful these are are will help me remember
@El'endiaStarman I know where you sleep..... -_- you smug *** rubbing that in my face. Just have to pay a few thousand for an upgrade for my cochlear implants ...
@ElizB x)
a compilot with advanced bionics implants (the company) is basically wireless streaming of music into his implants. -_- waahh i want one
Y'know, I wonder how hard it is to set up a loop of wire around the apartment for that sort of thing...
18:37
@El'endiaStarman i imagine it is pricey
Might be worth researching! :D
go for it.
18:51
Hey @Henry Long time no see! :D How are you?
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Downvote not because I disagree with your premise in at least a very general sense, but because I don't think this very general advice is helpful to the OP in achieving his specific stated goals. — Meg 29 secs ago
#20867 Meg (1798 rep) | A: Asking questions about sexism without sounding like I'm... 'part of the problem'? (score: -3) | posted 8 hours ago by Haakon Dahl (317 rep) | Toxicity 0.067117035 | tps/fps: 0/0
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lurk lurk lurk
You'll never lurk well if you advertise
That's true, every mirelurk that advertises in Fallout gets itself in some trouble
But if you don't advertise how will you make money?
jingles coins
You could always bust open a vase to see if it has money in it
20:30
I know I know a game when I hear the subtle sound like a decloak and know I'm in trouble.
Afternoon slump hitting hard
Coffee
@Rainbacon personally I prefer me a little pot
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Just gotta keep an eye on the chickens
@DaveG can't...
@scohe001 I'm starring that so that anybody entering the room will see that out of context and go "wut".
20:37
Lol all according to plan :p
:(
@DaveG blame it on sensitive stomach. IBS stinks
I just gave up the battle and bought snickers bar. That should get me close enough to the end of the day
@DaveG I might do that
@ElizB I fought the urge for about an hour but I really need to get some work done and not be thinking about the candy machine.
20:41
@DaveG heh yeah
duh, should've remembered. I'm at the School of Public Health... no candy here. I got honey roasted peanuts. that's as close as i could get. :P
@ElizB oh well healthier than the snickers.
@DaveG yeah, guess so.
21:06
I thought this existed at one point and I finally found it. There was at one point an area51 proposal for an autism stack. Here's a discussion that was asked about it
21:32
I think that's a great start to the discussion.
Thanks!
:) no problem!
21:51
Going home! those peanuts didn't last long haha
22:06
I didn't say I was GOOD at lurking, now did I

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