@ExtrovertedMainMan I believe this to be a good question but i'm getting some odd vibes surrounding it

Yeah, those vibes usually come with sex questions XD

I wish OP would reply to my comment. I would want to answer 'get yourselves a safeword' but if she's not going to speak up, that won't work.

its not the fact that its a sex question its the way consent seems to be handled here... and the answer by virolino is dangerously close to sexual assault

Hmm. I guess, yeah. It's not exactly textbook 'what I was taught about consent' either.

But everyone will have to figure out their own way, I guess.

it was edited to become worse... i'm normally a happy lurker but i did feel the need to put a comment

The whole question is slowly becoming a wreck, now there's also users guessing at answers to questions in comments for the OP :/