I am unable to get the crux of
she 'informed' you that she will move in with you
- in which 5 year old relationship is moving in not a natural step? I am often (I come from a non-western culture) surprised by how sometimes relationships are defined like business contracts - relationships like these are destined to end up badly. A healthy relationship is a compromise on both ends, it doesn't have to be insta-perfect, but it will survive the test of time. —
Jishan 2 mins ago