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12:00 AM
HNQ creating a lot of great answers
 
 
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A J
4:25 AM
room topic changed to The Awkward Silence: "True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable." ― David Tyson. General discussion for interpersonal.stackexchange.com (no tags)
 
A J
5:08 AM
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@ExtrovertedMainMan Where I'm from, even hotels would never put a webcam at your front door...
 
 
1 hour later…
6:39 AM
I have made a question interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/11910/… which is marked as a duplicate. I'm unsure if the focus on chat based medium would be enough to make the question different enough, so I would like to discuss this a bit :)
 
A J
Well, it's not dupe in my opinion.
Though I have to go now, so I can't discuss.
 
no problem and thank you for the input :)
 
@Peter did you get a chance to read my answer?
I had deleted it - but I'm happy to undelete it for you, if you truly believe a friendship over chat can develop, too
I believe I give some good suggestions for having more engaging conversations - but based on my in-person friendships ...
 
@D.Hutchinson I haven't read it since I woke up a few minutes ago :)
 
ah, I see
 
6:45 AM
and yes I truly believe friendship can develop over chat based medium too
 
ok, got it -- let me undelete it now :)
 
:)
 
ok, it's done and should be posted now
 
Lets read it :)
I like the input of your answer
 
thanks :)
 
6:49 AM
Do you think its a dub? I'm a bit with, yea I think a bit, however also like it is a different medium hmmm
 
it would def be nice for you to get more answers, though it seems your question is now closed as a duplicate
yeah ... I think it could be reopened ...
hmm ...
@Tinkeringbell what are your thoughts on Peter's question?
:)
 
oki :) I'll make a big update when I come back from school, since I need to go in around 15 min
since I can probably nuance a bit of the question
 
yeah -- ask here in chat, to see what others think, too
perhaps we can help you edit it enough to get it reopened :)
 
yep, that's why I'm here :D
 
ok, cool :)
 
7:02 AM
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Q: What happens after using the "recommend deletion" option, when doing reviews?

D.HutchinsonWhen I'm reviewing answers that show up as low quality, and I've read the low-quality answer and agree that it's delete-worthy - e.g. there's no IPS solution in it or the answer is 2 or 3 sentences long - I've been using the "recommend deletion" option. Then the queue gets cleared when I'm done ...

 
I gtg, I'll read back if something happens when I'm gone :)
 
Ok, have a good day at school @Peter :)
 
NVZ
7:41 AM
@Tinkeringbell I'm sorry, what is all this with "enjoy, have fun" etc whenever you respond to me?
@Tinkeringbell just because I goof around in chat doesn't give you the right to insult me or belittle my dedication to the main and meta site. I don't like how you respond to me.
 
@NVZ Then we're even. I don't like the way you belittle my efforts and respond to me either.
 
NVZ
@Tinkeringbell Well, then express it more clearly as to where I'm doing you wrong instead of passive aggressiveness
 
I think I've made myself pretty clear. And that's all I'm going to say on the matter.
 
NVZ
@Tinkeringbell I have never intentionally belittled anyone's efforts. I may have expressed disagreements about scope or policies. It's your fault you take them too personally.
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* drinks ice-cold Tropicana Pure Premium Original Orange Juice *
fresh-squeezed, from Florida, with love
 
7:57 AM
@Tinkeringbell Perhaps this could be resolved amicably by talking to each other and resolving your differences?
Just being annoyed at each other isn't really going to help things improve.
 
No thanks.
Dammit, I already said that I was not going to talk about it. Don't try and get me even started!
 
NVZ
@D.Hutchinson I got promoted to business class in Etihad airlines yesterday.. The orange juice was something like that I think. Nice!
 
Alright. If you're not interested, trying to make you won't help anything.
 
NVZ
@Mithrandir Let it be. I like people disagreeing with me with facts and logic, not "I'm not talking about this ever". So, let it be.
 
JAD
disagreeing with facts
 
NVZ
8:02 AM
@Mithrandir I'm checking out your auto comments. Nice! I'll steal it now.
 
JAD
makes sense
 
Nice @NVZ and, thanks! Vitamin C, folic acid, and potassium - all in one drink :)
 
NVZ
@D.Hutchinson Except, it was sour as hell. Sour, is it called?
 
sour yeah ... but maybe acidic is a better description? or maybe tart ...
 
NVZ
I think it's good to avoid sugar that way, but oh man.. it was like drinking out of raw oranges...
 
8:06 AM
nice!
vitamin c - the biggest anti-aging secret :)
ok g'nite!
😴💤💤
 
8:20 AM
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Q: How do I tell someone that something is not my responsibility anymore?

Klara RaškajMy godmother told me about her friend whose son needs tutoring in programming. I contacted this woman, and referred her to my boyfriend, whom I thought would be able to be of more help than I. I gave her my boyfriend's number and Facebook account name. The problem is, this woman now keeps contac...

 
 
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10:33 AM
morning
 
A J
afternoon
 
NVZ
10:47 AM
Afternoon
 
noon :)
 
NVZ
@ExtrovertedMainMan "ain't nobody got time for that" is what one YouTube video suggests.
 
aaand its gone
 
A J
thank you.
 
NVZ
10:49 AM
I wish there was a delete review queue.
 
A J
11:01 AM
@NVZ you forgot that there is.
 
11:30 AM
0
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TwyxzI'm 18 years old, have recently bought a semi expensive car for someone my age, and my Mam expects lifts everywhere if I'm not busy. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind giving lifts, especially to my Mam, but when I rack up an extra 100+ miles a month just driving her to pointless places, it's annoy...

 
NVZ
11:51 AM
@AJ You mean the "tools" page? It's not very interesting, that page.
 
12:34 PM
@NVZ better than nothing
 
NVZ
Yeah
Although, imho, if it were a review queue, like others, it would welcome more active participation.
 
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Q: How to ask for work to be done?

Bharad WajOne of my friend who was doing a project with me is now showing no signs of interest How I can convey him that he has to do it as we have started it ! I dont want to be harsh !

 
NVZ
@ExtrovertedMainMan okay, somebody help.
 
12:55 PM
@NVZ last thing we need is another queue for people to robo in
 
 
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2:25 PM
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Q: How can I communicate to friends and family that I don't want a specific type of birthday gift?

MindwinDisclaimer: It is not really a sock. My birthday is in a few months, and every single year several people give me socks. It is a common habit where I live to gift people with socks. (no Harry Potter pun intended, I'm not a house elf). I have a lot of socks, but it is not like I have a sock fe...

 
2:36 PM
@ExtrovertedMainMan use your words? *sigh
 
JAD
make sounds with your mouth
 
3:20 PM
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Q: How to create a more engaging conversation?

PeterI have a friend I talk with and the conversations we are having are rather short. I would like to have more engaging conversations without forcing myself and the other person in a conversation we don't want. Here an example of how the conversation is usually going, this happens when I start the ...

Do some of you have ideas how to improve / if this is a dup or not :)
 
3:44 PM
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Q: Is the tag "latin-america" more accurate than using the tag "south-america"?

Crafter0800The tag latin-america has just popped up, and before it starts becoming something more used on the SE, I was wondering if it would be better to use tags for North America and South America (the continents). I'm not from either of these areas so I was wondering if using the tag latin-america bett...

 
4:27 PM
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Q: What's the best way to talk to/meet a woman when your an introvert who is nerdy/geeky type person?

jefferyI am an introvert and am wondering where can meet/talk a woman when being geeky/nerdy turns some of them off or they could care less about that talk? I would classify myself as a creative problem solver and love art/math/science. Drawing, computer programming, solving mathematical equations. Th...

 
NVZ
5:14 PM
@Magisch That is a concern, yes. Maybe there would be less roboreviewing in that cuz such a queue would be accessible only to high privilege trusted users.
 
JAD
@NVZ that implies that robo reviewing is limited to low rep users
Do we know that?
 
NVZ
Removing any badges would also do well to prevent roboreviewing in such queues
@JAD Not what I meant.
Users with high rep usually already have achieved all the badges and stuff so won't be too inclined to grab more. Methinks.
@ExtrovertedMainMan Gah!
 
 
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7:37 PM
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Q: Communicating my (one-sided) exclusivity without pressuring

user1997744Context: London, UK, dealing with same-sex male relationships. I have a recurring issue whenever I date someone new, and all the IPS solutions I have tried to come up with have failed in the past in dealing with this. When dating someone new, it is my personal preference to refrain from meetin...

 

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