I don't have the time+focus right now to write this up more carefully for meta, so I'll just throw this out here in chat for now: could we please try, especially on posts from new users, to tone down arguments amongst ourselves, nit-picking, and other off-putting behaviors? Absolutely do comment with
questions or requests for the OP, but for the rest can we try to use chat sooner? Prompted by the comments here:
judaism.stackexchange.com/q/53183/472