Thanks, I almost there.
S[
table-format = 4.3e-1,
parse-numbers = true,
table-alignment-mode = none,
table-number-alignment = right,
exponent-mode = engineering, % scientific engineering input
exponent-product = \times,
%exponent-base = 10,
%output-exponent-marker = 10,
round-mode = none,
tight-spacing = true,
]
gets me this