@anon Here's an even better explanation. Take $Q_1, Q_2, Q_3$ to be the three bars
here, appearing in the same order. Take $Q_1$ $\lambda$ far away, $Q_2$ the place it is, and $Q_3$ $\lambda$ closer. This is the same as stretching $Q_1$ by $1/\lambda$, $Q_2$ by $1$ and $Q_3$ by $\lambda$. The resulting tribar is the same however. If you used arbitrary $\lambda_i$'s as scaling factors, you could never do that.