So it absolutely can work like that, but it doesn’t have to
And the existence of certain microlabels introduces further complication
I’m going to try to talk about this without going too NSFW but it may be easier to have this convo in DMs given that this is a public space
For example, I have a couple friends who are aegosexual. This means that they do have libido and fantasies, but they prefer to handle that on their own and can’t imagine themselves actually *in* a sexual relationship with another person