The time to make sure we were going to answer the ops exact question there was 3 years ago

data.stackexchange.com/outdoors/query/913555

room topic changed to The Base Camp: That ship already sailed [bear-selfies] [lava-and-marshmellows] [mosquitos-in-software] [seal-slapped]

@Aravona which q?

nvm - found it

it seems fine to me

@RoryAlsop yeah me too, but if someone doesn't like it I'd prefer constructive criticism was left with the down votes.

But you know, it's the internet. I maybe expecting too much

@Aravona I only see one downvote on it though...

@Aravona that has been discussed many times, but the outcomes if it was enforced would be much more negative than allowing anonymous voting

@RoryAlsop True there is that, by double I meant Question & Answer

@Aravona oh - that's less nice :-(

sorry I can't see who

@RoryAlsop yeah it was on the same timestamp so I assume the same user lol

Which to me implies it was just someone not liking me rather than the Q&A lol

@RoryAlsop @Aravona The difference between that one and all of the other identification questions is that it was a self answer and since id questions really only help the OP and not anyone else they really don't make good questions to self answer

@CharlieBrumbaugh I was kinda thinking that too, but the question is well put and answered, so definitely not a reason to downvote on that account.

@RoryAlsop I am OK with it and not really complaining. But I am getting a lot of insta down votes. Have I said anything offensive you had to delete lately?

@paparazzo THe reason for that downvote is right below your answer. Not happy with people VTC and then answering as that would prevent anyone else from answering

It also really doesn't answer the question its just a bunch of discussion points and certainly not to the degree that the AT trail answer did

And while were on the subject this is what happened a while back when I commented on one of your answers,

and I am not the only one to notice that sort of pattern

@RoryAlsop OK I asked.

@paparazzo You have the highest ratio of downvotes to upvotes given of any user on the site, if you can't take it, don't dish it out.

@CharlieBrumbaugh I understand you and @paparazzo are dealing with something frustrating, but the last part of your comment is rude and childish.

@paparazzo, I appreciate that you came in here and politely asked for some clarification. I hope it works out so that everyone can feel better.

@StrongBad, thanks for what you said about my downvotes! I feel better now!

@paparazzo, please let me know if this is a rude suggestion. It isn't meant to be. If you spent a bit of time deleting some of your comments that are or could look sarcastic, people who have been upset by them would have fewer flagging opportunities. I think that's true of all of us.

I doubt anyone goes into old posts looking for rude conversations, but whatever we can do to clean up the site will help. I've been doing it too.

I have fewer because I don't like conflict and usually if I say something that gets people mad, I delete it. If you happen to find anything out there you don't like of mine, please flag it, or at least pop in here and tell me where it is!

@Sue I am so completely done dealing with that user and quite frankly the people who enable them by making excuses for their poor irritating behaviour

@StrongBad, Thanks for that detailed answer, outdoors.stackexchange.com/a/20768/5547 to @CharlieBrumbaugh's question about safe decibel levels, outdoors.stackexchange.com/questions/20756. As someone who knows more than I'd like to about those problems, the more information, the better. @Cha, your hearing is important to me, as it is to the community in general! I have no idea who downvoted or why, so I'm not saying you did. I'm just thanking StrongBad for the answer!

@Aravona, I like that question and answer. That's a cute guy, and I guess someone made a nice meal out of him. The whole explanation of downvotes thing is so hard, but I feel if you ask sincerely, like you did, I hope the person will come forward. Like you, I just genuinely want to know what I could have done to improve.

@sue The last example from Roy is June so it is going in the right direction. Some people just have trouble moving on.

If people getting frustrated over targetted downvoted and rude comments is flaggable, I am not sure I am going to want to participate here

Especially since it has been going on for years