3:53 PM
Wow, that's a story and a half
if you were misdiagnosed as a tumor, why would she even attempt an abortion? One doesn't abort tumors.
and that would be a combination of very incompetent doctors
first one to misdiagnose the pregnancy as a tumor
then, I don't know if she stayed in the care of the same doctor - probably didn't, if she moved from the USA to Augsburg
so we have a second doctor who can't tell the difference between a fetus (two fetuses!) and a tumor
then she realizes she's pregnant
if she tries an abortion at that point, she has to find an illegal doctor in a foreign country which she doesn't know well, and probably doesn't speak the language
and this goes so badly that your twin dies
then you get born - we can't tell whether during that attempt or you survive it and get born later
all the coincidences together - that sounds basically impossible
if it were a film, I would hate it and accuse the screenwriter of creating an arbitrary plot with too many logical holes.
The "still birth without any abortion" version sounds much more likely.
And then there is the problem of not being able to confirm the truth, whatever it was
maybe your Dad doesn't know it - we can't know how much your mother told him
and if he does, he might decide to tell you a different version, or to refuse to talk about it
in the end, everything is possible, but I don't see how you can find out which of the possibilities happened
another question: How difficult is it for you not knowing?
and if you do come to know it, what difference does it make to your life now?
