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8:12 AM
Morning all
 
user116848
9:06 AM
Morning.
 
user116848
I have a small sentence that came to my mind. I thought I'd ask a native speaker of English whether it is grammatical or not.
 
user116848
Can you tell me if “use” in my sentence sound natural to your native ear?:
 
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“If you use your brain you wouldn't ask such a question.”
 
user116848
Because I tend to use “use” or “present tense” instead of “used” in sentences like this.
 
user116848
9:19 AM
okay, thanks.
 
by which I mean, used is correct
 
user116848
Yeah.
 
user116848
I see some sentences like that on Google but I'm not sure whether they were written by native speakers of English or not: google.com/…
 
For 'use' you would have to modify the second clause: 'If you use your brain you won't have to ask such questions'
 
user116848
You are right. The sequences of tenses don't match there in my example.
 
9:38 AM
@Cindy hey
@Arrowfar don't beat yourself up over it ;)
 
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@ElendilTheTall Heh, thanks :)
 
user116848
It used to confuse me a lot. Now I think I'm getting better but still improving.
 
user116848
Hi @Cindy.
 
English is a tangled language
 
user116848
But still I think I make a mistake every now and then.
 
user116848
9:48 AM
@ElendilTheTall Yes it is.
 
As a native speaker you don't realise just how much until you try and teach it to someone
 
user116848
Heh.
 
How do you explain to a 4 year old that c-o-u-l-d, CUH-OH-UH-LUH-DUH = 'cood'
 
user116848
Yes if I try to teach someone Urdu I'm sure it would be very difficult.
 
basically it's all the inconsistencies that make English tricky. Are there lots of those in Urdu?
 
user116848
9:52 AM
Yes there are. But it is all relative, like if a person knows a bit of Arabic or Persian than it might be easier to learn.
 
user116848
But Urdu is not used anywhere except in a handful of places so no one learns it.
 
my language knowledge is inversely proportional to the longitude the language is most commonly found in, with the exception of Japan
 
@Arrowfar I thought people speak and write Urdu in Pakistan. And certainly some do in India.
 
user116848
Yes that is true.
 
Take any English sentence of moderate complexity. A group of "experts" could easily spend some time arguing over its correctness.
 
9:56 AM
Aren't Urdu and Hindi very similar?
IIRC they are both forms of Hindustani
 
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@ElendilTheTall Yes they are but the script is different.
 
@ElendilTheTall Hindi is essentially a superset of Urdu, but written in Devnagri. To a first approximation, at least.
 
@Arrowfar I see. Urdu uses Arabic script?
 
I'm unclear on the relationship between them. But certainly spoken Urdu, in my experience at least, is essentially Hindi. Though with a very Persian-influenced vocabulary.
 
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@ElendilTheTall Yes it does. A mix of Arabic, Persian etc.
 
9:58 AM
@ElendilTheTall It's a similar script to Arabic.
I don't know if the "alphabet" is exactly the same. I tried learning it once.
 
is it read right to left?
 
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Yes right to left exactly.
 
According to the WP page on Hindi, it was an obscure language which hit the big time sort of by accident. But I may be misunderstanding the history.
@Arrowfar Do you know the relationship between Urdu and Hindi?
 
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Urdu (/ˈʊərduː/; Urdu: اُردُو‎ ALA-LC: Urdū; IPA: [ˈʊrd̪uː], or Modern Standard Urdu) is a standardised register of the Hindustani language. It is the national language and lingua franca of Pakistan, and an official language of six states of India. It is also one of the 22 official languages recognized in the Constitution of India. Urdu is historically associated with the Muslims of the region of Hindustan. Apart from specialized vocabulary, Urdu is mutually intelligible with Standard Hindi, which is associated with the Hindu community. The Urdu language received recognition and patronage under...
 
> Urdu is mutually intelligible with Standard Hindi
is Devanagri script read right to left as well?
 
user116848
10:01 AM
@FaheemMitha Yes they are pretty same in the way we speak but the script is different. I'll write something in Roman Urdu tell me if you understand it. I think you will :)
 
@Arrowfar No, I won't.
@ElendilTheTall No, left to right.
 
user116848
@FaheemMitha "Aap ko ye sentence samaj aa raha hai?" (Roman Urdu)
 
Devnagri is phonetic. It's relatively easy to read. Arguably easier than the Roman alphabet, which is not phonetic.
@Arrowfar Yes, I understand that.
 
user116848
See, I knew it. heh.
 
Sorry, I misunderstood what you meant by Roman Urdu.
Who knows, once upon a time the Roman alphabet might have been phonetic.
 
user116848
10:03 AM
Yes just like the language they use in Hindi films. I understand them perfectly :)
 
@Arrowfar And "aap" is very polite. You could say "tum". I wouldn't be offended. :-)
 
user116848
Yeah I tried to "hedge" the sentence with "aap" heh.
 
user116848
I use "tum" here though. "Aap" only with elders or mom/dad etc.
 
@Arrowfar Right. I tend to use "aap" with everyone. And I occasionally get comments about that.
 
user116848
10:09 AM
Some people use "tu" which is rather rude. I never use that.
 
user116848
So that means we can talk here in code and no one would understand ;)
 
user116848
"Tu" etc. seems like a thug language to me.
 
that's something where English is relatively simple, we don't have different words depending on who we're speaking to
Japanese is quite a simple, logical language, until you get into all that nonsense
 
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@ElendilTheTall Yes exactly "you" in general for everything. It is simpler that way.
 
English is simple in some ways. For example, inanimate objects don't have gender. Which always struck me as weird and unnecessary. Of course, it is a very wacky language in lots of other ways.
I've heard that Latin, for example, has all sorts of complexities, inflections and so forth, that English does not have.
 
10:16 AM
Dearest creature in creation,
Study English pronunciation.
I will teach you in my verse
Sounds like corpse, corps, horse, and worse.
I will keep you, Suzy, busy,
Make your head with heat grow dizzy.
Tear in eye, your dress will tear.
So shall I! Oh hear my prayer.
Just compare heart, beard, and heard,
Dies and diet, lord and word,
Sword and sward, retain and Britain.
(Mind the latter, how it’s written.)
Now I surely will not plague you
With such words as plaque and ague.
But be careful how you speak:
Say break and steak, but bleak and streak;
Cloven, oven, how and low,
Script, receipt, show, poem, and toe.
 
@Arrowfar True. Though my knowledge of Hindi/Urdu/whatever is rather limited.
 
Hear me say, devoid of trickery,
Daughter, laughter, and Terpsichore,
Typhoid, measles, topsails, aisles,
Exiles, similes, and reviles;
Scholar, vicar, and cigar,
Solar, mica, war and far;
One, anemone, Balmoral,
Kitchen, lichen, laundry, laurel;
Gertrude, German, wind and mind,
Scene, Melpomene, mankind.
 
@Arrowfar Actually, I think one could type Devnagri directly in here. Probably Urdu script too.
 
(the names of the muses are a bit rich here, they're Greek!)
 
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@FaheemMitha But I can't type Urdu here. I mean I have never written Urdu on keyboard, just on paper.
 
10:19 AM
@Arrowfar Ok. But I'm just saying that I think it is possible. I'm sure Urdu is in Unicode.
And Devnagri certainly is. I've seen people do it.
Yes, English pronunciation and spelling is a nightmare. That's something phonetic languages don't have to contend with.
 
देवनागरी
 
user116848
This is Urdu: آپ کیسے ہیں؟
 
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The font is very small for chat.
 
# testing
 
@ElendilTheTall Did you cut and paste that?
 
user116848
10:23 AM
Arabic font in chat is very small too. I saw that in Arabic SE site.
 
@Arrowfar It's a bit small. Did you cut and paste? What does that say?
 
@FaheemMitha yes, of course
 
@ElendilTheTall Ok. It just says "Devnagri", as you probably know. Can you read Devnagri?
 
It says 'Devanagari' according to Wikipedia...
 
user116848
So I can't read what Elendil wrote. Can you read what he pasted @FaheemMitha?
 
user116848
10:25 AM
@FaheemMitha Yes that is the Urdu script. It says "How are you?"
 
ोवमा्िु
 
@Arrowfar Yes, I just says "Devnagri" in Devnagri.
 
I have just installed the hindi keyboard
 
@ElendilTheTall That missed a bit at the beginning.
 
I have no idea how it works
् <- this happens when I type 'D'
it's like a modifier
 
10:26 AM
@ElendilTheTall Well, the fonts have to be available. And I don't really understand how fonts work, especially in a browser.
 
अ <- this is capital D
 
@ElendilTheTall Actually, that's pronounced "Er".
Probably the closest thing in Devnagri to an A.
 
I'm sure... I'm just saying what keypress creates it
 
@ElendilTheTall Oh, I see.
I've heard TeX people talking about fonts, but it's confusing.
 
user116848
10:30 AM
I don't know Devnagri. First time I'm seeing it I guess.
 
Actually, there it says अ is "a", as I would expect.
D = ध
@Arrowfar Oh, really? Hmm. I thought Pakistanis would know some Hindi.
 
user116848
Isn't it great? One chat room with so many different languages from around the world :)
 
@Arrowfar hai!
si
oui
ja
ie
 
user116848
@FaheemMitha We can totally understand an Indian film. Like completely, but we are not familiar with the Hindi script. Here we use our own Arabic/Persian type script but the way we speak the language is pretty same.
 
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@ElendilTheTall :)
 
10:33 AM
I think my Pakistani cousins know Urdu, for example. They certainly spoke it.
They were quite culturally-minded, far more than us.
@Arrowfar I see.
But one of them married an Irishman, another an American. So I don't know how much contact they have with Pakistan now.
I guess most people try to leave Pakistan if they can. Since conditions are not good there.
The lady who married the American complained of being harassed in Pakistan. She is a classsical dancer. And they objected to her dancing, or so I heard.
 
user116848
Yes true. It is an unstable country.
 
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Also I never recommend anyone to visit Pakistan. I mean this place can be very unsafe sometimes.
 
@Arrowfar Oh. That's too bad. I'm sure it is worth visiting.
 
user116848
Yeah um I dunno. I mean I'm kinda used to this place so I don't mind much.
 
Parts of India are still very beautiful, even with all the abuse it has suffered. Not around here, of course.
 
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10:45 AM
I mean here Talibans/terrorists etc. have made a mess.
 
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I don't know what they get out of it.
 
@Arrowfar Do you understand the historical background of that? It's hard to get the facts, because everyone has motivation to lie. Are they just religious thugs?
 
user116848
There objective seems to harass and scare people I guess.
 
@Arrowfar To what end?
 
user116848
The type of attacks we saw in Paris (ISIS attack) we see that kind of thing here every so often sadly. A few months back some guys (probably IS) got on a bus full of people and sprayed them with bullets killing 40 on the spot.
 
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10:47 AM
I mean in the city I live in.
 
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This is a timeline of terrorist incidents which took place in 2015, including attacks by violent non-state actors for political or other unknown motives. By 13 November there have been 289 terrorist attacks. == List guidelines == Casualties figures in this list are the total casualties of the incident including immediate casualties and later casualties (such as people who succumbed to their wounds long after the attacks occurred). The casualties listed are the victims, perpetrator casualties are listed separately (e.g. (+1 perpetrator) indicate that along with the victims of the attack, o...
 
@Arrowfar Sounds nasty. :-( And unsafe.
 
user116848
Yeah totally.
 
@Arrowfar I guess you avoid public transport then?
 
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@FaheemMitha I don't know. They say it is religion but I disagree. It is mixture of many things I guess. Like desperation, poverty, joblessness, some religious stuff too. I dunno.
 
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10:51 AM
@FaheemMitha Yes sometimes. But many people use it.
 
@Arrowfar Yes, desperation can take strange forms.
I hear that even in the UK, unemployment has caused lots of social problems.
 
user116848
I see.
 
One version of the story is since that delightful Thatcher lady (and her friends) destroyed British manufacturing, there's a big segment of the population which no longer know what do do with themselves, so they are wandering around making trouble.
 
user116848
The whole world is becoming a tough place to live in :)
 
I remember reading a big discussion on it online some years ago. In the Guardian, maybe.
@Arrowfar It always was...
 
10:54 AM
@FaheemMitha and yet, no jobless oik has seen fit to spray a bus with bullets
 
@ElendilTheTall Yet.
 
for that kind of thing, you do need religion
@FaheemMitha it won't happen
 
True, the UK does seem to be fresh out of religion these days. The Church of England certainly doesn't cut it any more.
 
long may it continue
 
@ElendilTheTall Amen.
I guess Henry the Eighth really did his country a service. Though he probably didn't mean to. He just wanted to bed whoever it was.
 
10:56 AM
yes, the randy old git
 
There's a portrait of him hanging above the Fellows Table in the Great Hall in Trinity College. It always stuck me as kind of weird. I mean, the guy was a mass murderer.
And some of his victims included his own wives.
 
royalty gives one a lot of leeway
 
@ElendilTheTall Apparently.
 
you could argue that any British monarch is a mass murderer, they are all Commanders in Chief of the armed forces
 
@ElendilTheTall But these days, it's a figurehead thing.
They don't get to actually make any decisions. At least, I hope not...
 
11:00 AM
well, the 5th in line to the throne was until recently an active-duty Apache pilot in Afghanistan
 
@ElendilTheTall Was that Edward?
 
Harry
 
OK
Diana's son?
 
Ok
alexbeckett.co.uk Someone who makes his living as a wedding photographer, apparently. Though his web site avoids saying that outright. Wonder how one gets into this business.
 
11:23 AM
1. Buy a camera 2. Call yourself a wedding photographer
@rumtscho hello stranger
 
hello weirdly long person
 
ha, I've been called that before ;)
how are you anyhoo?
 
as always, trying to work items off the list quicker than they come onto it and failing :(
Last week, I learned for sure that my contract won't be renewed
 
so I'm writing job applications
 
11:31 AM
i'm sure a lady of your experience and intelligence will have no problem finding another
 
The places I could work (if everything goes well) are very exciting. But the process is not only time consuming, it's also draining. Anxiously running to the phone at every "new mail" ding, that sort of thing.
 
yes
well, remain calm. equanimity is the name of the game.
I SAID REMAIN CALM!
 
hehe
sadly, my inner critic seems to be deaf
Hmm, I'm writing an unsolicited application now. Whom should I address?
 
'To Whom It May Concern'
or 'Dear Sir/Madam'
the latter is more common these days
not sure of the German equivalents of course
 
yes, that's probably the safe course
hello @Cindy!
 
11:43 AM
hmmm, is that the real Cindy or phantom-Cindy
pseudo-Cindy
pseudo-Psindy, even
or just Psindy
 
what, we have an impostor here? Where is our Cindy?
 
Psindy is just Cindy when she's not actually in the room
Sindy is Cindy when she's had a couple of sherries ;D
 
And how are you @ElendilTheTall?
Any nice photo trips lately?
 
I am much the same as always, thank you
No, no nice photo trips... I think you saw my last few... autumnal trees?
 
on a river? I haven't been much in the room lately.
 
11:52 AM
yes, a waterfall
 
Yes, it was beautiful.
Leaf season is almost over here :(
 
yes. ours are all on the ground now blocking drains
my shutter finger is getting itchy, but the weather has been miserable of late
I will be keeping an eye out for the first frost
 
Oh, hoary frost pictures!
 
that's the hope
i'm also toying with getting an adaptor for my telescope which I have dug out of storage
though I am missing the counterweight
 
I've never handled a telescope. They have a counterweight? Can one be easily rigged with stuff laying around, or is it precision tech?
 
11:58 AM
reflecting telescopes do, yes
not particularly precise, no
the counterweight is the cylinder next to the left leg
 
@ElendilTheTall I was talking about the actually making money part.
I suppose one could kidnap prospective wedding couples and force them to let you take their picture...
Hi @rumtscho
 
Hi @FaheemMitha
 
@rumtscho What's happening?
 
job seeking
 
@FaheemMitha you just need to have a fairly good portfolio to start with
that involves doing friends' weddings, getting work as a 'second shooter', and so on
 
12:09 PM
@ElendilTheTall Oh. Not a line of work that appeals to you, then?
 
it is very competitive - every tom, dick or harry with a camera seems to call themselves a wedding photographer
 
@ElendilTheTall Oh. Well, this guy seems to get some work. I wonder what his secret is.
@rumtscho Job hunting sucks.
 
@FaheemMitha his photos are exceptional
 
@ElendilTheTall Oh, really? But yours are exceptional too, right?
 
@FaheemMitha not particularly
of course, exceptional is in the eye of the beholder
this guy has talent and probably a certain amount of luck. He probably started out doing standard issue weddings in standard issue churches followed by standard issue receptions
then he got a couple of lucky bookings in better locations which meant the shots were naturally more spectacular
 
12:17 PM
Is being based in Cambridge helpful?
It's certainly very scenic. And all those chapels.
 
that brought him more business so he could invest in more equipment - his shots make use of some advanced artificial lighting
 
I see. I wouldn't know.
 
then you have a snowball effect where you get increasingly more expensive weddings in increasingly spectacular locations, until you are taking elaborate shots in front of Tower Bridge or at Hindu temples in the middle of the jungle
 
@ElendilTheTall I don't think there are many Hindu temples in Cambridge. Or in the UK, for that matter. And none located in jungles.
 
well, there's a photo of one in his slideshow...
 
12:19 PM
@ElendilTheTall Oh! I must have missed that.
 
you know, it's possible for people to travel away from their present location
 
I must say, that web site might as well have been subtitled "White Privilege".
@ElendilTheTall Yes, I know.
 
user116848
Hello @rumtscho.
 
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@ElendilTheTall Nice!
 
hi @Arrowfar
 
12:23 PM
@ElendilTheTall How does photographic talent manifest itself? An eye for the good shot? A good understanding of light? A sense of location?
 
12:51 PM
For German speakers, what is the etymology of "Heinzelmännchen"?
Meaning something like "little helpers", I think.
 
1:05 PM
@FaheemMitha yes
That is regarding your photo question btw
 
@ElendilTheTall Hey there!
@Arrowfar @rumtscho Got your pings also. Good morning!
 
@Cindy good morning
 
hey there
how you doing?
 
@ElendilTheTall Tired and only have a few minutes as I have to get ready to leave shortly. I'd rather go back to sleep :)
 
@Cindy we're used to your fleeting visits :(
 
1:21 PM
Good news about my kitty. She had been waffling, seeming a tiny bit better, then a tiny bit worse. And yesterday hubby said she seemed to be getting a little worse. But this morning she got up, used her litter box, went to one of her favorite windows and ate solid food. First solid food in a week. And she has a very tiny bit of pink color back in her nose. (Last week it was dead pale white.) Then back to sleep.
 
sounds promising. tough kitty!
 
Sweet!
(maybe not the most appropriate response, but it's my usual reaction when I think about kitties)
 
@ElendilTheTall I know. I will be so glad to get home and get back to something more normal, such as it is.
@ElendilTheTall She's definitely a trouper! :)
 
and a trooper
 
@rumtscho Aww. Always appropriate for kitties.
@ElendilTheTall That too, lol. >.<
 
1:24 PM
I just noticed a second place which recommends that one ends a cover letter with "thanks that you read the letter". Is this really normal and expected? Seems over the top to me.
Especially since I don't write to the kind of company who gets 8000 applications a day.
 
@rumtscho 'Thank you for your consideration' is fairly standard
 
@ElendilTheTall Not up on the who conversation, but in cover letters I always use "In advance, thank you for your time and consideration".
 
@Cindy The whole conversation in a nutshell: I need a new job.
my direct supervisor would have liked to keep me, but the project was underfinanced. This is not so rare in research, sadly.
It's not tragic, although it's a bit too early. Now I need a place which will have me part-time until I finish the dissertation in 4-5 months, then will switch me to full time.
 
Aldi pays very well ;)
 
Another line I use before that is something like "I am very interested to learn more about this opportunity with <insert company> and look forward to hearing from you". It may vary slightly depending on the company and position. The two lines together set a subliminal (if you will) expectation of their consideration and a response while showing that you are not afraid to set those expectations.
 
1:34 PM
Did you pick them at random, or were you aware that they are a terrible workplace even when compared to others of their industry?
 
@rumtscho Is that for Tall?
 
@Cindy you, I think
 
@Cindy for Tall's suggestion of Aldi
 
@ElendilTheTall ??? I thought she was talking about the Aldi comment.
 
oh
sorry, I need more coffee
I am aware that it would not be the most edifying of jobs
 
1:42 PM
hi all
 
@Jolenealaska Hey there!
 
@ElendilTheTall I've heard from two separate people who've worked for them (in the management positions, not as cashiers or such) that they have a terrible company culture. Lots of backstabbing, and that's encouraged by top management.
hi @Jolenealaska
 
I'm not entirely sure that I'm up yet,but I thought it was worth a shot.
 
@Jolenealaska you don't have to be up to use a computer
 
@rumtscho We have Aldi in the US and most recently they have come into my area. I haven't really heard anything good about them.
 
1:45 PM
I've shopped at them for years, as a student.
 
Over the years, I've heard they're pretty tough.
 
OK, cover letter for dream job #2 complete!
 
Yay!
@rumtscho Have you looked at remote jobs?
 
@Cindy Yes, dreamjob #1 happens to be a remote job: Stack Exchange itself!
 
@Jolenealaska Read up for the latest on my kitty. BIG :).
 
ooh!
 
@rumtscho Awesome. I noticed when I searched for remote positions that most were in the tech fields. Unfortunately, I'm not. But I am field based and therefore remote.
 
I know Stack Exchange is a great employer, and I'm already invested in the product. And remote will be great because of the opportunities to travel and work at the same time. This will solve the problem of seeing my parents too seldom.
On the other hand, dreamjob #2 is about curing cancer.
 
@Cindy great about your Kitty. :)
 
Ah, but dream job 1 is about fixing that one fucking bug that just won't fucking work
 
1:55 PM
It's not just that it can't be beat in meaningfulness, it's that I've always been fascinated by biology. I've learned quite a bit about it in the last few years, and the more I learn, the more I want to be part of it.
 
Sounds like a wonderful opportunity. I had looked at the Stack openings and wished that I had a background to go for one. Won't happen but it would be a dream job!
 
@ElendilTheTall It's a product manager job, not a dev job.
 
@Jolenealaska Yes. Gives us a lot of hope. :)
 
so it's exactly my specialization.
I wrote to SE jobs a few days ago to ask about the legal matters of working in Germany but having a US employer. When they answer, out goes the full application.
 
@rumtscho yes, but it's product managing Stack Overflow...
 
1:57 PM
@Cindy Sounds good. Fingers crossed. Is the vet visiting her?
@rumtscho You speak German. What's the etymology of "Heinzelmännchen"?
 
@rumtscho it sucks that you are looking, but I love that you are looking at Stack Overflow. Shall we write a combined effort reference?
 
@FaheemMitha I speak it, I don't research it. I have no idea about etymologies.
 
@rumtscho Ok
 
Hey guys. Must run as the manager I'm working with will be picking me up soon. Last day in Chicago and then home tomorrow. Just hope the airports are not a mess with all that's going on. I leave from O'Hare and layover in LaGuardia.
 
@Cindy What's going on? Airports? Mess?
 
1:59 PM
@Cindy OK, then I wish you a calm, eventless flight. Greet the kitty from me when you get home!
 
@FaheemMitha No. All home care. Hubby has stayed home this week while I'm gone. We'll have to take her in for him to check her.
 
@Cindy Ah, Ok. Well, best wishes to your kitty.
 

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