@Asmyldof and @ThePhoton -- I think I am out of here. I can't believe I have wasted so much time here. Thank you for the DIY EV site pointer, which is exactly what I want. I think these naysayers including DaveTweed are a bunch of losers who think that by gaining some reputations scores here, they are making up for being losers in the real world. I will be going to the Forum Watch website and will be blasting this place to pieces over there and let everyone see my horrible experience.
Well, I am not going to waste any more time here and will not go on meta. This place is a losing place where control and pedanticity and condescension is valued more than knowledge and progress. It is a regressive site. But I am happy to have met you two guys and I know not all people here are losers.