Like what if she didnt find it negative or harassment ish, or what if she did why didn't she just let me know. Or if she did let me know why was it in such an indirect way. And if everyone does stuff in an indirect way because that's a norm people have adopted well then I am out of luck because I don't live like that. In my country everyone is honest and immediately expresses their feelings, none of this snakey slitherings between stuff, we stand tall and firm.
Now that that's out of the way, there's the added complexity of environment. Where did this communication go down? Oh yeah it was…