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07:14
I don't remember.
And also Lovely People, yes, I may have been expecting the conversation to wander round to that at some point. But also just feeling excluded from it and stuff.
That Lego set is a bit silly. It just makes a little flag sculpture. Is that all it makes? I think Lego should be less boring.
Nice try, though.
Isn't that flag wrong, though? Unless what they're doing is trying to fit half a transgender flag in at the same time.
07:39
That is very likely to be the intent, yes. The other end, likewise, borrows from the People of Color Pride flag I've seen somewhere.
Ah, that one, cause of many punch-ups on DeviantArt :-D
Objected to, if I remember rightly, on the grounds that "black is not a sexual orientation what the hell".
It kind of works for the Lego thing, though, since they seem to be going for "throw everything in there at once", not just specific to that.
I think it looks nice there. Though as noted, it does not really have anything but the symbol which is a bit bland (ok, the haircuts are nice)
07:58
The haircuts are nice. :-)
On an unrelated subject:
https://twitter.com/SNeurotypicals/status/1397013192904044545
Why are there so many people saying things that remind me of me something is terribly wrong with the world 8-|
08:20
Turns out many people do the same weird oddly specific things
A fair bit back I learned that I wasn't the only kid who, during long car rides, imagined some sort of superman running across the scenery whizzing by
09:00
@A.B. lol
09:29
@kviiri well to be fair, there is also a loooooot of neurotypical judgment for any behavior they can't personally understand by people who find certain things soothing
like the guy in that linked twitter thread who immediately decided all people taking 20 minute showers are freaks or monsters or wtv
 
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13:04
I ended up reading about two months' worth of the account. :-D I don't agree with all of it but some of it, and by eck it has got some good jokes.
I was more thinking about how many people seem to be spending so much time in a state of mind-scrambling terror... but, mind you, re-reading that thread, some of them are like that but a lot of them are really more along the lines of "things I do because I wanna, shut up".
The point of BIPOC representation on the pride flag is to specifically represent BIPOC LQBTQ+ populations which experience specific prejudice
same with Trans representation
Some arguments against it are that the original Pride flag should already represent everyone, and that no particular group is singled out, whereas on the Progress Pride flag specific nods are given to BIPOC and trans floks
@G.Moylan Somewhat ironically, these are not that dissimilar from arguments used to distract from minority-centric calls for justice and equitable treatment
@kviiri yes
I like the Progress Pride flag, personally, but to each their own
But ofc being in a minority never made anyone a saint automatically, even toward other minorities or subgroups of their own minority.
@G.Moylan Same, though my attitude towards these things in general is quite jazzy anyway x)
@kviiri something something black cops
13:18
My knowledge of contemporary history of LGBT issues in the US (where much of Pride symbology comes from) is limited but my rough understanding is that the LGBT culture had a bit of a divide between the more affluent white collar side and the lower-class side, and there was a racial component to this divide
@G.Moylan something something politics... wait, I'm in here be dragons... Still, the only answer I have for that is: There is some types of behavior that is so evil that it is especially illegal if coming from cops or military. In the US that's triple-K-stuff, in the EU it's Nazi noncastrated-oxen-excrement.
So I think it's doubly important to stress that everyone in the community should have their voice heard, instead of trying to rally everyone under one symbol which might feel like a foreign one to some members of the community
@kviiri In the US there tends to be a racial divide that coincides with an affluence divide, due to numerous factors
@G.Moylan That's true to my understanding as well
For ~everything
@kviiri LBGT, LGBTQ, LGBTQA...
13:22
@Trish I think people ahve generally settled on LGBTQ+, finally
@G.Moylan yea
@G.Moylan The financial divide I can trace to quite some degree to dissimilar treatment during the New Deal and Fair Housing act.
@G.Moylan Plus some are advocating for dropping the "L", which I honestly don't see happening in the mainstream
youtube.com/watch?v=vyiwk3D-3ag&t=544s is a good primer on that part of US history
@Trish Even before that. The concept of slavery being around for so long, and then laws that prevented success or continued inequality for blacks, things like the Tulsa Race Massacre, etc. All of that was before the New Deal
@kviiri wat?
@kviiri Lesbian is the proper term for female-female attraction, just as gay is for male-male. Gay for female-female feels off to me. dropping the is so off
@G.Moylan the two legislations did reinforce it. that's what I meant
13:25
@G.Moylan I don't think it's a major movement or anything, but "L" for "lesbian" kinda stands out as being the only gender-segregated one in that list.
@Trish gotcha. yeah they certainly made things worse
@Trish I think "gay" is pretty widely used to refer to homosexuals of all genders
I suppose gay is generic like guys is generic
still seems odd
@G.Moylan I don't think so. I've seen lots of people arguing against using generic "guy", I've almost never seen the same against generic "gay"
I mean, it might happen, but it certainly doesn't in my bubble.
gay also means just happy... See the lyrics of When Johnny comes marching home.
@G.Moylan [citation needed]
13:29
If none of us are party of this community, I do not think we should be saying how they should reference themselves.
@Trish personal experience? I get it's anecdotal but most folks I talk to don't really have an issue with "guys" referring to a mixed group of people and "gays" serving a similar purpose. YMMV
@Trish it means that historically but it hasn't been used that way in earnest for a long time, now
Wikipedia says various queer advocacy groups have advocated the usage of "gay" gender-neutrally since the late 1900's
@kviiri I won't be among those, because it messes up translatability. for example, the german equivalent of gay is schwul, which can't be dramatically correctly used with female, and would need to be replaced with either homosexuell or lesbisch.
@G.Moylan nah, translatability of texts.
@Trish Well that's too bad, but it's not a very good argument. Lots of words already do that.
@Trish it's spoken. IDK about written
@Trish I'm replacing all of my uses of "grammatically correct" with "dramatically correct" now
13:32
Best regards, my language is one where every single of those detective show staples of "Uh, huh, and how did you know the killer was a she?!" is doomed to extremely wonky translations and we cope.
@G.Moylan that actually is a quirk of most languages: a group of people that is only female is female. a group of only males is male. A group of males and females is referred to as either male (french & english) or with a neutral circumvention (german)
like "A group of homosexuals(/gays)" "un groupe d'homosexuels" (note un is male) while German goes most simoly "Eine Gruppe Homosexuelle/Schwule und Lesben" (a group of homosexuals/gays and lesbians)
Y'all can talk about the grammar issues of words, but again, please do not attempt to label people in a group if you are not part of that group.
@NautArch I don't think we are, we're discussing why the labels might change and the arguments for or against, as well as the language. I don't think any of us ar advocating for a specific use or label.
@NautArch Agreed on labeling people, but I deny to comment on membership.
Just be careful. Communities often don't like to be labelled, and the terms are very fluid among them. That's all I'm saying.
While this is for difficult discussions, we need to be aware as well.
13:39
@NautArch aye
The terminology has, and always has been in flux. Especially since non-folklore sources haven't existed beyond a few decades now, and sources predating them have usually had a very outsider point-of-view.
That's why we should be accepting of people using words differently to us and respectful for the labels people choose to use for themselves (even if they come from a direction that would seem unusual to us)
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(And as a corollary, gentle when encouraging people to shift their vocabulary)
14:18
@A.B. there's a number of hybrid LGBT flags, and perhaps the most prominent right now is this particular Progress flag:
I think they're doing basically what it's doing, which is basically fine and how the trans flag tends to get combined in this context
@SPArcheon That said, it's definitely a big ol' rainbow capitalism and that doesn't interest me much
@doppelgreener "rainbow capitalism" is a new phrase for me but I immediately understand it
Like, if you want to provide support to queer people ... make actual human representation of us in your products rather than in a single product in which we're solid colors?
Right on x)
Do you think branding for Pride Month is a form of that, or no?
@doppelgreener From the LEGO perspective: LEGO collectors are really excited about new parts, and I think this was an easy way for them to offer minifig pieces in a wide variety of colors all in one place for the folks who want that.
@G.Moylan that makes sense to me
14:23
@doppelgreener From the people perspective: I'd wager they didn't want to "assign" any one person or orientation to a specific color, since the colors already have meanings, so they left the minifigs "blank"
But I definitely see how it can be read as dehumanizing
@G.Moylan In the general case, marketing is probably a big driving factor in rainbow branding. One easily observable example is that international corporations seldom do rainbow branding in countries where the popular attitude is hostile to LGBTQ+ people.
@G.Moylan Yes, it's an extension of it. Rainbow capitalism is basically the incorporation of LGBT iconography in order to sell products. Critically, the company basically isn't actually supporting LGBT people, they're just using our flag because it makes them money.
Of course things exist in multitudes: there may be good intentions behind it too, but the commitment is not very deep.
It's very common for companies to brand LGBT for June, make some platitudes about including us, and then drop the branding and act like we don't exist for the rest of the year. If we're lucky, they might even donate some profits to charity! This phenomenon is so common there's memes about it.
@doppelgreener I figured that would be the take. Where is the line, though? Some people want to buy pride-themed products, and some folks want to use services that use rainbow branding, so how can we responsibly go about that?
@doppelgreener oooooh this is a good one.
(I mean it might be for some businesses, but I'd refrain from assuming a company that sports rainbow colors would take longer than a blink of an eye to rid themselves of those colors if it was hurting their business)
@doppelgreener Not uncommon about other things, too. See X-month. It's breast cancer month! It's black history month! etc. etc.
@doppelgreener The point is that it gets done a month before June. Would be normal, yet the product is - imho - very low effort. Just a rainbow pattern and 7 minifig with plain coloring and no facial features.
@SPArcheon see my comment about parts. LEGO is likely trying to offersomething pride-themed while also sell boatloads of product to the LEGO collector market that will gobble this up for all the color variety in the minifig parts
and then sell the light-blue hands on the secondary market for a markup, or something
14:30
@G.Moylan I appreciate you asking! The best thing you can do is actually buy from LGBT creators. Find your favorite LGBT artist on twitter and see if they're selling merch, for example. Look around on Etsy, alternately.
@G.Moylan Well. On a mere philosophical viewpoint "everyone is awesome" - different colors but no face give a mixed message of different but also standardized in a way. I can't wrap my head around that.
But my real point is that the thing is basically a few plain board pieces, 7 minifigs and it sells for 35$
Rainbow capitalism is specifically a problem because we're a marginalised group and our members can have more trouble than others making ends meet, but the non-marginalised groups are using our image to further line their pockets. (And folks might wonder why so many LGBT people are anti-capitalist; it's because capitalism goes fully mask-off with us.)
Awareness =/= caring or solutions.
and that is from the Lego site. I think we can safely assume that will become 50$ on the average final retailer.
@SPArcheon I would rather see them portray actual fully detailed minifigs with beautiful outfits. Give me a Lil Nas X minifig. Give me an enby minifig designed by enbies. Give me a trans male and trans female minifig. Design this with input from associated groups.
14:33
@doppelgreener How should we go about consuming brands that do this, though? Like, I use DnDBeyond, for example, and Fandom, while seeming to be pretty accepting in how they operate, uses rainbow branding on that site.
@doppelgreener Hey, they gave us some wild-colored hair pieces and new colors for arms and hands, why can't you be happy!? /s
@NautArch Allyship is a verb. Allyship is expressed in material action. When a company gives some brief lip service but does nothing to help us, we call that performative allyship.
@doppelgreener Performance allyship? Or just "marketing"? :D :(
@NautArch something something dancing monkeys
Sure! :P
@G.Moylan Brands that engage in rainbow branding are basically net neutral to slight positive; they're doing something. I wouldn't do anything different with them, I just would take it as an empty gesture unless they follow it up with meaningful support of LGBT people somehow. This means if I were using D&D Beyond and saw their rainbow logo, I'd shrug and move on, and wouldn't change how I use D&D Beyond. If they donate to Mermaids UK or Stonewall, then I'd sing their praises for doing that.
@doppelgreener yeah... I would quite expect them to do a Village People Lego set and pretend that is awareness before doing what you proposed here...
If anything, because they could just use the parts they already have and sell them for double the price.
14:37
Brands doing rainbow branding is nice because it indicates support, but they usually call that a day and end it there, and don't think of LGBT people the rest of the year.
Meanwhile you've got folks like the She-Ra crew who were out there creating LGBT representation regardless of what month of the year it was, because they are acting genuinely with the interests of LGBT people in mind.
@doppelgreener ... yep, I think you got my point. Seems like they wanted to be "there" with the smalest possible effort.
@doppelgreener I still wonder how different must this remake be from the original.
@G.Moylan I mean, that actually is pretty cool, but even Lucy's hair from Lego movie is more LGBT than this stuff
@SPArcheon You may be ignoring the size of effort to change manufacturing processes, create packaging, new skus, etc.
Because all I can remember from '80 She-Ra is that He-Man == macho and based on whose series it was, the other character had to look like an idiot.
@SPArcheon [holds arms out real wide] like this but more
14:41
old He-Man in She-Ra was utterly stupid and so was She-Ra in He-Man.
@SPArcheon meanwhile, just for a start, every She-Ra character had the same figure (because they only had one doll) and it was an extremely unrealistic body for women. Everyone was white (unless they were purple). Safe to say, nobody was queer. Except He-Man. He-Man's queer. Not that they were going for that, but he is.
I don't want to detail my sexual orientation beyond that I am not marginalized because of it, and I don't intend my takes to step over anyone who actually is. I don't think you should worry about the companies whose products you'd buy anyway being spurious with their rainbow flags, use the energy to actually support LGBTQ+ content creators and business instead.
@kviiri i agree
Oh, I just posted the Lego news because it is everywhere.
@SPArcheon to LEGO's simultaneous credit and detriment, I believe this is the first officially-labeled LGBTQ+-themed set from them
which is why it's a "big deal" in that regard
14:44
@G.Moylan Oh, that's for sure. But I am quite unsure on the sincerity of the act.
That said, I am also quite suspicious by nature so...
@SPArcheon In general, it's better to believe in good faith until proven otherwise. But hard to do that with multinationals. Not sure about lego's track record.
Things exist in multitudes. It is probably to a degree sincere, probably motivated by a desire for rainbow cash to an even larger degree. These are not mutually exclusive motivations
@SPArcheon well, LEGO used yellow minifigs for a long time so they wouldn't be indicative of a particular race. But then they went and botched that when they made Lando Calrissian black, which meant that every other character was suddenly white by comparison
although a yellow Lando Calrissian may have been labeled as white-washing or erasure, so it may have been a no-win situation
One of the main concerns in issues like this is appropriation. For example, Rainbow Six recently released a Nakoda character codenamed Thunderbird. She was made in consultation with three Nakoda women who designed her. This means she's actually the Nakoda impression of a Nakoda warrior, not some white person's impression. Her chin tattoos aren't lifting an aesthetic, they were put there by Nakoda people.
And Nakoda people, a marginalised group, have been enriched by their inclusion—money went into Nakoda peoples' hands.
And well... in an ideal world, the "pragmatic move" and the "virtuous move" would be the same thing.
14:48
@kviiri send me to that world, please. this one is broken
Meanwhile, a few years ago, another game company (I think) created what was supposed to be a Maori man ... but they didn't consult any Maori people. They gave him ta moko and put it only on his chin. Men are supposed to get ta moko across their face; only women get it on their chin. They made an embarrassing ignorant gaff because they wanted to tone things down for the public.
@G.Moylan Can't, won't, sorry :)
@G.Moylan showed you this before right?
Now, that said, it is not like the fact that the original was basically a Mr T expi was that better....
@SPArcheon what have they done to my boi barret
@SPArcheon YIKES
14:50
NOTE: despite the "Banpresto" logo, it is my understanding that it was an UNLICENSED BOTLEG.
@G.Moylan They could give him his yellow cape!
(it's also blue!)
I've heard the concise and attractive, though somewhat reductive argument that all of human ethics reduces to getting humans to choose the "cooperation" option in the constant series of iterated Prisoner's Dilemmas that is life.
Okay, drop the "somewhat", it's very reductive :D
@doppelgreener as opposed to the current iteration of Boba Fett, whose actor (Temuera Morrison) if a New Zealander with whom they consulted to redesign the look of the cahracter
@SPArcheon sincerity is good but for lack of it I'll take companies being successfully browbeaten into being inclusive instead
@doppelgreener that is a cool cape. He had a whole closet of them, too!
14:53
@SPArcheon what are you talking about, that's clearly a bot arm
@G.Moylan which is super awesome
@SPArcheon oh, yes. yes
@G.Moylan now, there is a pattern on the inside that look like it is from a bed/sofa cover but......
super unlicensed and bad
@SPArcheon OH NO LOL
it's roses, i think
@SPArcheon 70s man.
I'll take my puns somewhere they are appreciated
14:55
@NautArch my 90s era figure has a blue outer but a reddish-brown inner on the cape
@Carcer spell your puns appropriately!
@NautArch my pun was spelled correctly and was based on someone else's error
oh, ha!
shame on me :(
I shall go where I can appreciate them more.
@doppelgreener I stand my point, that seems some damask fabric leftover gotten from some sofa making company :P
@SPArcheon I mean, this scans with Lando, who is constantly trying to seem fancy and rich when he is very much not
Apparenlty it wasn't the Lando mini that started it but it was close (per Wikipedia):
In 2003, the first minifigures with naturalistic skin tones (as opposed to the yellow used until this point) were released, as part of the Lego Basketball theme; these minifigures were also created in the likeness of living people.[3] This also included Lando Calrissian in the Star Wars theme. The following year, the use of natural skin tones was expanded to all licensed products
15:05
@RevanantBacon Please, remove that comment and reword it. As written, it is a direct insult to me.
if it was that late in the game then yellow = white had already been set in stone by the simpsons for years
@Trish Im not seeing any insults directed toward you.
I remember somebody saying "If white people in The Simpsons are yellow then why are black people normal coloured - why aren't they blue?" :-)
@ThomasMarkov >, I would guess that you don't exactly have system mastery over 5e-D&D [...] Anyone with expertise with the system can
That's extremely dismissive and insulting.
What's wrong with not having system mastery in a system that you don't play?
15:09
@MikeQ I think the issue here is the accusatory tone of the language used
"I would guess you don't know what you're talking about " is how it reads
@MikeQ Apparently, it should bar me from saying anything: "non-experts shouldn't be weighing in on the topic."
No joking: as a small kid, due to Simpsons being yellow, having "cracked" edges (eg. with Bart's hair) and the word sounding a bit similar to one of the Finnish words for potato chips, I thought the Simpsons were supposed to be anthropomorphic potato chips.
Imma move this to dragons
@kviiri new headcanon
I was so young I couldn't really follow the show, which I later grew to like a fair bit. I don't think I could even read the subtitles yet
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@Carcer Simpsons and LEGO are two very different products though,a nd LEGO hadn't featured any non-yellow cahracters up to that point
@Trish From what I understand about the site expectations, system-specific questions are supposed to get answers backed by system-specific expertise. If a question asks about a system, then it's intentional to discourage answers by people who are unfamiliar with the system.
@MikeQ SAying that a question is WAY too broad doesn't need expertise.
I am not unfamiliar with D&D 5e as RevanantBacon claims or seems to understand. I just have a dislike for how the redaction handles it and as a sult no extreme depth knowledge like in my pet games. I acknowledge that I can't answer the optimisation question, but it most certainly was way too broad. I had voted as such. And I actually don't think it should be reopened in the current shape either. Still lacks in the points I already raised.
15:22
@A.B. Because Chinese people apparently also come from Mars. See: Amy Wong.
@SPArcheon Different show, context makes that land very differently
Is it just me, or does the yellow minifig in the LEGO pride set have a bowl cut? And is that super problematic?
@G.Moylan lego's done bowl haircuts before, and this doesn't fit their profile. makes me think more of the stranger things kids, especially Will
@doppelgreener I meant more that the yellow fig is the one with the bowl cut
right, i'm saying it's not a bowl cut
@doppelgreener ah, I see what you mean
15:33
on the chance it is, i'd be interested to see if anyone from an Asian backgroud raises that issue, and if so, we can listen to that
fair enough
@doppelgreener Did I posted this here or just in the Anime room? Can't remember...
"Created in Japan"
and a rice field with ... I guess that is Pai Mei from Kill Bill?
How to insult two cultures with just one single chocolate bar.
(Furthermore, I think it was sold in Australia, so even if the design was more accurate, "Created in Japan" would still be an half lie I guess, unless they meant that the flavor was from Kit Kat Japan but the package from Australia)
Yuck.
Would have been so easy to use their japanese marketing team on this.
15:50
@NautArch That is the source, yep.
Shouldnt be buying nestle anyway :P
@NautArch or use any of the existing design that look quite better anyway.
@NautArch Ghirardelli dark chocolate for the win!
@KorvinStarmast Mind the room you are in, please.
It is about dragons, so only one chocolate is worth to be named here.
@SPArcheon OK, that's a tough argument to rebut. (My wife really likes their stuff)
15:56
.... ok, I can safely say I still top @Carcer attempt at lamest pun of the day
never underestimate how lame my puns can be.
One more for the road
@doppelgreener Is that worse than the October pinkwashing?
Nahhh, we only may have chocolate dragons here.
@NautArch insincere support is insincere support, but given the vulnerable position LGBT people are in, I would consider it worse
We're seeing widespread attack on trans rights across the Western world in a concerted attempt at divide and conquer. We need companies to do more than go "look! Rainbows! We support you!"
if you stand beside someone while they're getting beaten with sticks while shouting "i support you so much! hashtag solidarity!", you're not really supporting them very much
@doppelgreener True, actual harm against people is much wore than simple capitalism advantage.
16:16
much *worse.
eek, thta was almost really not the right word.
i didn't even notice the typo lol
16:30
@doppelgreener eh, as we are at the topic... should I reword rpg.stackexchange.com/questions/132639 to have LGBTQ+ or keep it LGBT?
16:59
@G.Moylan Lego doesn't exist in a cultural vacuum, though, and the Simpsons is kind of a titanic juggernaught in the public consciousness
@Carcer it is, but LEGO has also been making yellow figures in some form since 1975, and the Simpsons released independently in 1989, and on teh Tracy Ullman Show in 1987, so if anything the Simpsons were borrowing from LEGO as far as timelines are concerned, but we also can't prove that one is an inspiration to the other
I'm not suggesting there is a deliberate reference
I edited, reference wasn't the right word
or inspiration! Just that by that point I don't think Lego could have conceivably gotten away with making yellow models of people who are supposed to be black, because regardless of what the colour was meant to signify when they were first designed, after the simpsons, yellow means white
@Carcer I agree. And it seems they didn't either, based on the wikipedia article and the 2003 basketball sets. After that and Lando Calrissian they did a number of other sets with real people represented in them and they went away from yellow altogether. I think they still release vintage-inspired sets with yellow figures but otherwise they've completely left it behind, AFAIK
 
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@A.B. I didn't dig incredibly deeply but I saw about a dozen people saying things to the tune of solidarity and only one naysayer
20:36
@SPArcheon it's actually very different and very good and enjoyable
They changed a lot and made it more nuanced and representative
If anyone is literally specifically worried that it's going to be too similar to the original show(s) that's not something you should worry about
It's basically as different as they could possibly have made it, and in a definitely good way
21:05
@Trish both are completely fine. LGBT, LGBT+, LGBTQ, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, etc etc, none of them are more correct than any other
@doppelgreener ok, just thought that someone felt slighted because someone voted downtoday... but then again, there are some people that don't feel like that the world of darkness needs those topics. or has them. or they have their own ideas what the books say... (might also be a case of I want to tell you what I believe, not what the books say - for which we had to remove two answers, one contradictory to what the books actually said.)
i don't think i've ever come across anyone in the lgbt community who will insist it be expressed exactly one specific way
21:27
I have briefly met someone that demanded very specific pronouns....
@Trish most people have very specific preferred pronouns
well pronouns are a slightly different thing
or even really not that slightly
XD
pronouns are something else entirely, i'm referencing which acronym to use to refer to the LGBT community
and specifying there is not a correct one, and that people will generally not insist on any specific one being the correct one
@Carcer those pronouns were not even something that was used by anyone but them. god, I barely remember it was breaking every convention of the language.
no no no
we're not doing a vent about neopronouns
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21:41
yeah, none of that.
i believe that individual deliberately wanted to troll neopronouns, but good.
I am instead going to vent about having to go drive for an hour to pick up my partner from work
And now I'm going to go and do that
cheerio
don't you mean vent by driving an hour to pick up your significant other as a sign of your love, @Carcer?
hey we can still be frustrated about having to do something like this even while doing it out of love
amen to that

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