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10:00 PM
@kiamlaluno does he look volatile?
@kiamlaluno hotfoxes?
 
@MattЭллен No, it is static, and he keeps looking at me with its little eyes that seems two dots.
 
The good kind of psychology, as I see it, not only presents statistical correspondence but also exposes the mechanism at work in great detail, with evidence.
Of course that is often difficult.
 
@Cerberus Yeah. Quite a lot of popular psychology tends to be something like Freud's psychoanalysis, or socio-psychology. Both of which are prone to playing things up for sensationalism when the mass media get a hold
 
Yeah.
 
@MattЭллен Is that a synonym of redheads?
 
10:03 PM
The branch that helps people deal with psychological problems seems more empirically sound.
 
@kiamlaluno mmmm, could be :)
 
Yeah.
(I didn't mean to be less.)
 
@Cerberus You can at least sort of see if they get better, yeah.
Hi @kiam!
 
@aediaλ Hiya!
 
@Cerberus Certainly cognitive behavioural therapy is a good source of help, since it is backed up on experimental evidence
 
10:05 PM
Again that snowman: Its eyes are like the eyes of a killer.
 
Trying to catch back up here... You never managed to put a mitten on that sockpuppet, @Cerb?
 
I start worrying.
 
It got away?
@kiamlaluno Hehe, I love the snowman.
@kiamlaluno I'm sure it is 'armless.
 
@aediaλ Yes, but who knows when it will return.
Plus, it seems it counts how many minutes of life I still have.
 
@aediaλ Exactly; and I think talking with people at least gleans some real information from them, biased though it may be.
 
10:07 PM
At least it sounds like it does, even if most of the times it shows "1."
 
@aediaλ Nope, the puppet slipped through the net, alas.
 
@kiamlaluno the eyes of a cold dead killer
 
@MattЭллен That's it!
 
> This is why volunteering feels good and unpaid interns work so hard. Without an obvious outside reward you create an internal one.
This may be partly true; but how about the fact that earning money feels good too?
 
@Cerberus "Reference needed."
 
10:09 PM
It is a tad long.
I mean, it says some sensible things, but it just draws so many conclusions!
 
Is there any relationship between the topic, and the book title?
Do people buy a book titled, "You are Not so Smart" because they like being insulted?
 
Haha, perhaps that's what made the website choose that title!
Here is another experiment, which is actually more interesting:
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 My hobby would be up vote my own questions saying they are terribly awful, but Stack Exchange let me do just half of my hobby.
 
> Subjects came into the lab believing they were going to perform psychological tests in which they could win money. The actor pretending to be the scientist attempted to make the subjects hate him by being rude and demanding as he administered a rigged series of tests. Each subject succeeded 12 times no matter what, but one group won 60 cents in total and the other won $3, which would be about $5 and $20 adjusted for inflation.
> After the experiment, the actor told the subjects to walk up the stairs and fill out a questionnaire. At this point, the actor stopped one third of all the subjects right as they were leaving and asked for the money back. He told them he was paying for the experiment out of his own pocket and could really use the favor because the study was in danger of running out of funds.
> Everyone agreed. Another third left the room and filled out the questionnaire in front of an actor pretending to be a secretary. As they were about to answer the questions, the secretary asked if they would please donate their winnings back into the research department fund as they were strapped for cash. Again, everyone agreed. The final third got to leave with their winnings without any hassle.
> The real study was to see what the subjects thought of the asshole researcher after doing him a favor. The questionnaire asked how much they liked him on a scale from 1 to 12. The people who won 60 cents ($5) were barely affected, but the people who won $3 ($20) saw things differently. On average, those who got to leave with their money rated him as a 5.8. The ones who did the secretary a favor gave him a 4.4. The ones who did the researcher a favor gave him a 7.2,
 
@Cerberus I would have expected this outcome.
The people who gave to him edited their internal narrative so that they were not giving to an asshole.
 
10:16 PM
The conclusion is supposedly that people like those whom they have given money better, because they adjust their beliefs to compensate for their suffering: "if I gave him this money, it must be because I liked him". A kind of rationalization.
@MetaEd There may be something in that; but can you think of another factor that could explain it, at least partly?
 
Yes. Typical.
What did you come up with?
 
My first thought was that people find the weak more sympathetic than the strong; hence the scientist's showing his weakness made him more sympathetic. Moreover, it wouldn't surprise me if the scientist had begged them in some sort of friendly way.
Conversely, if they gave their money to the secretary, people might think that it was perhaps the scientist, whom they perceived as the boss, who had caused part of the department's troubles.
 
@Cerberus It could be they had a car crash with a secretary, and he doesn't want to pay for the damages he causes.
 
it could easily be primacy - the last thing they did involving him was a nice thing so the next thing they would do for him would be nice. If he had been a c**t and demanded the money back, and they gave it to him, then he would score a lot lower
 
@kiamlaluno Ehhh...
 
10:21 PM
@Cerberus Is that the imitation of an ambulance? :-)
 
@MattЭллен Hmm, could be...so how does this primacy work?
 
@Cerberus well, it's a very basic memory thing - the strength of a memory for lists is first, last middle.
 
@kiamlaluno Yes, if you want it to be, old Mr Gramps! If you will stand here at the bus stop in the corridor, the bus will no doubt come in a few minutes to bring you home.
 
oh, I meant recency, not primacy
 
@Cerberus I mean, how do you know the behavior is not caused by personal experience?
 
10:23 PM
Hmm, this is all incredibly interesting.
@kiamlaluno Usually test subjects will be rejected for psychological experiments if the testers know them.
 
@Cerberus Uhmmm… Do you see bus stops inside corridors?
 
primacy is the first ting that happened - so he was nasty to them. Recency is the last thing that happened - he grovelled. primacy is stronger than recency, but something could override that in a social context
 
@Mahnax Personal experience doesn't mean you know the tester.
 
@MattЭллен Hmm, okay. But that is about the accuracy of memory; how does it apply to actually doing things, where you haven't really forgotten anything? A contrary effect could be that people might try to balance their good deed by a bad deed, thinking, "I already did that for him, so now I'm off the hook". Apparently that is not a decisive factor; but one could reason in that direction.
 
@kiamlaluno Oh, I was kind of responding to the ambulance thing, but never mind.
 
10:25 PM
Wonders what relationship there is between an ambulance, a bus stop, and a corridor.
 
@kiamlaluno I know they actually exist. Cf. this:
 
@kiamlaluno None of them would be found in a bathroom under usual circumstances.
@Cerberus That URL contains the words "fake bus stop".
 
@kiamlaluno Yeah, I'm assuming the experiment is half decent.
@Mahnax Uh, yes, that is kind of the point I was making.
This is in Holland.
 
@Mahnax I am so rich that my bathroom has a corridor. Now what do you reply to that?
 
It is real, and it works very well to calm people down who want to go "home".
 
10:28 PM
@Cerberus Huh? I thought you were trying to prove their existence. Hmm, I am not very good at this today.
 
@Mahnax Yes, to prove the existence of fake bus stops for old people!
What don't you understand?
 
@Cerberus I have a theory, but I will keep it for myself.
 
@Cerberus Oh! I missed the Mr. Gramps thing. thwacks self
 
Heh.
 
@Cerberus people tend to behave the way they behaved last, I guess. If you were just mean to someone, then you will continue to be mean to them, and nice then nice. Also, there is a delay factor - the time between payment and the last interaction between the participants and the actor is different. If you have a good interaction sooner before rating someone, you will be more likely to rate them high.
 
10:30 PM
@Mahnax Haha.
 
The people who were asked to give the money back by the secretary had a bad interaction really near the rating. The people who were cajoled by the actor had a good interaction quite near the rating - plus they did something nice to the actor
 
@Cerberus Meh.
 
@MattЭллен Yes, that sounds plausible. About the being mean if you have just been mean: isn't that mainly because you desire that your behaviour should be consistent? Especially when people are watching?
 
@Cerberus maybe.
it could equally be a learned response.
 
In the order the groups are mentioned in the summary at the end: A) treated rudely, win $, questionnaire. (5.8) B) treated rudely, win $, told by secretary that dept needs help and do favor, questionnaire. (4.4) C) treated rudely, win $, asked for a personal favor, questionnaire. (7.2)
 
10:32 PM
@MattЭллен Huh? If they gave it back to the scientist, there was more time between the good deed and the rating.
 
So, wut Matt sez.
 
@Cerberus not when compared to the group that weren't asked for their money back
@aediaλ yay! I'm not a complete lunatic
 
@aediaλ Huh? Your summary looks accurate; but what is your point?
@MattЭллен Ehhh in that case, there was no good deed, was there?
 
@Cerberus exactly, so the rating was lower
but there was a postive interaction - they got their money
 
The ones who rated the guy the highest had two nice things after one bad thing
The A group had a bad thing and a good thing and they just kinda canceled each other out
The B group had a bad thing, a good thing, and then a bad-ish thing
Interacting with the secretary and feeling obligated to do a favor to the department may have made them feel better about themselves but probably not change their opinion of the mean dude for the better
 
10:37 PM
@MattЭллен Yes, clearly; but, if I had to order factors by plausibility, I would rate "they realized the institute was having a hard time, and so they felt more sympathetic towards it" higher than "they gave a positive review because they were in a positive mood from doing their good deed". Not saying the good-good thing is irrelevant, but the sympathy thing just sounds better to me. Of course I can't prove anything.
 
Faceless generosity is very different from helping someone personally, according to something I read somewhere once probably on the internet
 
@Cerberus why would how they feel about the department make them rate the actor higher? They would feel that way when they gave the money back to the secretary
 
@aediaλ Yeah, sounds plausible.
 
yet then the actor gets rated lower
 
After giving in a donation box or something people then were less generous for the next 30 mins or something like that
I wish I could remember anything about it
 
10:39 PM
:D
excellent
@Cerberus plus it's important who they did the deed for.
the secretary or the scientist
 
@MattЭллен FYI, both people are actors. In any case, I'd say they strongly associated the scientist with the department; this might make them sympathize with him too. Or they might think, "ahhh, that's why he was so grumpy!", and partly forgive him. Or they might feel a bit guilty for hating the scientist when they hear the whole department is going through hard times.
 
@Cerberus sorry, yes, I mean scientist, where I say actor
 
@aediaλ Hmm, yes, I suppose that could work differently depending on whether it was anonymous or personal.
 
Group B is like "whatevs I already did my good deed by helping this poor secretary" when they get to the survey whereas C is like "I did well in the game and I helped this guy with my winnings, he wasn't so bad after all!"
 
@Cerberus But what happens is that you do a behaviour and that behaviour is strongly associated with the stimuli around you. If your behaviour is something that makes you feel good, and there is a person involved, then you will feel good about that person, so your next behaviour regarding that person is more likely to be in their favour.
 
10:44 PM
@aediaλ I agree that the interaction between scientist and subject v. between secretary and subject is probably what makes the difference; I just think the sympathy effect may be very important.
 
@Cerberus If it were their regular lives, someone they knew, they might well associate the scientist with the department and have all these feelings, but the participants probably don't want to be there in the first place and barely think about what they're doing, certainly not that much...
 
@MattЭллен That may be so, and I don't deny it; I'm just wondering how great that effect may be as compared to the sympathy effect.
@aediaλ Why not? If someone begs you for his money back, and you have the time to think about it as you are filling out this questionnaire and walking up the stairs, don't you ponder your experience, especially as the experiment has triggered a strong emotional response already (irritation)?
 
This is fun, but I have to sleep. Sorry cy'all
 
@MattЭллен Night night!
 
@MattЭллен Nighty!
 
10:54 PM
@Cerberus Well, sure. I'm thinking that I feel bad for the secretary and the lead scientist was a jerk, or I'm thinking that I misjudged the lead scientist and maybe his bad mood can be partly explained (as someone said earlier, I am also rationalizing the fact that I gave to him, so I'm changing my opinion).
 
@aediaλ Yes, exactly.
 
I'm not gonna get to the idea of scientist is part of the department so the fact that I gave to the secretary should make me feel compassion toward the scientist who could also be in a bad mood due to the department's money troubles during a walk up the stairs to answer a very brief questionnaire.
And you don't want me to - you want my more immediate reaction.
 
Ehh...do I?
 
0
Q: replacing "сum" in a sentance

NikitaWhat's a good word to replace "сum" in the following sentence: Open House cum 7th Anniversary Celebration early February. I am looking for a laconic word that would describe that these two events coincide and I would like to avoid the use of Latin in the sentence.

 
By tomorrow I could feel bad that I judged the scientist so harshly or I could have forgotten.
 
10:57 PM
I'm not sure what that question is asking.
 
I mean, that might be interesting too.
 
Oh, in that way.
 
Oh cum on.
 
But you want to know what I feel right away, not the explanation I come to after a lot of pondering, yeah?
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Are they trying to spell it wrong?
 
10:59 PM
It's "um" in the URL giggles uncontrollably
 
@aediaλ By you, do you mean "one", as in whoever analyses the experiment, or you, Cerberus?
 
Oh wait, Latin. Hold on.
 
@Mahnax They certainly aren't trying to spell it summa come laude.
 
@Cerberus One.
@Cerberus I mean, you too, maybe, but probably y'all's heads want to know lots of other things the experimenters don't.
 
@aediaλ Okay, yes, the questionnaire only tests your immediate response.
 
11:00 PM
_Cum grano salis._
 
Why did the chat room freeze?
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 What, you deleted me?
That's why I lost so many reps in the recalc!
 
Why?
 
11:01 PM
Flags.
And I must say they weren't entirely unjustified.
 
My answer had been there for seven months.
 
@Cerberus How many reps do you have?
 
How many votes did you have for it @Cerb?
 
@kiamlaluno Countless.
@Mahnax 13, but it doesn't matter.
 
@Mahnax OVER 9000.
 
11:02 PM
@Cerberus Hmm.
@RegDwightѬſ道 HIS POWER LEVEL!!!!elevent1y-one!!!!one
 
@kiamlaluno OVER 9000.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 I don't care, but I think people who flag such things are silly.
 
@Cerberus See the bright side: You had extra reputation for seven months.
 
@Cerberus Well how should I put it. It really isn't an answer to the question, is it?
 
@kiamlaluno Oh, I am suddenly overjoyed.
 
11:03 PM
Just like nohat's kiwi comic.
 
Was the answer offensive? Or just silly?
 
@Cerberus I have just a reputation per site, which means it's countable.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 No. hangs heads
 
@Mahnax it's been converted to a comment.
Which is fair game.
Jokes in comments are fine.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Oh, okay.
 
11:04 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 Does he have 9000 reputations? Wow, I just have one.
 
I personally think this website is sometimes taking itself way too seriously, but so be it.
 
I mean, on EL&U.
 
@Cerberus Well you know that we used to be different.
 
Hey, this website is for aficionados. We have to be serious.</?.*[&]>
 
@Cerberus Well, we already had episodes of TPTB coming down the hill saying we were doing something wrong.
 
11:06 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 Yes, and I mourn the loss. I don't see why it can't be like old times no more. What was wrong with that? We had good times here.
 
But frankly, with twenty thousand people onboard we have to become stricter lest the site degenerates into a collection of pun threads a la Reddit.
 
I don't see it degenerating yet in that way.
 
Precisely because I am running berserk 24/7 deleting stuff.
 
@Cerberus Indeed; somebody is taking the necessary actions.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 And I appreciate it.
 
11:07 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 Very nice.
 
But the closing of questions that everyone used to like is not to my liking.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Oh! Is that your sock puppet? I guess I should up-vote him when he writes an answer.
 
Not that you're doing that. But people have started voting to close old questions.
 
@Cerberus See, you don't even notice your stuff getting deleted. So I must be doing something right after all.
 
(Though, I don't remember any berserk user.)
 
11:08 PM
@kiamlaluno Are you trying to summon kinopiko?
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Why? He has never used berserk as username.
 
You sure? You sure?
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Of course I don't notice, and I don't care about that answer. And, again, it isn't you who is voting to close so many questions. But it seemed a good moment to whine a little bit.
 
@Cerberus Oh you know I am always here for all your whining needs.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Well, I am used to know well my enemies.
 
11:10 PM
And I'm always here for your whining.
 
Wine? Who talked of wine?
 
whinnies
 
@kiamlaluno Nobody. We only talked about vine.
 
(Now we passed to whipping cream.)
 
11:11 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 Kvin?
Is that a chicken pie?
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 I feel like that sometimes.
Like the man, not the dog.
I keep telling people how to speak; but do they listen?
 
Um. There's a man?
 
Human.
 
I only see Brian, the dog, and Stewie, the baby.
 
11:14 PM
I don't know the petty distinctions your species likes to make.
 
@Cerberus Right on, you bitch.
 
The human on the sofa.
@RegDwightѬſ道 Ehh we prefer sexually challenged canine nowadays.
 
What's the word for "male dog"?
 
Male dog?
 
Dawg?
 
11:16 PM
@kiamlaluno That's two words. Count them, two.
 
My dictionary says there is none!
English fails again in the "more words than other languages" department.
Dutch is reu.
 
Apr 11 '11 at 14:00, by Cerberus
Hey! Why be good if you be a baaad dawg.
@Cerberus Rüde.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Now you will tell me that you believe every is really a single word request.
Come on!
 
Eh what the fuck? Who said that!
 
@Cerberus That bitch over there did.
@kiamlaluno You misspelled cum.
Okay I'm gonna cut it for a second.
 
11:18 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 You misspelled miss pealed.
The second is passed.
 
@kiamlaluno I never.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 You do!
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 Haha, some of us must have been drunk there.
 
@Cerberus What gave it away? The Dutchman from Belgium? @Robusto faking it?
Apr 11 '11 at 14:07, by JSBangs
I DON'T BELIEVE THAT THE BELGISH COUNT AS DUTCH
 
All of those things are quite quotidian.
 
11:21 PM
We must do that again some time. Forcing @jsbngs to use capitals, that is.
 
Oh, yes!
Not an easy job.
 
Speaking of not an easy jobs, I guess I'll go try and get me some sleep.
Every morning I could kill for not waking up. Every evening I can't force myself to fall asleep.
 
@RegDwightѬſ道 That is not true as for now. :-)
 
Oh!
 
Bye @Reg!
 
11:26 PM
@RegDwightѬſ道 I always have that. A hard thing to accept.
I encourage any attempt to go to bed early, at least in theory.
 
@Cerberus I mean, now is already morning, and he is not killing for not waking up.
 
How do you know what he is doing right now?
 
@Cerberus Well, if he starts now, he would be really tired when he needs to wake up, later.
 
I am killing, in point of fact.
 
@kiamlaluno He could be your killer snowman in disguise.
 
11:30 PM
May 8 '11 at 1:18, by Cerberus
I am defeating enemy tanks.
 
Night, @Reg!
 
@aediaλ Oh oh! I fear he is.
 
But now I'm out of staminae's, so night all.
 
Now that I look better, I see the snowman could be a white owl.
 
Good niiiight!
 
11:31 PM
23
Q: "Login" or "log in"?

nickf Possible Duplicate: “log in to” or “log into” or “login to” Is there accepted terminology for the process of logging in? As a verb, would you say "Go to the website and log in", or "Go to the website and login"? As an adjective, would you say "Clic...

 
@Cerberus Nite.
 
Why is one of the first questions ever closed?
 
I was saying it to Reg!
 
Cerb never goes to bed this early.
 
@Mahnax Are the dupes better?
 
11:33 PM
@aediaλ Vote count for question/answers would indicate no.
 
Uhh then I don't know.
 
> The Backfire Effect. — The Misconception: When your beliefs are challenged with facts, you alter your opinions and incorporate the new information into your thinking. The Truth: When your deepest convictions are challenged by contradictory evidence, your beliefs get stronger.
 
Now, a question with ID equal to 23178 cannot be one of the first questions.
This is the first question.
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Q: When do I use "can" or "could"?

Ramprasad PrabhakarWhen should I use can? When should I use could? What is right under what context?

 
I really don't think it matters so much which one came first as long as we close dupes. I know the dupe message says "earlier questions on this topic" but I think that's misleading.
 
I think answers have more importance.
Vote for me, and I will give you a pancake for each of your answers with at least 5 up-votes.
 
11:38 PM
It's more like "there's already an answer on this thing, people don't need to answer it in two places"
I'm not sure what you're saying but I like pancakes!
 
@kiamlaluno Look at the date. It was certainly posted before the "original".
 
(Isn't that good, as election's promise?)
 
@kiamlaluno That was asked in 2010, the login/log in question was 2008.
 
@aediaλ I am referring to Stack Exchange elections.
 
Oh! The question was asked on Stack Overflow in 2008, then migrated here in 2011, therefore making it a dupe. I feel silly now.
 
11:40 PM
@Mahnax Yes, and the question has been closed on April 2011, a looooong way ago.
 
@Mahnax Ohh it was given to us as a ...delightful little dupe-y present. Yes.
 
@aediaλ I see. I should have examined it more closely beforehand.
 
Don't worry, it's hard to see all those freaking banners.
Half are at the top and half at the bottom.
I would whinny more about them, but I haven't the energy to suggest anything better.
 
Again with wine?
 
It's an important part of a balanced diet, no?
 
11:42 PM
Why does this article insist that people "always" strengthen their beliefs when facing evidence to the contrary?
 
They were worried that if they didn't write in such extremes, people might not strengthen their beliefs in response to it?
 
@aediaλ But I have already had it before. I cannot take it anymore.
 
@aediaλ Uh hah! I see what you are doing.
I know I tend to do my best to argue my case, and I might not so easily concede that I was wrong on the spot; but I may do so later, after giving it some more thought.
 
Uhmmm… Bagels…
 
I know, but I can't help teasing you, puppy. It's like you always go for the chew toy.
 
11:45 PM
My typical reaction to evidence that I don't want to believe even though it looks very convincing is "hmm, I don't know"—not "oh, now I am even less convinced than before".
@aediaλ Yeah, my genes caused my body to be so.
 
Don't they give cow's ears, to dogs? I though the chew toy era was over.
 
I have no qualms about chew toys.
 
Q-what?
 
No inhibitions or scruples.
 
Oh, that q-what. I was thinking it was the "sick feeling" q-what.
 
11:48 PM
Queasy?
 
Quasi.
 
touches tummy I don't feel particularly queasy about quasi.
 
Qualms can make you queasy.
 
Yes.
So why breed them?
> The last time you got into, or sat on the sidelines of, an argument online with someone who thought they knew all there was to know about health care reform, gun control, gay marriage, climate change, sex education, the drug war, Joss Whedon or whether or not 0.9999 repeated to infinity was equal to one – how did it go?
> Did you teach the other party a valuable lesson? Did they thank you for edifying them on the intricacies of the issue after cursing their heretofore ignorance, doffing their virtual hat as they parted from the keyboard a better person?
 
Oh Lord, they even copied quasi.
 
11:51 PM
Sometimes, yes, this happens.^
I don't like this pessimism about the human mind.
 
Should not be there a comma, before "a better person"?
(The worst is that they say it's a Latin word!)
 
@kiamlaluno Hmm no.
It is "to part a better person". Those words should be closely linked together.
 
@Cerberus But it sounds better, "doffing their virtual hat as they parted from the keyboard, a better person."
 
@Cerberus Hmm. Because qualms are quasi-questions, and we need to quibble to querulously... uhh I got stuck because I can't think of a q-word for progress or anything like that. But it was going swimmingly before that.
 
As in "she grew up a raving atheist".
@kiamlaluno No, I disagree.
 
11:54 PM
@aediaλ That is quasi-progress.
But why? They parted from the keyboard, which is a better person.
 
giggles
 
Think of that. Have a keyboard ever insulted you?
 
@kiamlaluno No, the structure is like "they became a better person". It is an idiomatic expression.
 
Again the snowman/owl.
 
@kiamlaluno No, and it bears the brunt of my moods perfectly willingly!
I think Mr Shiny even washed one and it was fine.
 
11:56 PM
@kiamlaluno Che cosa?
 
@Cerberus What?
 
@aediaλ Oh yes, or JSB.
@kiamlaluno Yes, "what is that?". Did I say it wrong?
 
If you want to say it the Calabrian way, you can say che tieni?
 
Ah.
"What have you?"?
 
@Cerberus Oh it could have been. I can't remember.
 
11:57 PM
Che hai?
@Cerberus No, I meant "what 'che cosa'?"
@Cerberus So when you say they parted from the keyboard a better person do you mean they became a better person?
 

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