I've had the same thing happen before, 4 mile trip to go 500 feet. Traffic "control" in large American cities is a thing. It usually helps to put stuff into Google maps and get directions first.
Here in the Midwest, most larger cities are getting better about having bicycle infrastructure in place, especially around downtown and adjacent suburbs. Farther out in the country it gets to be a bit of a bitch though...
Or around commercial centers where most hotels are