Respect: Trust my decisions, and if you challenge my ideas make sure it's not ad hominem.
Budget: Understand the price of doing business and don't expect miracles from shoestrings, and do go open-source just because "Hey, it's free! Right?"
Boundaries: I go home, and I read, and talk to friends, and work in the yard. Calling me at 8PM is because of emergencies, and is not the norm. Don't expect me to jump on the weekends, every weekend.