\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{memoize}
\usepackage[T1]{fontenc}
\mmzset{%
prefix=memos/,
% auto=\my{memoize,},
}
\NewDocumentCommand\my{+m}
{#1}
\NewDocumentCommand\mya{+O{O}+m}
{#1: #2}
\ExplSyntaxOn
\str_new:N \g__xcmd_got_cmd_str
\cs_new_protected:Npn \__xcmd_get_cmd:N #1
{
\group_begin:
\cs_set_eq:NN \__xcmd_tl_show:n \tl_show:n
\cs_set_eq:NN \tl_show:n \__xcmd_get_cmd_store:n
\ShowCommand #1
\group_end:
% \str_show:N \g__xcmd_got_cmd_str
}
\cs_new_protected:Npn \__xcmd_get_cmd_store:n #1