I had to go to rehab because of my little hat problem. I'm feeling much better now though. — KitFox2 days ago
@TRiG Well, it’s sometimes uneven, but I in general like it. I’ve gotten a bit weary of all the dick-jokes this season, though. Yes, I’ve listened to David’s show before.
@tchrist I no longer have access to television (not quite true), so I tend to see little extracts of QI out of order on YouTube. I've probably not seen many of this season's episodes.
@TRiG I haven’t had TV service in longer than you have been alive. But one can find these things if one tries. I liked the 2011 Christmas episode with Brian Blessed.
@tchrist I have never seen Daniel Radcliff act. I've seen none of his films. But I quite like the character he presents in interviews. He gave an excellent interview to the gay magazine Attitude a few years back.
Jack Whitehall was on Would I Lie to You? once, and referred to his mother as "Mother", not "my mother", and was immediately mocked for being extremely posh. (Whether he actually does talk like that, or was just having a slip of the tongue, I don't know.)
Did you see the one where Phill was imitating Hugh?
The thing about Emma and Stephen and Hugh is that they actually seem like real people still in interviews, not assholes. I cannot understand how that happened.
@Kit I've tried writing limericks starting with the punchline, like you said. It definitely makes it easier to finish, but harder to start. Overall I think it's better.
@tchrist Modes of address are different to modes of reference, aren't they? (I don't know the right terminology here.) What would you call her if you were talking about her?
Mom is common, but Mother sounds ever so slightly formal or serious. It does not have a class connotation here that I can fathom. Unless it happens and I am oblivious.
As I said, Mother is common on the English side. It may not occur on the Danish side.
I am hardly socially adroit, especially with respect to people who differ from me in education (what you might call class), so perhaps I would not notice if there were some big difference.
My brother always refers to our parents as Mother and Father.
Not as Mom and Dad.
But he is an overeducated professor with a chair of some sort.
Not my idea of education, but still.
I try not to open my mouth in certain neighborhoods. I don’t know how to pretend to be working class. My speech betrays me.
I think it's culturally different in the States. It's not all that long ago that children would address their father as Sir. Perhaps they still do. That would never happen over here.
When my maternal parent heard a Southern friend of mine do that to his own progenitress, she soon thereafter informed me that she would surely burst into tears if I ever treated her so sternly as to call her Maam. It would be mean.
The Mason–Dixon Line was the one that separated the North from the South, or us from them, or free and slave, or Union and Confederacy, or yankees and traitors nés rebels.
So what in the South was and indeed apparently still is an expected politeness is in the North a rude distancing.
You use Sir/Maam with people you do not know or do not like, or both.
@tchrist It's interesting the differences. I wouldn't think of myself as very class-aware, but Jack's "I met them through Mother" immediately set off the same alerts in my head as it did for his fellow-guests on the panel.
It's an adjective, meaning that someone "speaks politely". It seems to me to be a perfectly ordinary and common expression, although I accept it may be a regionalism.
No, actually, I wouldn't be surprised to read it in any newspaper. And the more I think about it, the more I think that it is NOT a regionalism. Perhaps it's just not used in North America, or maybe just not in the northern USA. It would be interesting to hear from a Canadian, or from a Southerner.
What? Saying someone is well-spoken is a simple enough compliment, albeit uncommon insofar as it is uncommon to find people with good manners and good diction. I just wanted to understand if it was some veiled allusion to class.
At which point, it is no longer a compliment, but a dig.