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Hi! I see this: "Live Respect" in the context of some coinage like "Live Respect, lead action", then "#LivingRespect". Then I see something like this: claires-community.org/liverespect. Am I right to think that this "live" is an adjective and not a verb? Seems non-native speakers around me read this as "live the respect", like the phrase "live the life", whereas I think it's more like "live rounds", "live coals" etc. Secondly, what would this mean?? Something like "in practice"?
In something like "LivingRespect", it's the respect that is "living", not a person "experiencing respect"? Am I right?
If this were spoken, you would know right away since the adjective and the verb are not pronounced the same. But here I only have the text. I was discussing this with a translator, at first she thought there was a mistake and a comma was missing, like "Live, Respect" but no, it's actually "Live Respect".
Any thoughts? Thanks!
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Makes sense to me.
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@ʁəfələmələ If you watch the video on that page, they pronounce live like the verb, not like the adjective
At some point, I forget this is supposed to be a fun hobby and start acting like an elementary school crossing guard: Move it along; clear the street. No monkey business. Phweet! Zweet!!
Maybe it's time for a break. (Reads three lines…Zzz)
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@alphabet True, I didn't. So once again I was off. Man.
Thanks!
Why is the phrase "Live Respect" not built like "Live the life". English is hard.
Why is it that "live respect" doesn't feel very grammatical to me.
Because I'm old. Do you feel this collocation is very modern, something?
*I didn't notice.
 
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@ʁəfələmələ Yeah, it's one of those slogans that doesn't actually make any sense if you look at it too closely.
There's a fine line between "punchy and concise" and "nonsensical and vapid."
You could start a brand with the slogan "Don't be don't" and people would call it cool.
The English language is a bit like magic. It's been decades upon decades I can speak the language, but it still it eludes me. Something overly pragmatic about it. Also, nondescript and random, unpredictable.
Anyways, I parse "don't be don't" better than "Live Respect" in an way. Wtf.
@ʁəfələmələ Wiktionary actually lists this meaning of live: "To act habitually in conformity with; to practice; to exemplify in one's way of life." But it sounds odd to me in this context.
Makes perfect sense I guess, but the phrase feels truncated, or very very modern or something. It's the syntax of it that threw me off. Or maybe I'm relying on French or something which interferes.
@ʁəfələmələ Why couldn't the language with a billion non-native speakers be one that makes more sense? I'd blame the British Empire for this, but it's probably equally America's fault.
I'm hyper-correcting the assumption it's the verb because there is no the. Meh, I don't blame the language, I blame my poor command of it.
I was working on something else this afternoon and the translator asked me for advice and I just fucked up. Such is life.
I just need to deal with it.
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@ʁəfələmələ You wouldn't expect a the there; respect is one of those nouns that can either be a count noun or a noncount noun and there's no reason to have a definite article with it there.
Yeah, I hear you, but I wanted it to be like "live the life".
But it's one type of life... style. So yeah.
Generally I grasp things many non-native speakers don't, but not in this case. Just being tough on myself here.
Live to fight another day, something something.
Often we have to deal with native speakers who can't really explain what they mean, then we don't have lots of folks who speak French who can grasp, then we have to do our best to make it happen. It's the name of the game. Whatever.
TGit'sFridayEve.
Anyways, thanks!
@ʁəfələmələ That's a separate sense of the word live; it's one of those phrases like "die a death."
@ʁəfələmələ You may learn from the ELL forum that native speakers are often quite bad at explaining how their own language works.
I know I know, I've been around for a decade plus.
But learners over-rationalize stuff too, sometimes.
Anyways, thanks for your help @alphabet
I'll sleep on it.
Cheers!
03:54
@alphabet So, the same way you pronounce it in Livestrong (what a bittersweet throwback)
 
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@Robusto Yes, in Dutch j is pronounced /j/, like y in English yes.
@Laurel Turned out the real way to live strong involves a whole lot of drugs.
Frankly, if you're not using drugs to help you increase your muscle mass, you're just being inefficient and wasting unnecessary time exercising /s
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@alphabet Too bad drugs aren't healthy, huh.
I wonder how unhealthy the likes of Ozempic are.
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@Cerberus Surely they massively improve one's health, on balance, for most obese people.
@alphabet Quite probably.
What about the moderately fat?
I want to ask a question about my vanished diabetes and constantly elevated urinary cortisol on a Russian medical forum, but I haven't been able to do this since last Spring, because I cannot focus my attention. Something's wrong with my brain.
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I'm afraid I know nothing about this.
 
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@HippoSawrUs Don't have to worry in this case. The trademark has expired. Also, the question survived and I just chose the accepted answer. But I still like your term "mural binding" better. Maybe you should trademark that one!
 
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@Cerberus So the "dj" sound in Djakarta would approximate the English J. Thanks!
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What exactly are they trying to say by "on us" in this ad posted by YouTube on their main page?
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@MichaelRybkin It means, basically, "free". They'll be covering the cost, for a limited time.
It's a familiar come-on for getting people to try something.
Is it true that New York metro station stinks and is dirty, also with rats running here and there?
I read it on Reddit, where people said Indian metro stations are much cleaner than USA.
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@CowperKettle Vanished diabetes, really, or just normal blood glucose level? You can achieve that by just washing it out every day with fluids. That's what I was doing, for well over a year. My doc said I was pickling my brain. She was right. Your cells have to actually absorb the insulin. There's a test for that. Just the A1C is not enough. I drank a gallon of fluid every day; that defeats an A1C every time. Absorption is key.
I wish you well.
Okay, absorb, absorbs, absorbed…absorption. Did B get tired or what? Let's just flip down and take a noun nap…bpZzz. What's that called? That's why I can't spell without googling, stuff like that.
@Robusto Yes, my parents pronounced "Djakarta" identically with how I pronounce "Jakarta". I think it's purely an orthographic change, not pronunciation change (with the exception of calling out the letters in the alphabet).
@GratefulDisciple I think I said "binding mural" and your "mural binding" is much better. It's probably your term actually. :-)
@HippoSawrUs Sorry, miswrote it. I meant "binding mural"
@GratefulDisciple Yours is still better, I think.
@HippoSawrUs Either one works, I guess.
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@Mitch Wait, isn't entrophy just a way of saying lazy and crazy at the same time…
Why doesn't my keyboard have a thinking emoji?
That would eliminate so many dots.
@HippoSawrUs Even though '...' is a sign of being a boomer, it takes fewer key strokes...easier to type.
Screw those kids
With their emojis and emoticons and shit...
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@HippoSawrUs to be properly crazy, I think you have to put some energy into it. So not really lazy.
Also, laziness is the most rational response to most everything.
Except for fire.
Then you should run.
@Vikas yes the NYC subway stations are pretty dirty. The below grounds ones also always have something gross dripping from the ceilings and often, it not always, a rat scurrying along the tracks (not people accessible), above ground they have years of pigeon poop along the tin roofs.
I suppose the Delhi train stations are somewhat newer and haven't had time to accumulate city soot and grime.
I bet the monkeys have already accessed the Delhi train stations. But they are probably cleaner than rats. I don't know, are they?
I haven't been on a Delhi subway or train station but from the outside they look pretty nice (not dirty, lots of well tended plants/flower decoration)
NYC stations do not have anything like that at all.
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@Mitch But what if I'm a savant 🤔 and I don't really have to think or do energy.
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@HippoSawrUs I think it was not a diabetes from the start. A case of misdiagnosis.
@Mitch I'm this close to getting a pellet gun to take out the rats that skitter across the sidewalk at night. The population seems to be doing quite well in Boston. I haven't actually seen any in a T station, but that's probably just because I'm usually not there at night.
They take away valuable trash from the more important members of the discardation ecosystem.
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16:43
@alphabet you're so ratist.
Why do Republicans hate fasces so much?
You know that story about when bears discover fire?
Holy crap what if rats do?
They have little five-fingered hands and are smart as a whip.
The only thing stopping them is a consistent non&human produced food source.
As a future rat-king advisor, I suggest starting with investing some farm land in Nebraska.
I was about to say I hear there's going to be a lot of available prime farming land on the market pretty soon in Ukraine.
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If it weren't for the plague I think we'd get along fine with rats.
I mean that was 700 years ago. Get over it already.
Nobody is blaming the cows for anthrax, amirite!
I guess we'd all be a little leery if a cow was rummaging through our trash though.
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@Mitch @Robusto @Cerberus I'm challenging my Christian brothers and sisters with this peacemaking question. One person already rewarded me with a close vote. But how do you like it? Don't hesitate to nominate me for the 2025 Nobel Peace Prize or if none of you qualify to nominate someone (see the 9 categories) you can suggest me to someone who does.
18:47
@Robusto Thank you very much.
@GratefulDisciple Hmm I know very little about religion, sorry.
19:04
@GratefulDisciple I have no idea about religion on this level, but I think it's a bit of a red flag to have "ways to answer"
@Cerberus That's okay, I expected that. It was somewhat a tounge-in-cheek message.
@Laurel Re: "red flag". I agree, but unfortunately that's the reality of the divisions within Christianity. But I'm hopeful. The trend is going toward more unity while remaining different. The motto is "unity in diversity".
I think all religions have their divisions, but at least in Christianity it's not a cause for wars anymore.
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@Laurel What does a red flag mean?
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@GratefulDisciple I think the three should all emphasize how much they revere their Jewish commonalities.
@Mitch I should watch The Office, it's about time. Came across Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles the other day and watched part of the pilot episode. Quite good. What do you think?
@Mitch Yup, all 3 branches should be more aware of their Jewish heritage. But thankfully, it's going in that direction too, at the exegetical level.
@GratefulDisciple my opinion is that the Office and Terminator are, as works of art, somewhat incompatible
To be honest though I don't think I've seen the Sarah Connor Chronicles.
I've seen most of the movies I think
I don't think there much Christianity in them.
Is that where this was going?
@Mitch Same with me. Only the first 2 movies are good though; but the pilot episode looks promising.
Like the others pinged, I don't know enough about it all to reply intelligently.
So I reply unintelligently
Or unintelligibly
@Mitch Well, maybe saving humanity is. But not the time travel part, nor the machines becoming conscious like the Terminators.
19:47
Or unillegibly
@Mitch You're okay, I just want a little sympathy of an issue that I know somewhat not of you guys' concern.
For example, my most recent question in English.SE got no negatives and +12 but what I think is a very important question in Christianity.SE got only +2 so far and one -1 and a close vote. People just don't want to reach across the aisle. Which is sad enough in US politics, but especially so in a religion preaching unity.
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@GratefulDisciple This strikes me as way too long for a single answer, which generally shouldn't be more than 2-3 paragraphs at most. I think you need to cut this down into something smaller.
@Cerberus I mean metaphorically. A red flag is a bad sign for something while a green flag is good and a yellow flag is not clearly either.
this looks so familiar to me
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@Laurel Yellow flag is a warning. BTW, it's such a universal cultural convention nowadays to see those 3 colors in all kinds of appliances, computer equipments (think printers, mice battery indicator, etc.), gadgets, but most importantly aircraft cockipts!
@alphabet So NigelJ is right after all. I guess my question requires at least an essay-long answer. This is a question that I plan to answer myself. I'll report back to you after I'm done.
@GratefulDisciple I mean, it does seem like you have a section explaining how to write an essay. It would probably be fine if you just kinda took one point from the "ways to answer" list and made that the question. Like, #5, ask "are there any common features of all 3 branches' theology regarding tradition", list a few examples in the question from your favorite branch (:p) so people understand the type of features you're looking for and cut pretty much everything else
@Laurel Thanks, that's a good advice. I guess I'm being ambitious to ask for the final result by motivating the 3 branches to see that this project is workable in the first place (divisions tend to be entrenched). It's basically a plea to the 3 branches that there are many ways to bridge the gap in the divisions and to have this Q&A serves as a starting principle toward a more fleshed out ecumenism.
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RobustoIf you use an article with advice you have to use a counter: A friendly piece of advice. A friendly bit of advice. No one who is fluent in English (AmE or BrE) would say A friendly advice. [Wrong!] To omit the article, those speakers would say Some friendly advice.

@GratefulDisciple I mean, you don't have to treat questions like a finite resource. You can see how getting one facet of the information plays out and then ask another question.
I'm curious if the answer you originally envisioned is also too long and broad
@GratefulDisciple toake sure you can do that even if the question is closed is to write a stub of a question right now and submit it, and immediately delete it.
That way you can edit your answer at leisure and then undelete it when you feel like it.
But yeah like Lauren and Alphabet said, it's probably too big of a scope for a single question. Split it up? (I'm not sure how)
@Mitch Yes, that's a nice trick. But I don't think it will be closed though; it's just not many people are on board with this idea. At any rate (having enough reputation) I see that someone is preparing an answer (he deleted it but I think plan to edit and publish it later). Or maybe he's using your trick :-)
@Laurel Thanks again for the suggestion; it's useful for this type of "grand" questions. In Christianity.SE it's actually not that rare. One of the moderators posted this question which requires an essay-long answer too. Most comparative-christianity tagged questions are that way.
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@GratefulDisciple I think that question has the benefit of not being an essay itself (noting that this comment does come from a standpoint of hypocrisy if you've ever seen the way I write). It's also considerably easier to grasp for me
@Mitch Flamenco dancing? I'm sure I've never had that much follow through about anything.
@Laurel OK so a bad sign is pretty mild?
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@CowperKettle OIC. I guess that's pretty common, symptoms and conditions that mimic diabetes; e.g., hypothyroidism. I think there's not enough real doctors and specialists to go around. It takes a lot of tries to find a good one, lucky or not.
@HippoSawrUs It took 23 years and five hospitalizations for Yekaterinburg doctors to finally decide that it's not diabetes, and to tell me to stop injecting insulin, which they had put me on in 2011.
@MetaEd Yes, ours looked like that.
@Cerberus Yeah, mild in this case. Could be used for a more serious situation; red/yellow/green flag is a metaphor used a lot to get people to evaluate the health of their romantic relationships, so a red flag there could mean something really bad
Now it has taken a bunch of tests for them to decide that yes, I have a slight hyper-cortisolemia. But they told me "return in 6 months, repeat the tests".
Looks like my cortisol levels have been elevated ever since April 2018.
I composed a table with values and they are high, despite antidepressants.
I'm also taking 75 mcg thyroxine, despite my T3 and T4 never, ever being out of the normal range.
The thing about the flag metaphor is that by using it, you're acknowledging that, while you're making a judgement, you don't have the full story
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I've been taking thyroxine since about 2016.
@CowperKettle Wow, you would have grounds for malpractice here.
@HippoSawrUs I guess I have grounds here too, but my brain would break apart if I try suing anybody. It's too much mental work.
I can't focus on mental work.
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I mean, we all do, somewhat, but you have a long recorded history, which makes a tremendous case.
I'm delivering food because I lost the ability to translate texts quickly in November 2020.
And my room is quite cluttered, because it's a lot of mental work to focus and throw out the cluttering things
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@CowperKettle That's what lawyers are for, specific ones.
I have a large PC case that just stands around, I've been thinking of taking it apart and looking what's inside, and maybe giving it away. I've been thinking about that for years.
I can't stop injecting insulin, because weird symptoms appear.
@CowperKettle We threw out so much, somebody threw away the tool and charger for the alarm system.
The endocrinologist says "it's psychosomatic, go to the shrink". I told her: "I've been to 2 shrinks, and two psychotherapists, they say they don't know what that is".
Who can manage these wild young helpers, but it's better to have a clean slate.
She said "stop injecting insulin". I said "will you pay me money if I stop work due to attacks that will resume". She said "it's psychosomatic".
And so we amicably parted.
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You have to have a good doctor. That's key.
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And so we amicably parted.
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If you go to doctors often enough, one of them will diagnose you with something.

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