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12:07 AM
Hi~
 
hello!
 
hello
 
How are you all?
 
That's good :)
 
12:10 AM
How are you?
 
Kind of sad, because after the holidays, I won't be able to see a friend, because my schedule will change, and I won't have any classes with them.
 
That sucks. Will you get any opportunities to see them outside of class/school?
 
that's sucky.
 
 
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1:57 AM
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Q: Is it better to treat everyone the same, or perhaps be a little extra kind to those who are more likely to face discrimination or bigotry?

RockPaperLizardI read, with interest, the question and answers to How to help a male-presenting person shop for women's clothes? Some of the answers to that question prompts this question. Recently, I complimented a stranger with a male physique on their amazing outfit - an outfit typically worn by women. ...

 
 
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A J
5:34 AM
Morning!
 
6:16 AM
Morning :)
 
A J
6:32 AM
@avazula Now, it's afternoon. :P
 
@AJ haha :)
I guess we're 5:30 hours apart then :p
7.30AM here
 
Hey everyone :)
 
A J
Yello!
 
 
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7:50 AM
Morning :)
Noon for AJ :p
 
8:04 AM
And AJ for Noon? :p
Sorry that's a bad joke (@Ælis will get it :p)
 
A J
@CaldeiraG Good afternoon! And thanks for personalized greetings. ;)
 
@AJ You're welcome :)
@chumpbot morning happy cat (quite impossible huh)
 
i'll take that :D
 
8:33 AM
@chumpbot anti-tiredness cat!
 
yaaay
 
A J
@chumpbot dog
 
A J
lol
@chumpbot bird
 
8:48 AM
@AJ pigeon or sparrow?
 
A J
Pigeon
 
9:08 AM
 
A J
@Ælis No. This one.
I am not a photoshop expert, though.
 
@AJ That's... a weird looking bird :p
 
A J
9:26 AM
@Ælis Well, that's Pig and Eon. ;P
 
Oh! x)
 
9:52 AM
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Q: what are the things to say to your girlfriend

whiz kingmy girlfriend just insulted me, i can tolerant her any more. what should i say to her

 
x)
 
10:57 AM
I hate Reddit lol, they spoiled a Tv show finale without tagging as spoiler x_x
And i didn't watch the finale yet so oof
 
A J
@CaldeiraG Nice! Pay a visit to Movies & TV sometimes. ;P
We have cookies and spoilers. :P
 
@AJ ;p don't have any interesting question to make, besides probably every tv show i watch is unpopular there xD
@AJ I like cookies :p
 
A J
@CaldeiraG You can ask about any show there regardless of popularity. I am sure you are not the only one who watch that,
 
I know but I like to read Q&A's, not asking them xD
HNQ is a +1 of SE in general
 
In case you are wondering, writing web API tests is borring. Writing User Interface test is way funnier. Too bad I have to write those we API tests...
 
11:26 AM
mfw most recent 4 questions are all on hold
 
leaving adblocker enabled forever
this is surreal
 
@AlexRobinson That's not that much unusual. We close a lots of questions
 
@Ælis oh yeah for sure, it just doesn't give the best impression lol
 
@CaldeiraG I wish I had a adblocker on my phone. Some sites are really awful
 
god, mobile sites really are the worst
 
11:37 AM
@Ælis On a rooted Android device you can get a adblocker, otherwise a PiHole will also do
Other than that, don't know any more options :(
 
@CaldeiraG I'm on Android
 
@Ælis You need to root it from my experience so you can access a hosts file of some kind (a hosts file is a file typically on Windows that you can use to block websites on the machine)
I used AdAway, it was pretty effective
 
@CaldeiraG I'll take it a look, thanks :)
 
12:23 PM
Afternoon
 
Heya!
 
A J
Evening!
 
I've edited interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/23613/…, I hope it's actually on topic now.
 
@AJ I just got yearling badges on M&TV again... I didn't do anything there this year though! :P
 
@Tinkeringbell Your question rep probably got recalculated
 
A J
12:34 PM
@Tinkeringbell You have enough rep for that. :P
 
@AJ I know :P Enough for three more years too, I think ;)
@Belle Oof, that's a hard one... because it's almost never inappropriate to be kind to someone...
I'm almost thinking it's basically asking 'how can I judge if people will appreciate the kindness or not'... which is way harder question :|
 
12:51 PM
honestly i feel the question would be a better fit for philisophy SE
 
1:07 PM
I have a new favourite colleague, he just dropped a mug of fresh ginger tea by my desk
 
@Belle :D
 
@Belle It still feels very (too) broad to me :/
Maybe with a specific example, it would be better
 
 
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2:19 PM
i just found out one of my favourite bands made a cover of a song by one of my other favourite bands :o
 
And now both are ruined forever? :p
 
@AlexRobinson I want names :D
 
2:59 PM
Hello, everybody! How're you all doing?
 
@avazula trash boat covering linkin park's given up :D
 
3:24 PM
Hello been away for a while
Happy thanksgiving if you're in the US
Staying home this year for thanksgiving
 
Oh, I applied to university :)
 
hello! welcome back to TAS :)
@Belle nice!!
 
Hello ElizB :)
I wrote them a really nice email asking if I can study at 2/3rd speed, so my chances of succeeding are higher. I hope the answer is yes. Then I can combine it with my job. If I'd have to give up my job, I'd have to move elsewhere and sell my car and I really really don't want that. Actually, I think moving and selling my car may lower my chances of succeeding significantly. I don't do well in public transport, my car is my mobility. And my house is my home, it's a place I can relax.
At first I felt bad about asking for a lower speed so I could keep my luxuries. Then I reminded myself that they're not luxuries, they're things I need to function as a normal human being.
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@Belle nothing really wrong with taking a slower pace if its what you need
I had a classmate who took one module a semester (stretching a 2 year course to about 4) cause he had to balance it with work
 
3:47 PM
That seems fair. I hope I can do that. Watching recordings of lectures also helps for me. The social aspects of college just take far more spoons for me than studying at home or work does.
 
I get
I had a lot of trouble myself.
 
@Belle I'm enrolled in a distance learning program and it has been wonderful for that.
Everything is online
 
@AGirlHasNoName I've looked into those, but I can't find a good quality one or they cost a fortune. May I ask which one you're doing?
 
Thanks for the compliment! If I may add: I'd suggest reading our two answers in tandem. Mine is more of an immediate solution which relies on the individual realizing the unproductive nature of their behavior; this relies on the person on the receiving end of the bad behavior taking more assertive long-term action. Have an upvote for that reason! — baldPrussian 1 min ago
#23615 baldPrussian (26704 rep) | A: How to handle someone making a scene in public? (score: 1) | posted 8 hours ago by dhein (2326 rep) | Toxicity 0.0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
 
@Belle I am doing Colorado State U - Global
My wife did Penn State -World
I don't think there is such a thing a college education that doesn't cost a fortune
That's how they keep the poor people out
and we wouldn't want them experiencing class mobility, would we?
 
3:55 PM
Blasphemy
 
I originally graduated high school with honours at 16, while the normal age is 18. My parents live in the middle of nowhere, so I had to move out to be able to go to university. To say that wasn't good for my mental health is a severe understatement
@AGirlHasNoName Oof, that's expensive :O I've got a budget of 5k a year
 
@Belle Student Loans?
 
@AGirlHasNoName I'm not eligible for government student loans in Netherlands. But since I'm a EU citizen, I can study at the local university (Delft) for just 2k a year.
 
@Belle ahh yeah, the US system is a bit different than the EU one.
 
4:15 PM
UK is 9.25k per year but then student loans are really nice
 
4:36 PM
i'm halfway to my 80 flags silver badge :o
 
@AlexRobinson Halfway? Should be easy enough here
 
yep! i just find it mildly amusing because i have yet to post a non-meta answer
 
Computer science in Delft would take me around 5 years at 2k a year = 10k. It's apparently really good program (top 100 of the world). Contacts with my fellow students will help.
The alternative is the Open University (https://www.ou.nl/-/BTI-2019-2020_Bachelor-Informatica-BSc?redirecter=/opleiding-overzicht), which has a flat cost of about 12k (assuming no resits), and is fully online with tests in an exam center.
Price-wise it doesn't matter much. It's basically, do I want to study online or do I want to go to a really good university
I heard from a lot of Dutch people that employers say a degree from OU doesn't "count". It's accredited, but they seem to think it's too easy to get. How do people (employers) in your countries think about that?
 
4:58 PM
@Belle Some programs are not explicitly "online". My wife's degree is from PSU. There is no indication that she wasn't there in person. That said, many people still have this belief that online degrees are not as valuable. I am hoping there is less of that in the tech world where remote work is valued and people can understand the concept of distance learning better.
 
 
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6:58 PM
I got a few credits from PSU for my degree during summer a few years ago
 
7:29 PM
@CaldeiraG drop in chat.. throw some recommendations
 

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