Why do you want to sent her a gift if you are not that close and you are not interested in getting closer? I really think you should reflect and include your reasons in your post. Interpersonal relationships are complex and always unique. You are right, this could be extremely creepy, it could also be not creepy at all depending on your relationship. You haven't included enough information for people to make that call, please consider describing everything a bit better. —
Raditz_35 1 min ago