The question is very unclear. I suspect "cheat" is a mistranslation. Otherwise, it comes across as if you think your friend is only allow to have one other friend (you). — Flater37 secs ago
Note that your use of 'mansplaining' and 'whitesplaining' are really sexist and racist terms. It's a bit hypocrite to complain about this subject while using these sexist and racist terms yourself... — Hans Janssen43 secs ago