Machine translation should NEVER be used for anything financially or medically important!!!! — WGroleau 58 secs ago

While diagnosing things like a depression is not something you can do online (as you write), you do have a point. It does seem OP and wife need professional help, but from my experience, not taking on all blame is a good start.The wife seems to doing very little to save the relationship (because she cannot or does not want to, we don't know), and that's no way to have a relationship between adults. — sleske 1 min ago

Good point to use professionalism - that makes it clear why you disagree. — sleske 1 min ago

While this is an excellent answer, it seems it was copy-pasted without following the license requirements of the original page - see wikihow.com/wikiHow:Attribution . I believe at least the attribution is missing. Also, the original page is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 3.0, which explicitly forbids commercial use, while this site uses CC-BY-SA. I'm no lawyer, but I think this means this answer may violate the license. I'm flagging this for moderator attention. — sleske 1 min ago